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Relationships 1554 topics

Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.
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Pass the barge-pole!
Sorry folks; I'm just venting: A 'friend' just e-mailed me this: (I have changed ex's name to Dickhead)

I am sorry to tell you that I have found a w ...
31 Jul 08, by Sera
Latest 02 Aug 08 by Sera
Replies:23
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Latest by Sera
02 Aug 08
Feeling confused and lost again today
Hi all

Why do those bad days come along and just knock you sideways again. I have been dreading the summer holidays off as I knew I would have too muc ...
01 Aug 08, by linda.c
Latest 01 Aug 08 by linda.c
Replies:10
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Latest by linda.c
01 Aug 08
Please help me.................im a mess
Hiya all.
Im Matt and :blush:
23 Jun 08, by Matt/24/7
Latest 01 Aug 08 by kidsinbulgaria
Replies:48
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Latest by kidsinbulgaria
01 Aug 08
Backwards
After 3 months, I was making great progress and getting better and stronger each day.

But now, I have a taken a big step backwards. Why? because my ex ...
31 Jul 08, by buxtonman
Latest 31 Jul 08 by linda.c
Replies:2
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Latest by linda.c
31 Jul 08
HELP is my wiki love cheating on me?
Hi all you lovely wiki peps

I have been thinking for a while now that my wiki lover is cheating on me. I have been hurt before and I can see the signs. ...
27 Jul 08, by ivorytower
Latest 31 Jul 08 by dukey
Replies:44
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Latest by dukey
31 Jul 08
Sometime to be Ex just wont let go and plagues me.
I have awful problems with my wife not accepting our separation, which has now been almost 3 years. While we were together we were distant and she more or less ...
29 Jul 08, by elephantandcastle
Latest 30 Jul 08 by lillyanne
Replies:3
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Latest by lillyanne
30 Jul 08
anyone from swindon
Anyone from swindon fancy chatting, I'm trying to find friends going thro divorce etc etc

Katy xx ...
28 Jul 08, by doodlebug
Latest 30 Jul 08 by doodlebug
Replies:2
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Latest by doodlebug
30 Jul 08
Thought I'd share my trust issues -
Read the "will you fall again" and thought I'd share this on a new thread.

I met someone very quickly. We are a year on (yesterday!) and fami ...
29 Jul 08, by Mrs Ingledew
Latest 29 Jul 08 by mrsnomore
Replies:3
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Latest by mrsnomore
29 Jul 08
Absolutely heartbroken
Can someone please help me to understand. My eldest daughter living with x2b who also poisoned her against me, and youngest is living with me. Not only did my s ...
28 Jul 08, by lillyanne
Latest 28 Jul 08 by lillyanne
Replies:3
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Latest by lillyanne
28 Jul 08
why
Just read a blog and found myself reaffirming that i will never allow anyone close to me again cos it hurts too much. Interested if anyone held this opinion and ...
27 Jul 08, by gorgeous
Latest 28 Jul 08 by Marshy_
Replies:3
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Latest by Marshy_
28 Jul 08
Help Me - Please
Hi everyone and thanks for taking the time to read this.

I have been on here before and spoken about my fears that my wife and I are heading for a divo ...
21 Jul 08, by Carl N
Latest 28 Jul 08 by polar
Replies:17
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Latest by polar
28 Jul 08
help me someone...
I recently started seeing someone new, and it is going very well except for the fact that i dont get to se him when his kids are around 3-4 nights a week..
...
26 Jul 08, by pompom
Latest 27 Jul 08 by pompom
Replies:5
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Latest by pompom
27 Jul 08
read these beautiful lyrics!
John Cougar Mellencamp

"Yours forever"

Here we are in the grays of winter
Here we are just me and you
Hold my hand
Let's ...
26 Jul 08, by Matt/24/7
Latest 26 Jul 08 by Matt/24/7
Replies:5
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Latest by Matt/24/7
26 Jul 08
Your adive please on my relationship breakdown
My situation is as follows

