Confidence returning (well a little)

Well that was an experience.

Took kids to the park to be with their mum, I was looking forward to listening to the footy with a coffee in the car. Pull into the car park and what do I see, her and ''lover'' sitting in his van right at the entrance. I spin round and park down the street because I dont want my kids seeing that.
Then I notice that he is not leaving, so I get out with the boys and wander to the park, I get my coffee and stand nearby.
My wife does not like this and clearly her new man doesn''t either as she is ignoring the kids and constantly on her phone.
Any way, after 10 mins she gets fed up, and goes back to the van, telling the kids that it is my fault, they protest that I havent done anything... (It should be noted, my only ever request to her is that he not meet the kids).
So I leave the park and pop into Tesco Express, coming out they are passing in his van and he steers the van towards me, nothing huge, just a twitch that took him so close I had to take a step... What sort of nutta is he that he would do this in front of her kids. All getting out of hand, I just want a quiet life!

Hi,
I was reading through the whole thread...and TBH I agree with Michum, your best plan for now is to allow the dust to settle, don''t go to the CSA just yet and don''t pettition. You need to establish yourself as the PWC, it the child benefit is paid to her then at some point you will have to get that transfered to you, but don''t be tempted to rush in. If you go rushing in there is a chance she will move back into the FMH, kick you out and cop the lot.
With the exception of facilitating contact, try to have as little contact with your s2bx as possible.

LB