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Relationships 1554 topics

Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.
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update on surviving suicide attempt
Hi,
Thanks for all your words of support. Yesterday, I went and got my hair done and even went on a sun bed, just to take away that pale indoor pallor (I h ...
29 Aug 08, by smurfy
Latest 29 Aug 08 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:7
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Latest by IKNOWNOW
29 Aug 08
i tried to kill myself yesterday
Yesterday I drank and took an overdose of valium that I had bought off the internet. I don't remember what had happened afterwards, except I must have contacte ...
28 Aug 08, by smurfy
Latest 29 Aug 08 by polar
Replies:22
:2383
Latest by polar
29 Aug 08
help me keep my wife - please
I am typing this as a devastated man. My wife has told me that she wants a divorce - she is unhappy and has fallen out of love. This has completely blindsided ...
25 Aug 08, by hartbroken
Latest 29 Aug 08 by polar
Replies:35
:4106
Latest by polar
29 Aug 08
Advice please...
I separated from my husband in July 07. We weren't unhappy but were plodding along. Someone I knew from work and I had very strong feelings for each other. We n ...
25 Aug 08, by Maggie10
Latest 26 Aug 08 by rasher
Replies:31
:2884
Latest by rasher
26 Aug 08
An all important question.
Forget the love side as we all have a definition of love.
So why do we care so very much about the lieing cheating scumbags who thought so little about us t ...
25 Aug 08, by polar
Latest 26 Aug 08 by polar
Replies:8
:983
Latest by polar
26 Aug 08
Why do I feel like this?
Two weeks ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce. I couldn't stand the rows any longer. If I'm honest the marriage has been over for years but it was still a ...
26 Aug 08, by fleur
Latest 26 Aug 08 by fleur
Replies:9
:1216
Latest by fleur
26 Aug 08
unfaithful husband
Hi Everyone

I am new at here...
Please give me any advice..please.

I have found my husband have been unfathful...He has got on-line dating ...
25 Aug 08, by slhvs
Latest 25 Aug 08 by conners
Replies:2
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Latest by conners
25 Aug 08
waiting for someone
Do u think that in 'love' there is such a thing as too late?
I can move forwards but how long must i go on waiting for someone? Should I have to wait? whoul ...
25 Aug 08, by Ivy34
Latest 25 Aug 08 by marriaa
Replies:3
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Latest by marriaa
25 Aug 08
why can't he just tell me????
I dont get it, If my husband Isnt comming back home, WHY can't he just say that?? (for those of you who dont know he went off to dexot and so far hasnt made it ...
24 Aug 08, by Ivy34
Latest 24 Aug 08 by Zara2009
Replies:1
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Latest by Zara2009
24 Aug 08
his family
hi all
one of the reasons why I am having a divorce is because my x2b is too close to his family. His family dont welcome me to any of thier functions birth ...
21 Aug 08, by ssoria
Latest 23 Aug 08 by Petrof
Replies:4
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Latest by Petrof
23 Aug 08
Wedding Cake!
My day just gets weirder....

The club we had our wedding reception in just called to ask who made our wedding cake!?

Followed by "We're s ...
22 Aug 08, by Sera
Latest 22 Aug 08 by Daisy049
Replies:20
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Latest by Daisy049
22 Aug 08
Since he left I can't get this song out of my head
I need a little time to think it over
I need a little space just on my own
I need a little time to find my freedom
I need a little

Funny ho ...
22 Aug 08, by StephanieK
Latest 22 Aug 08 by Roobarb
Replies:7
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Latest by Roobarb
22 Aug 08
Should I give my ex a piece of my mind
Hi All

I'm just looking for your advise. It's my sons 19th birthday today and I can't believe my ex could be so horrible. My ex left me 2 1/2 months ag ...
17 Aug 08, by jenny123
Latest 22 Aug 08 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:18
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Latest by NellNoRegrets
22 Aug 08
Can anyone else relate to this?
I found this extract on another forum relating to mid-life crisis and wondered how many of you whose husbands have cheated can relate to this? I could have writ ...
15 Aug 08, by linda.c
Latest 22 Aug 08 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:35
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Latest by NellNoRegrets
22 Aug 08
Really feel like ending it all
Hi everyone

