Bombshell!!!

Hi Molly

Time to get out girl.

NO!!!! DONT GO THERE

its no good for you right now and I know it must hurt you and bring back memories of what happened before but you are stronger now and don’t need to take this. Move on and find one of the good guys. They are out there (when you find one let me know where to look:cheer: )

Good luck and look after yourself

Jude x

Hey Moll,

I have to say, that if this guy knows what you had been through prior to all this, then it takes a fairly shallow individual to put you through it again. Its wrong and hutful at any stage, but knowing the history ....................................a bit bad !!

As buxton has said, there are som good guys out there, some of which have been hurt too.

Take care, keep talking and go careful.

dadinamill.. Xx

I'm with the rest of the guy's we are not all the same and I also agree that you should get rid but!, forget the finding evidence etc that’s what married people do for divorce, lol.

Think on, you take control of the relationship you know what you know and if you confront he will try to deny or just walk away, IMO (sure I will get lambasted for this, but here goes) if you can still stomach being near him why not consider using him for your own ends, play it cool, you take the power, why not carry on and enjoy having company to help you take your mind off other things, enjoy the holiday and flirt till it hurts then when you get back and when you want tell him you have known about his other women but it suited you to keep him for the company and now you want out? At least you have some company with whom to go out and about until you are ready to move on and look for one of us genuine guys, beats staying in on your own?

Sorry, did not mean to trivalise, just wanted to offer another light hearted way of looking at the situation.

Good luck
Howier

Hi Mirfield

Yes everyone telling me to dump him - difficult -I want to tell evryone what he is really like but I keep holding back. I am so lovw at the mo just another thing to make me even lower!! But I know he' s not good for me. And I have to think of me now!!

Mollyx

Hey man after my own heart!!! I am playiing it cool lying low and now using him to my advantage. Not in my persona at all to do this - but after what he's put me through -thought I may do it this way for a while until I am financially settled or until I can stand no more of this secrets.

We are leaving Sunday. Wish me luck!!

Mollyx

Hey Molly

Let me be the first to wish you luck.

Take care of yourself.

Mirfield:kiss:

I feel that you could be playing a dangerous game and as you have been so vulnerable, my advice would be to get out now. It has to be your decision. What ever you decide take care

Saff