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Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

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feelig low and cant pick myself up .... i thought i was doing great, new friends ... new gf .... feeling good .... loosing weight .... a lot of my old friends (hr friends as well) - ... 16 Jun 08, by peterc Latest 16 Jun 08 by Billie12	Replies:4 :521	Latest by Billie12 16 Jun 08
wobble I am sitting here in bed should go to sleep but can't... Husband hasn't made any effort to try to reconcile after getting divorce letter, obviously it is tr ... 16 Jun 08, by Billie12 Latest 16 Jun 08 by kidsinbulgaria	Replies:5 :580	Latest by kidsinbulgaria 16 Jun 08
And still it goes on... My x2b came back the other day - she stays in the mh part time for some reason - and I sat her down and tried to have a non-emotional conversation with her. Sh ... 14 Jun 08, by Sun 13 Latest 16 Jun 08 by Billie12	Replies:6 :527	Latest by Billie12 16 Jun 08
Separation advice I have decided I can no longer put up with my H's behaviour. I have been sucked into the cycle of abuse and he continues to act in a controlling, bullying, crit ... 14 Jun 08, by Brigid100 Latest 14 Jun 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :491	Latest by mike62 14 Jun 08
ive sent my ex's dad a card for fathers day well its not a fathers day card but just a card...i guess i just wanted him to know i will be thinking of him. every year for the past few years we've ... 14 Jun 08, by Daisy049 Latest 14 Jun 08 by Sun 13	Replies:2 :660	Latest by Sun 13 14 Jun 08
Adultery and Separation I'm on the verge of splitting with a husband who works away, he has instigated this. He wants to separate, no counselling, no attempt at reconcilliation. I don' ... 13 Jun 08, by bluesky Latest 13 Jun 08 by bluesky	Replies:5 :1007	Latest by bluesky 13 Jun 08
How do you live with someone you are divorcing? If anybody could help with advice or suggestions about living in the same house with somebody you are divorcing I would be most grateful. My situation is as ... 25 Apr 08, by fatherofthree Latest 13 Jun 08 by balamory	Replies:3 :804	Latest by balamory 13 Jun 08
marriage certificate I am a bit distraught. Fortunately my good friend Dawn came with me and supported me. There were times when i couldn't think straight. One of the stressful thi ... 11 Jun 08, by Billie12 Latest 13 Jun 08 by Billie12 1 2	Replies:8 :1444	Latest by Billie12 13 Jun 08
told husband husband come in from work at 10.30 (2 and half hours later that when he is supposed to finish) and yes he was at work apparently. I told him i have been to ... 11 Jun 08, by Billie12 Latest 13 Jun 08 by jelly4toes 1 2 3	Replies:16 :1877	Latest by jelly4toes 13 Jun 08
this is a bit addictive! Day two. Off to solicitors tomorrow really worried - am I doing the right thing? could he ever be the man I married again? will I wake up in 5 years and wasted ... 10 Jun 08, by Billie12 Latest 11 Jun 08 by Poppie	Replies:4 :604	Latest by Poppie 11 Jun 08
Telling the kids! Hi all I am in a right mess trying to work out the best way and time to tell my children that me and their dad are getting divorced. We are bo ... 09 Jun 08, by bluefairy Latest 09 Jun 08 by mike62	Replies:1 :455	Latest by mike62 09 Jun 08
Help - Advice Needed. Hi. First post and Im really looking for some helpful advice. My wife and I have been together for nearly 8 years and have been married for al ... 20 May 08, by 5573 Latest 08 Jun 08 by midnight rider 1 2 3	Replies:17 :2100	Latest by midnight rider 08 Jun 08
Should I trust her My OH told me this week she wants to try again. I felt suprised and angry. >She told the counsellor last week that she would never love me a ... 08 Jun 08, by Dadsrus Latest 08 Jun 08 by BatteredDad	Replies:2 :568	Latest by BatteredDad 08 Jun 08
love analogy Found this analogy about relationships and really liked it ; in a relationship there are three gardens: each partner has their own garden where they grow th ... 06 Jun 08, by busybees Latest 08 Jun 08 by Donnylass 1 2	Replies:9 :1437	Latest by Donnylass 08 Jun 08
The A to Z of relationship meltdown/divorce Ok guys help is required here...cant do this on my own... So Im going to post a thing for you which I would be really interested in...and my mum though ... 07 Jun 08, by Daisy049 Latest 07 Jun 08 by Angel557 1 2	Replies:8 :1426	Latest by Angel557 07 Jun 08
splitting up - where to start Hi all, having come off another emotional rollercoaster I am still trying to get my head round the best way to split up from my OH. We have be ... 04 Jun 08, by Dadsrus Latest 06 Jun 08 by Dadsrus	Replies:3 :658	Latest by Dadsrus 06 Jun 08
How can he be so tactless!! Hi again. My husband beggers belief!! After leaving me & my kids 6 weeks ago & hooking up with another woman straight away he popped round today to get ... 06 Jun 08, by LadyAquarius Latest 06 Jun 08 by megan	Replies:3 :624	Latest by megan 06 Jun 08
He wants s divorce after 6 weeks!! advice please. Hi everyone. my pig of a husband walked out on me & his 5 kids after 11 years of marriage 6 weeks ago & since then has been seeing another woman. I have ... 05 Jun 08, by LadyAquarius Latest 05 Jun 08 by D L	Replies:1 :492	Latest by D L 05 Jun 08
Urgent help please? My wife who is pushing for divorce wants a legal seperation. Is this a reasonable option? What happens to the equity in our/my house? Will I be lett ... 02 Jun 08, by Soupdragon Latest 03 Jun 08 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :594	Latest by Marshy_ 03 Jun 08
