Think this will end in divorce now

i am in a very similar position except that my ex2b has decided he will pay nothing and will try to therefore get the bank to reposess the house.I am working 90 hours plus every week in order to try and keep the roof over our head.i am very worried about the impact on our daughter who mis 9 it is so wrong that he has found a rich woman everything is free for him.yet he is trying to get the house reposessed,after leaving me with 56k of debt in my name i had to go bankrupt,almost lost my job.As a consequence i can't get another mortgage or rent from any reputable lettings agency.he is happy for a reposession as he has the new girlfriend lined up to pay the shortfall/bill.I don't know what i am going to do i am tired and worn out but i will not stop fighting to keep the roof over our daughter's head and her lifestyle.I cannot believe what can happen to someone and how callous they can be after 20 years.I really do not understand how these people can live with themselves when they take no responsibility for the children.

Dear JT

God your situation makes my sound like nothing - how awful. I too cannot understand how a man can do that to his own flesh and blood. Can you not get any financial help? It can't be doing your own health any good working those sort of hours.

You are right - how do they live with themselves?

Keep fighting


Linda

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HI Jelly4toes and Linda

These scumbags have got alot to answer for. At least we can walk down the street with heads held high and just remember the saying "what goes around comes around". They'll regret what they've done in time and at least we have nothing to regret!

Good luck both.