Having a really really bad day today - my stbx is currently in Australia attending his daughter's wedding even though he promised our young ...
20 Aug 08, by linda.c
Latest 21 Aug 08 by saffron1968
Replies:29
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Latest by saffron1968
21 Aug 08
I am so angry!
My husband was arrested last friday and the police ring to tell me this morning. He was arrested because of thefts from my own bank account on a number of occa ...
20 Aug 08, by smurfy
Latest 20 Aug 08 by Matt/24/7
Replies:8
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Latest by Matt/24/7
20 Aug 08
is there a chance?
Our relationship has been good for 15 years (11 years married). Just three months ago it changed. After approx 8 weeks of hardly speaking unless in arguement, h ...
20 Aug 08, by hellandback
Latest 20 Aug 08 by BRM
Replies:8
:1028
Latest by BRM
20 Aug 08
finding it hard
Hi all Im new and shared a lil' of my story in introductions.
Im finding it really hard to accept my situation, b'c of the way I feel in my heart and the wa ...
17 Aug 08, by Ivy34
Latest 19 Aug 08 by Marshy_
Replies:5
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Latest by Marshy_
19 Aug 08
Grown up children and divorce.
My girlfriends parents are currently in the process of separating...he's moved out of the family home (which my girlfriend owns 50% of) and is currently living ...
07 Aug 08, by andy26599
Latest 18 Aug 08 by sotired
Replies:3
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Latest by sotired
18 Aug 08
Replaced
My son just got back from holiday with ex and girlfriend. He has had a great time, camping in the Lake District. He chatted for ages telling me of the fun thi ...
17 Aug 08, by Poppie
Latest 18 Aug 08 by Poppie
Replies:9
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Latest by Poppie
18 Aug 08
Help! Fallen in love on here!
Dear wiki people

I have a BIG problem. I am in love with more than one person on here! How to choose? Please help!

I first fell in love with s ...
27 Jul 08, by buxtonman
Latest 17 Aug 08 by dukey
Replies:70
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Latest by dukey
17 Aug 08
Can you relate to this - the other side is us
I was thinking about the article that linda C found about the middle age crises. The post got so many reactions and most of us agreed that our exs behaved in a ...
17 Aug 08, by Petrof
Latest 17 Aug 08 by bats
Replies:1
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Latest by bats
17 Aug 08
Can you live together apart?
My husband is having the typical mid life crisis....including an affair. I insisted he leave the home and eventually locked him out and made him take his posse ...
17 Aug 08, by 40 Not Out
Latest 17 Aug 08 by Lsot1
Replies:2
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Latest by Lsot1
17 Aug 08
Why? Why? Why?
Hi everyone,

Yes, its me (used to be lifesabitch, and JJ49) but forgot my password for JJ49 and so now have had to re-register as JJ50. The last time ...
04 Aug 08, by JJ50
Latest 16 Aug 08 by Donnylass
Replies:7
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Latest by Donnylass
16 Aug 08
How do we start communicating?
My wife who I love to bits has asked me to move out - so far I have gone as far as the spare room and do not intend to go any further (something she is as yet u ...
15 Aug 08, by yellow elephant
Latest 16 Aug 08 by Poppie
Replies:2
:425
Latest by Poppie
16 Aug 08
injunction but he tried to ring this morning
I have a non-mol and occupation order against my stbx. He tried to phone this morning by reverse charge. I didn't talk to him. Now, I'm sitting here wonderin ...
14 Aug 08, by smurfy
Latest 15 Aug 08 by Sera
Replies:1
:476
Latest by Sera
15 Aug 08
What do I do?
You will have seen my previous posts!

I have pasted our latest e-mail exchange. What do I do?

