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Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

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No Man will take on my circumstances me=lonley,sad I''ve been separated 7 years, boy 10, girl 13, ex as difficult as ever & daughter no longer goes to see him. The situation means I very rarely get a night ... 23 May 13, by homegal Latest 27 May 13 by comfortathome 1 2	Replies:10 :1137	Latest by comfortathome 27 May 13
Can my husband get a restraining order on me? A brief history : My husband left me and our 2 children aged 9 and 6 last year. Married for 10 years. He had been having an affair with a work colleague who al ... 18 May 13, by kitty12 Latest 18 May 13 by sun flower	Replies:3 :465	Latest by sun flower 18 May 13
What to do? divorce or what? My wife announced she did not want to be with me about a month ago and within 24 hours had arranged to move out. Things in the marriage had not been great for a ... 26 Dec 12, by sadbear Latest 15 May 13 by Gloriasurvive 1 2 3	Replies:19 :1364	Latest by Gloriasurvive 15 May 13
Boyfriend staying overnight I have my view that as I have number of nights that I don''t have my children that there is no need for my new partner of 18 months to stay over whilst I have t ... 10 May 13, by Strong and winning Latest 12 May 13 by MrsMathsisfun 1 2	Replies:13 :1154	Latest by MrsMathsisfun 12 May 13
A dilemma Well my STBX has decided shes going for another night out. After all the cheating and lying, I thought we had an understanding to reside in the same house for t ... 02 May 13, by Lied2Again Latest 04 May 13 by Strong and winning	Replies:4 :287	Latest by Strong and winning 04 May 13
Second time around nightmare! I got together with a gorgeous girl 2 years ago. Both of us had previous lives, both married. We''ve been together through thick and thin whilst both our lives ... 29 Apr 13, by carlos_fandango Latest 30 Apr 13 by MrsMathsisfun 1 2	Replies:13 :884	Latest by MrsMathsisfun 30 Apr 13
Time to Move out? First of all thanks for all the advice I have had here in the past. I thought things were better now but apparently not. To cut a long story s ... 17 Apr 13, by HappyJack Latest 22 Apr 13 by Marshy_ 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1601	Latest by Marshy_ 22 Apr 13
I dont know what to do I’ll try to keep this as short as I can. So I’m 28 and my husband is 30. We’ve been together for 8 years and married for 7 months now. We got engaged 2 ... 03 Apr 13, by minky28 Latest 20 Apr 13 by Gloriasurvive 1 2 3 ... 7	Replies:48 :2349	Latest by Gloriasurvive 20 Apr 13
New Relationship Being Damaged By The Old Two years ago I discovered my wife had been cheating on me. I still don''t know how long she had been committing adultery before I found out. She left immediate ... 18 Apr 13, by CCLM Latest 20 Apr 13 by CCLM 1 2	Replies:9 :793	Latest by CCLM 20 Apr 13
Tony''s thread - I should have read it weeks ago I am in a similar situation in that I separated from my soon to be ex husband last summer (after a short marriage) but we were together for about 10 years in to ... 18 Apr 13, by emma2013 Latest 19 Apr 13 by emma2013	Replies:3 :304	Latest by emma2013 19 Apr 13
Common Law Marriage is as Much a Myth as The Loch Ness Monster. Very important information smashing through any misinformed beliefs for those who are living together or intend to. 08 Apr 13, by WhiteRose Latest 14 Apr 13 by Enough Already	Replies:3 :354	Latest by Enough Already 14 Apr 13
Non Contact Hello friends, I keep seeing references to the non contact rule. I am struggling with my separation and having minimal contact with the woman I felt de ... 07 Apr 13, by pyramidpool Latest 08 Apr 13 by pyramidpool	Replies:5 :393	Latest by pyramidpool 08 Apr 13