Married nearly four years ago and very much in love after spending nine years together

three months after getting m ...
19 Jul 08, by r1okvb
Latest 26 Jul 08 by pompom
Replies:10
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Latest by pompom
26 Jul 08
He's threatening to cut off all money
Hi everyone

Well have just had a delightful long distance phone call with husband who is threatening to have his salary paid into another account (curr ...
18 Jul 08, by linda.c
Latest 26 Jul 08 by linda.c
Replies:5
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Latest by linda.c
26 Jul 08
I'm the other woman
I'm new here and new to the situation I find myself in.:ohmy:
M ...
26 Jul 08, by pompom
Latest 26 Jul 08 by pompom
Replies:7
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Latest by pompom
26 Jul 08
He says he's going to divorce me now!
Hi

Things have been very fraught in conversations over the phone during the last week between husband and myself mainly due to the fact that whilst he ...
24 Jul 08, by linda.c
Latest 24 Jul 08 by Roobarb
Replies:5
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Latest by Roobarb
24 Jul 08
Well, thats it, its crunch time.
Hiya Guys.
Well, its been an "unusual" day for me, i just asked my gorgeous wife to push ahead with the divorce i've been threatened with for the ...
23 Jul 08, by Matt/24/7
Latest 24 Jul 08 by ivorytower
Replies:7
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Latest by ivorytower
24 Jul 08
No communication
Is it right to breakup and have no communication,

is this a indication there is someone else and that she doesn't hurt as she is in the arms of other m ...
23 Jul 08, by r1okvb
Latest 24 Jul 08 by Sera
Replies:6
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Latest by Sera
24 Jul 08
3 little words
Why did I do it? Last night I sent my x2b a text saying "I miss you" why did I do it.
Was I thinking he would reply with "I miss you too" ...
12 Jul 08, by ivorytower
Latest 23 Jul 08 by dawn1
Replies:26
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Latest by dawn1
23 Jul 08
How can he just stop caring about his kids?
Hi

Have had a bad couple of days - my 11 year old son totally lost it on Sunday and was very aggressive and verbally abusive to me - I know this is all ...
22 Jul 08, by linda.c
Latest 22 Jul 08 by linda.c
Replies:7
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Latest by linda.c
22 Jul 08
staying strong
i'v just confronted her about her cheating on me.

Evidence i had was:
online mobile bill records showed vast texts to a mobile number that was n he ...
21 Jul 08, by carton
Latest 21 Jul 08 by dadinamillion1
Replies:8
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Latest by dadinamillion1
21 Jul 08
A Question of Relationship
Some of you who have read my posts may know that my wife left me 6 weeks ago. Our marriage, which at that point had become a long distance relationship, ended v ...
21 Jul 08, by Moonshine
Latest 21 Jul 08 by gorgeous
Replies:2
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Latest by gorgeous
21 Jul 08
name change already
I have just come home from work to find a letter addressed to my ex (of 10 weeks) who is now using her maiden name ( no problem with that ) and also to my 11 ye ...
18 Jul 08, by bosch67
Latest 20 Jul 08 by r1okvb
Replies:6
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Latest by r1okvb
20 Jul 08
Why does he keep messing with my head
Hi