HIM: I don’t think that there is much more to ...
13 Aug 08, by StephanieK
Latest 13 Aug 08 by anotherone
Replies:5
:482
Latest by anotherone
13 Aug 08
Should I Give UP?
I posted yesterday that my husband moved out with a friend.

All of his stuff is still at mine and he brought back his motorbike to leave at the house. ...
12 Aug 08, by StephanieK
Latest 13 Aug 08 by Matt/24/7
Replies:17
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Latest by Matt/24/7
13 Aug 08
What a difference 24 hours makes
Hi all

Had a really good day yesterday with my kids and was feeling very positive - today I rang the bank to see if any transactions had gone through a ...
11 Aug 08, by linda.c
Latest 12 Aug 08 by linda.c
Replies:5
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Latest by linda.c
12 Aug 08
Would this be a bad move for me?
Hi All,

It has been 6 weeks since my wife and I split up. She seemed pretty adamant that I could never make her happy and I might say gave me the impre ...
12 Aug 08, by ScoobyDont
Latest 12 Aug 08 by ScoobyDont
Replies:3
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Latest by ScoobyDont
12 Aug 08
remarriage
Have been thinking about this a lot lately and have come to some conclusions:

1. will never marry again,,,,,,,,,,,,,,yes will live with someone
2. ...
06 Aug 08, by busybees
Latest 11 Aug 08 by BRM
Replies:48
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Latest by BRM
11 Aug 08
Help Please. So Confused.
Hi all,

I am new to this forum, so hello all.

My husband of 5 years moved in with a friend yesterday. He didn't come home on Saturday and on F ...
11 Aug 08, by StephanieK
Latest 11 Aug 08 by jamieh
Replies:7
:930
Latest by jamieh
11 Aug 08
Advice needed re: money
Hi

My husband has told me that I will receive a letter from his solicitors by the end of next week - he is still working in China. The solicitors is h ...
08 Aug 08, by linda.c
Latest 08 Aug 08 by anotherone
Replies:6
:483
Latest by anotherone
08 Aug 08
relationships
Hi

My husband spends a great deal of time with a friend of mine who's husband is away working. somewhere I have read that this is called an inappropria ...
06 Aug 08, by carolg
Latest 06 Aug 08 by Marshy_
Replies:2
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Latest by Marshy_
06 Aug 08
Petty acts of revenge
Hiya guys.

Just wanted to apologise to all who were in chat earlier today who were only trying to advise and help me and i just did'nt want to listen.< ...
06 Aug 08, by Matt/24/7
Latest 06 Aug 08 by marriaa
Replies:2
:521
Latest by marriaa
06 Aug 08
Stay or go
Hi everyone, kinda getting to the end of my tether and have started to think that I've just spent too long doing everything my stbx wants. I feel and have been ...
04 Aug 08, by john235
Latest 05 Aug 08 by buttons
Replies:4
:760
Latest by buttons
05 Aug 08
Why? Why? Why?
Hi everyone,

Yes, its me (used to be lifesabitch, and JJ49) but forgot my password for JJ49 and so now have had to re-register as JJ50. The last time ...
04 Aug 08, by JJ50
Latest 04 Aug 08 by Living again
Replies:2
:672
Latest by Living again
04 Aug 08
Help me.....Why do I feel this way?
My husband told me on holiday 4 weeks ago that he was having an affair and we have seperated. The last few weeks have been absolute hell. I know that we had p ...
04 Aug 08, by 40 Not Out
Latest 04 Aug 08 by JJ50
Replies:3
:464
Latest by JJ50
04 Aug 08
Need advice please.......
I have been with my new partner for 7 months (my divorce has just been finalised) and things are going well, we are very happy and have plans for the future etc ...
06 Jul 08, by panda72
Latest 04 Aug 08 by Sera
Replies:6
:820
Latest by Sera
04 Aug 08
Love Rats!
Hi All
Well back from my hol and the episode of my new man - finding out he has been seeing another woman behind my back and still in contact with several o ...
04 Aug 08, by Molly
Latest 04 Aug 08 by Molly
Replies:5
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Latest by Molly
04 Aug 08

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