Bed ... 31 May 08, by MontyPython Latest 02 Jun 08 by ScotBob 1 2 3	Replies:19 :2465	Latest by ScotBob 02 Jun 08
Why Do I hurt when I was the one to leave??? I left my husband 6 months ago after trying to patch our marriage up after he had an affair 3 years ago! At the time as a condition that I stayed I wanted us t ... 22 May 08, by Sunshinedays Latest 30 May 08 by jay9376	Replies:2 :590	Latest by jay9376 30 May 08
any good plan :evil:hello....I dont know how are you going to explain my situation...?My ex still seeing same person who caused our divorce,during last 2 years he is going st ... 26 May 08, by istanblues Latest 29 May 08 by istanblues	Replies:2 :578	Latest by istanblues 29 May 08
Wine ... 29 May 08, by MontyPython Latest 29 May 08 by Mamacita	Replies:1 :437	Latest by Mamacita 29 May 08
how long can he drag this out Hi Just wondering if anyone can answer this, I am a mum of 3 and my x2b and myself are living in same house still. We have both seen solicitors and ba ... 27 May 08, by bluefairy Latest 27 May 08 by sexysadie	Replies:1 :512	Latest by sexysadie 27 May 08
Answers ... 24 May 08, by MontyPython Latest 25 May 08 by MontyPython	Replies:2 :696	Latest by MontyPython 25 May 08
A big thank you to all my virtual friends I am not sure where to put this.I consider it my relationship with my wiki,sometimes wacky friends. So here it goes. After a lot of delibaration the div ... 24 May 08, by marriaa Latest 25 May 08 by Elle	Replies:1 :445	Latest by Elle 25 May 08
Why cant he decide? Hi Again All I really dont know what to think at the moment. Stbx started coming round a lot recently, saying he misses me, loves me etc etc. Ended up ... 22 May 08, by lunatic32 Latest 22 May 08 by BatteredDad	Replies:6 :793	Latest by BatteredDad 22 May 08
I don't know what to do. I have been with my current husband for 16 years. After our first 7 years together, (we met when we were only 20 years old) we decided to get engaged. About t ... 12 Mar 08, by fooledmetwice Latest 21 May 08 by Elle 1 2 3	Replies:20 :2426	Latest by Elle 21 May 08
need advise re new man and effect on settlement Have met new man since split. In order that I don't have to sell house he is coming on mort to raise equity to buy ex out and pay debts off. He is not ... 20 May 08, by loopy1 Latest 20 May 08 by loopy1	Replies:2 :542	Latest by loopy1 20 May 08
Mid Life Crisis I have recently returned from Iraq to find that my wife had been seeing someone else in my absence. Initially she said that she felt she was bored, undervalued ... 24 Apr 08, by stuhndy Latest 18 May 08 by marriaa 1 2 3	Replies:14 :2957	Latest by marriaa 18 May 08
what do I do... now being cheated on by my new man Feel awful. A "friend" of mine found my current mans profile on an adult dating site and emailed him etc ... he has bitten. What do I do - ho ... 28 Apr 08, by Mrs Ingledew Latest 17 May 08 by gorgeous	Replies:3 :657	Latest by gorgeous 17 May 08
How do I ask if he has had an affair? I've been in a bit of a turmoil (to put it mildly) for about two months now... I was channel hopping late night telly one night & happened to catch ... 14 May 08, by soconfused Latest 17 May 08 by gorgeous	Replies:4 :673	Latest by gorgeous 17 May 08
Ex is harassing new partner to the extreme My Ex is obessed with my new partnerwe are just friends have no plans to live together etc just boy friend girl friend relationship yey my Ex has gone to the ex ... 10 May 08, by bluewrc Latest 10 May 08 by bluewrc	Replies:2 :562	Latest by bluewrc 10 May 08
husband refusing to acknowledge divorce Hello I have been reading the forums for a while now, and found them very interesting. here is my story, i would appreciate any advise please, as i ju ... 08 May 08, by ellis Latest 09 May 08 by mother_of_two	Replies:2 :905	Latest by mother_of_two 09 May 08
did your success lead to him losing interest in se I'm a journalist writing a piece for You magazine in the Mail on Sunday about women whose ex-partners lost their libidos as the women become more and more succe ... 30 Apr 08, by Anna Magee Latest 02 May 08 by Young again	Replies:6 :666	Latest by Young again 02 May 08
Numb - don't feel anything, don't know why? Hi, As a man it seems weird as I have a beautiful lovely caring wife who cares well for me and my son. We could so easily have been 'happy' together fo ... 28 Apr 08, by ceebee1 Latest 29 Apr 08 by rasher 1 2	Replies:12 :1745	Latest by rasher 29 Apr 08
ADULTRY WHAT PROOF DOSE SHE NEED OR THE COURTS 04 Apr 08, by KDEN Latest 28 Apr 08 by phoenix1	Replies:3 :736	Latest by phoenix1 28 Apr 08
Getting harder - lies, lies, lies... My ex and I parted company just over a year ago after he had an affair with our then next door neighbour. I only discovered it had been physical when I ... 11 Apr 08, by siriusB Latest 26 Apr 08 by peterc	Replies:6 :955	Latest by peterc 26 Apr 08
left with my daughter now with new man i thought our marriage was pretty solid, then nov th she asked me to leave saying she was not sure if she loved me. i left for a few days in shock she moved out ... 24 Apr 08, by sjc	Replies:0 :409
\"Should I stay or should I go?\" Dear All, As my divorce progresses and I analyse all the things I could have done differently over the last 10 years of my life, there is something tha ... 23 Apr 08, by Secret Squirrel Latest 24 Apr 08 by Grace2B	Replies:6 :586	Latest by Grace2B 24 Apr 08

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