Trust Hi to all Met up with a guy I had been chatting to online. I liked him, he appeared to like me. Had a little kiss & cuddle before saying goodbye yesterd ... 01 Apr 13, by Caley Latest 02 Apr 13 by maisymoos 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1254	Latest by maisymoos 02 Apr 13
I would walk on hot coals for that boy Firstly, my acknowledgements to Cazza for the phrase that is the subject of this post. I hope you don''t mind me borrowing it Caz. I am not the OP ofte ... 27 Mar 13, by Nigella19 Latest 30 Mar 13 by Nigella19 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:31 :1831	Latest by Nigella19 30 Mar 13
interested in your views re ex Hi I am interested to know wether my reaction to recent events is wrong. My STBX was coming to the house today to drop off the council tax bill which I have ask ... 26 Mar 13, by littlegreen Latest 27 Mar 13 by littlegreen 1 2 3 ... 5	Replies:29 :1978	Latest by littlegreen 27 Mar 13
Women! Ladies i need your help! Confused.com I am at a loss... I am in the dog house with my new lady big time. she has been away travelling for 100 days in asia. Texking and chatting had meant ab ... 16 Mar 13, by esox11 Latest 23 Mar 13 by WhiteRose 1 2 3 ... 6	Replies:38 :2220	Latest by WhiteRose 23 Mar 13
lost Amongst my many feelings that I have had for the 5 days since my wife left myself and our 3 boys for another man, has been the fact that I have lost my best fri ... 13 Feb 13, by confused2013 Latest 20 Mar 13 by abra 1 2 3 ... 11	Replies:75 :3871	Latest by abra 20 Mar 13
Oh dear god... Hello been away a while, much to sort out. I now have a solicitor, she has drawn up a letter for my wife, spelling out what I want (divorce), and what we need ... 16 Mar 13, by confused2013 Latest 17 Mar 13 by confused2013	Replies:4 :464	Latest by confused2013 17 Mar 13
I really wish I had read this 18 months ago... I found this article on the Huffington Post website. A private detective''s tips on how to spot someone who may be being unfaithful. In retrospect I sa ... 11 Mar 13, by Stumpylad70 Latest 12 Mar 13 by Stumpylad70	Replies:4 :436	Latest by Stumpylad70 12 Mar 13
Here we go again.....emotional turmoil!!!! So, I was here last Aug seeking support and here I am again.......we did try but things have gone bad again and I told him last night I want to seperate again.. ... 11 Mar 13, by Mrs Smith2012 Latest 11 Mar 13 by Mrs Smith2012 1 2	Replies:11 :788	Latest by Mrs Smith2012 11 Mar 13
Don''t know what to do with myself! ... 01 Mar 13, by Maddie47 Latest 08 Mar 13 by Maddie47 1 2	Replies:11 :783	Latest by Maddie47 08 Mar 13
feeling weak Hi, I need a bit of support or a talking to. For several days now I can''t stop thinking of my husband. I miss him and want to contact him. If I have picked my ... 06 Mar 13, by littlegreen Latest 08 Mar 13 by littlegreen 1 2 3	Replies:14 :995	Latest by littlegreen 08 Mar 13
Best Friend Problems I could use some advice from others that don’t know us. My best friend and I (both guys) have been extremely close for 8 years now. We’ve been there for eac ... 05 Mar 13, by richdaniels Latest 06 Mar 13 by Shezi 1 2	Replies:7 :829	Latest by Shezi 06 Mar 13
Confidence returning (well a little) So, not been on here for a while, trying to keep busy with the kids, sorting out work etc. I have however been following Marshy''s advice and I dont think she ... 27 Feb 13, by confused2013 Latest 03 Mar 13 by Lostboy67 1 2 3	Replies:15 :1162	Latest by Lostboy67 03 Mar 13
Problems with Son & new partner I left my soon to be ex 16 months ago to be with my new man. A little background... I was married for 20 years, together for 23. We have 3 chi ... 18 Feb 13, by maddison1969 Latest 21 Feb 13 by MrsMathsisfun 1 2 3	Replies:14 :1257	Latest by MrsMathsisfun 21 Feb 13
once bitten twice shy Ive been divorced nearly 5 yrs now.I have seeing a lady around 6 months now.We now are at the stage of her wanting to move in and im scared if we split up say i ... 29 Jan 13, by stan_back Latest 21 Feb 13 by retep69 1 2	Replies:9 :801	Latest by retep69 21 Feb 13