Spoke to husband Friday and he got quite nasty and said that he was going to start the divorce proceedings on the grounds of my unreasonable behavio ...
20 Jul 08, by linda.c
Latest 20 Jul 08 by Sera
Replies:4
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Latest by Sera
20 Jul 08
Why?
We had a blazing row a week ago (one of many) and I walked out. I came back 5 days later, to find that he had left leaving a note for me to cancel the holiday ...
19 Jul 08, by Gucci121
Latest 20 Jul 08 by Sera
Replies:3
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Latest by Sera
20 Jul 08
How do you people cope? This is killing me!
Hi guys
New thread, new post.
I dunno what i really want to say, but here goes. Thing is, how do you guys actually cope on a day to day basis with this ...
16 Jul 08, by Matt/24/7
Latest 20 Jul 08 by CandyW
Replies:24
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Latest by CandyW
20 Jul 08
family home
Where does the law stand with regard to a childless couple separating and access to the house? ...
17 Jul 08, by angela2008
Latest 18 Jul 08 by angela2008
Replies:4
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Latest by angela2008
18 Jul 08
male perspective
I have just read a post regarding ex husbands introducing there OW to their children. It got me thinking and thought that i would put forward my expereince whic ...
17 Jul 08, by bosch67
Latest 17 Jul 08 by shelly1066
Replies:5
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Latest by shelly1066
17 Jul 08
Bombshell!!!
Hi Everyone

Well I told you all last week I got my Decree Absoloute so celebrated over the weekend only to be faced by another bombshell!!

I h ...
14 Jul 08, by Molly
Latest 17 Jul 08 by megan
Replies:15
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Latest by megan
17 Jul 08
A date! Holy $#$#
Yep, you read it right. I'm going on a date tonight.

We have spoken quite alot, texted, flirted and now we are going to meet up properly. Its not via a ...
15 Jul 08, by dadinamillion1
Latest 17 Jul 08 by Molly
Replies:7
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Latest by Molly
17 Jul 08
Difficult to date again?
Hey everyone.

I was wondering what your thoughts and feelings are about dating, socialising, courting, etc following the break up of a marriage.
11 Jul 08, by dadinamillion1
Latest 17 Jul 08 by binks120
Replies:23
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Latest by binks120
17 Jul 08
need some help
as most of you know me and hubby got back together after he left in march. Been together now for 4mnths and all was going well or so i thought !!! Lately all w ...
16 Jul 08, by MazzB
Latest 17 Jul 08 by MazzB
Replies:4
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Latest by MazzB
17 Jul 08
Think this will end in divorce now
I have been trying so hard to give my husband the benefit of the doubt after his three month affair with a chinese woman whilst working over there on a one year ...
16 Jul 08, by linda.c
Latest 16 Jul 08 by jenny123
Replies:9
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Latest by jenny123
16 Jul 08
our living arrangement
so my divorce is on the process. stbx has already filed for the petition. it's only been 15 days since he told me frankly that he is divorcing me and we are sti ...
16 Jul 08, by damselindistress
Latest 16 Jul 08 by hanna
Replies:4
:502
Latest by hanna
16 Jul 08
Wills and Guardians
I drew up a will a year ago just after my wife walked out. I now want to change the executors but looking at the correspondence with the solicitor that drew up ...
16 Jul 08, by Kevin01
Latest 16 Jul 08 by D L
Replies:4
:407
Latest by D L
16 Jul 08
How do I get angry
Hi All,

My wife has finally left me and our two children after having a two year fling with her supervisor at work. I've tried for two years to reconci ...
13 Jul 08, by Kenwood
Latest 16 Jul 08 by shelly1066
Replies:17
:1755
Latest by shelly1066
16 Jul 08
Warning signs !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why I received this I dont know. I got an email which was unsolicited. For doubting thomases look at this site.
Latest 16 Jul 08 by polar
Replies:3
:819
Latest by polar
16 Jul 08
Good News
Erm...............Although fairly new to this site, majority of it makes for scary reading and is quite sad, reflecting how most of us feel living through these ...
15 Jul 08, by tiredandemotional
Latest 15 Jul 08 by tiredandemotional
Replies:4
:441
Latest by tiredandemotional
15 Jul 08
Feeling really lonely today
Hi

How many of you hate the weekends now? I have had the worst day ever - sent stupid text to husband and now regret it. He rang me had a big row and ...
12 Jul 08, by linda.c
Latest 14 Jul 08 by linda.c
Replies:58
:5522
Latest by linda.c
14 Jul 08

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