interested in your views re ex

LG - I feel your words. We certainly had the determination to see it through to the end didn''t we. We should have run for our lives and, as you say, we would have had''ve we only known what a right old turn out it would all end up. You will get your colours back. They will be different but just as good. Once you get used to them you will like them even better I reckon. Just make sure you are colourfast rather than run-proof next time.

abra - you have been through so much, and I am pleased to meet you, though it would have been better for us both were it not on wikivorce hey. What you describe I can relate to. Be encouraged that it will improve once, as you say, matters are settled and you need have no further contact. From what you say you are a lovely mum and your children will cherish that. Best wishes with getting matters settled.

We are all going to have happier futures, on that I am quite determined and I have already pointed out the strength of our determinations.

Right then, Nige has spoken and it will come to pass x

the last 24 hours or so have been insightful, emotional and thought provoking. Today i feel hopeful and dare I say it quite colourful.

Abra now you are realising that it wasn''t you that penny when it drops makes the biggest din. Take this as your wake up call and do what I''m trying to do...find you. A lighthouse is a life saver, turn that light towards yourself and shine like you have never shone before.

LG xXx