love bites literally spotted a lovebite on H neck today which he laughed about Ha yes its so funny you have had an affair with a chavey ***** and then feel you want to show it off l ... 18 Feb 13, by nicwin Latest 18 Feb 13 by Blackie	Replies:1 :343	Latest by Blackie 18 Feb 13
I don''t want to lose a wonderful friend This morning I had a call from a wonderful friend''s husband. She is away at the moment and he, a past adulterer (but she forgave because her family unit was m ... 02 Feb 13, by Forester Latest 05 Feb 13 by jar of hearts 1 2	Replies:8 :625	Latest by jar of hearts 05 Feb 13
Why am I feeling jealous? To all, I''m finding it difficult to trust my boyfriend of 4 yrs at the moment and it''s really doing my head in. Can someone please tell me i''m overr ... 04 Feb 13, by ishouldbesolucky Latest 04 Feb 13 by WhiteRose 1 2	Replies:7 :755	Latest by WhiteRose 04 Feb 13
how to tell ex ... 01 Feb 13, by Gym Latest 02 Feb 13 by jslgb	Replies:5 :321	Latest by jslgb 02 Feb 13
Can it work again? I''m really confused. My ex had an afair 10 years ago and five years ago we were divorced. I have a new partner - she is ok but the relationship is very stale.< ... 01 Feb 13, by Richard1968 Latest 01 Feb 13 by newleaf 1 2	Replies:11 :869	Latest by newleaf 01 Feb 13
Why do men have affairs, then sick head n sand ?? I have asked myself this question hundreds of times and never come up with an answer. Why do men conduct affairs for years and then when found out will ... 31 Jan 13, by willow33 Latest 01 Feb 13 by donkler 1 2 3	Replies:19 :1164	Latest by donkler 01 Feb 13
Bitter and twisted its been 1 month since i found out my Husband has had an affair and i''m finding it hard not to feel such bitter feelings against this woman and my husband, obs ... 28 Jan 13, by nicwin Latest 30 Jan 13 by nicwin 1 2	Replies:7 :827	Latest by nicwin 30 Jan 13
Quite a revelation I read something that Mumtoboys wrote in someone''s blog today and it was quite a revelation to me, as I had never thought of it like that. She pointed out tha ... 13 Jan 13, by Forester Latest 27 Jan 13 by Forester	Replies:3 :325	Latest by Forester 27 Jan 13
should i feel this regretful My husband rang me on Tuesday to discuss the house. When he left (16 weeks ago) he said that he wanted to sell it. I said that it might not sell straight away, ... 24 Jan 13, by littlegreen Latest 27 Jan 13 by fairylandtime 1 2	Replies:7 :809	Latest by fairylandtime 27 Jan 13
Trust at home ( wife ) Hi new to the site . I found some very sexually explicit text on my wifes mobile to other men she said she can''t stop what people send her .noting happene ... 17 Jan 13, by big one Latest 17 Jan 13 by shytallknight	Replies:4 :322	Latest by shytallknight 17 Jan 13
fuming Last night my stbx mother in law phoned and left a message accusing me of not allowing our children to speak to her. The message she left was like listening to ... 15 Jan 13, by GETTING STRONGER NOW Latest 15 Jan 13 by fairylandtime 1 2	Replies:8 :807	Latest by fairylandtime 15 Jan 13
Trust and Insecurity :( There have been issues with trust and insecurity in my new relationship. My new partner of 2 years has had issues with how long it''s taken to get my divorce so ... 08 Jan 13, by carlos_fandango Latest 10 Jan 13 by Nigella19 1 2	Replies:10 :693	Latest by Nigella19 10 Jan 13
Tell me why? Why after more than three years can I not even mention my exes name without a vile bitter venomous taste in my mouth? Why, when I had the affair and en ... 08 Jan 13, by Confuzzled Latest 09 Jan 13 by Marshy_ 1 2	Replies:10 :843	Latest by Marshy_ 09 Jan 13
Softy right My husband told me in June this year he doesn''t love me anymore and doesn''t want to be with me. As we are expats in China will two children moving out for him ... 09 Dec 12, by Esined1601 Latest 04 Jan 13 by Sasquatch 1 2	Replies:8 :663	Latest by Sasquatch 04 Jan 13

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