Difficult to date again?

I have only been on this site for about a week and it is re assurring to here other people feeling the same way. It has been 10 weeks since my wife told me she had somebody else , friends and familly are great but all are saying i need to move on and need to ' get a woman to take my mind off everything ' i usually laugh it off but have explained to closer friends that i really feel massively guilty when talking or even looking at other women, i was really worried thinking i was weird as nobody seemed to understand this including my brother who has gone thru something similar and just got on with it.

Ten weeks is NOTHING. For some of us it can take two years before we are ready for that. Take your time to lick your wounds and discover who you are again. It would be very unusual indeed to be able to date after such a short space of time. I am also 10 weeks down this road and though I am recovering now, I think it will be at least another 10 weeks before I am truly ready to date again.

Andy

easy tigers i have coped as well with mine as anyone can accept im 4 months in and have dated but trust me 20 weeks its not happenin Be KIND to yourself let your head and heart recover when you can trully say you have no feelins for you ex then i think your ready
i convinced myself i was ready only to cause more head spinning by having to end it with someone i like and think is really cool just because im not ready
binks