| | So low Felt slightly in control yesterday but this morning back to the bottom or beyond. I know I should be looking after myself but I physically can''t eat, haven''t ... Latest 19 Jun 16 by NotasStressedDad | Replies:1 :420 | Latest by NotasStressedDad 19 Jun 16 |
| | Getting too mucch THis is getting too much.
I am just not sure how I am going to get through this.
The lows are just too much at times.
It feels ridicu ... Latest 26 May 16 by Declan | Replies:11 :1037 | |
| | No contact How do people manage the no contact thing when you still have kids?
I don''t want the kids to know how difficult it is for me to speak to her but the p ... Latest 22 May 16 by Moona50 | Replies:11 :1072 | |
| | Seven months. I haven''t been on here for a while (perhaps I thought I was a person who could cope) but today is a landmark bad day as we have accepted an offer for our house ... Latest 22 May 16 by Declan | Replies:9 :1110 | |
| | Daily post Hello people,
Not even sure what I am going to write but I just need to do this as I feel so low today.
Is it wrong to wallow in sadness every ... Latest 18 May 16 by Declan | Replies:16 :1488 | |
| | What to tell people Please could I have some advice.
I suffer from Complex Post Traumatic Stress as a result of being married to a Narcist/emotional abuser. I am unable to wor ...
Latest 17 May 16 by Jane2014 | Replies:5 :385 | |
| | Healing Morning wiki friends.
I am feeling quite deep and reflective this morning and I started to think about the word "healing".
F ... Latest 17 May 16 by freefalling | Replies:11 :1127 | Latest by freefalling 17 May 16 |
| | Countdown This is getting even worse.
My wife is leaving soon and does not want to speak to me at all about our marriage. We are seperated and moving on that i ... Latest 12 May 16 by Vastra1 | Replies:9 :1167 | |
| | This is brutal Evening folks,
I had a great week last week and felt quite on top of things.
Today has been hellish though and I have just had a meltdown afte ... Latest 05 May 16 by Moona50 | Replies:6 :456 | |
| | Drugs Depression Separation I have been separated from my husband since xmas - I asked him to leave and he did. He has been suffering from depression for the past year and began drinking ... Latest 26 Apr 16 by Vastra1 | Replies:17 :1651 | |
| | Lower lows I am 10 months in and seem to have much better days and they can last maybe 3 or 4 days at a time now. I genuinely feel on top of things and quite optimistic d ... Latest 23 Apr 16 by flowerofscotland | Replies:15 :1613 | Latest by flowerofscotland 23 Apr 16 |
| | Food for thought Hello this Sunny morning,
Here is a little post about emotional pain and suffering . It may help some I dunno . If it helps one then all well and good< ...
Latest 21 Apr 16 by Sherara | Replies:10 :1227 | |
| | Impossible situation I don''t really know where to start if I''m truly honest.
I separated from my husband a little while ago, which involved selling the house and me findi ... Latest 17 Apr 16 by NellNoRegrets | Replies:3 :512 | Latest by NellNoRegrets 17 Apr 16 |
| | Triggers I am having such a low day.
In general in the last couple of months I have had a few days at a time where I am emotionally quite calm then comes a melt ... Latest 16 Apr 16 by Declan | Replies:11 :1141 | |
| | Whats it all been for ? Received stbx`s Form E today. Considering I have always classed him as a stickler for accuracy boarding on Asperger`s , his form is full of lies and exaggeratio ... 14 Apr 16, by itsbeenalongtime Latest 16 Apr 16 by itsbeenalongtime | Replies:4 :433 | Latest by itsbeenalongtime 16 Apr 16 |
| | Difficult Again I am so down today.
If I think about the upsides, financially I am fine, it is amicable, the kids seem OK, I will see plenty of them. I am lucky ... Latest 15 Apr 16 by Moona50 | Replies:9 :1138 | |
| | Uplifting Moments Hello wiki friends
I just wanna say that as of late I have been experiencing what I can only describe as an unburdening of my thoughts and concerns . I ... Latest 06 Apr 16 by Declan | Replies:12 :1175 | |
| | 1 year on... Well, its one year since my wife decided to leave. Nothing is sorted. No divorce served, I am in the marital home, and she rents a little flat. Neither of us ha ... Latest 05 Apr 16 by Lipstickandlollipops | Replies:9 :1112 | Latest by Lipstickandlollipops 05 Apr 16 |
| | Am I depressed or is this normal? I am going through a really difficult time at the moment -it just feels as though everything is falling apart since my divorce. My manager has been unsupportive ... Latest 04 Apr 16 by NellNoRegrets | Replies:10 :1282 | Latest by NellNoRegrets 04 Apr 16 |
| | Need to escape I am in a very unhappy marriage my husband is moody and verbally abusive...I want to go out on my own but he refuses to sell up and part ....main problem I am ... Latest 31 Mar 16 by hadenoughnow | Replies:2 :447 | Latest by hadenoughnow 31 Mar 16 |
| | who am I I am nearing Absolute. Terrified of finally being divorced.
After 32 years of being Mrs *****, who am I going to be when I am divorced.
I have gone from ... 25 Mar 16, by itsbeenalongtime Latest 30 Mar 16 by pebbleonthebeach | Replies:17 :1412 | Latest by pebbleonthebeach 30 Mar 16 |
| | Sleeplessness - heavy blanket Lord knows I have contributed to a dozen threads on sleeplessness on here, and listed all the many things I have tried to no avail (hypnosis, drugs, herbal reme ... 05 Mar 16, by elizadoolittle Latest 25 Mar 16 by GimmeShelter | Replies:4 :427 | Latest by GimmeShelter 25 Mar 16 |
| | Keep dreaming about the split This morning I woke up feeling upset after yet another dream about the moment I split up with my ex. I keep having these dreams, each of them in different scena ... Latest 18 Mar 16 by Lizziejt | Replies:16 :1606 | |
| | Why her not me? Hi all. I have been feeling really upbeat recently, not missing my ex and just getting on with my life... Then (it''s always the smallest things) I was watching ... Latest 15 Mar 16 by Vastra1 | Replies:20 :1654 | |
| | I miss my light hearted self.. It has been a while since I posted, but while I can''t sleep...
So the children and I are currently homeless, after a year of dealing with a campaign to get ...
23 Feb 16, by berrygoblin Latest 27 Feb 16 by berrygoblin | Replies:4 :415 | Latest by berrygoblin 27 Feb 16 |
| | So exhausted from it all! I just wonder sometimes, will it end and how much more can I take. We split on 1st Nov 2014, still no closer and in the latest round I received a phone call tod ... Latest 16 Feb 16 by Mitchum | Replies:2 :421 | |
| | Anyone want to swap brains?! The brain is such a complex beast at times and it really annoys me!
I am trying so hard to be neutral in my dealings with my STBX but I find it ever so ... Latest 15 Feb 16 by Marshy_ | Replies:8 :1037 | |
| | Why I had divorced I''ve had depression ever since I was in my early teens. lately it had been a lot worse. so worse that I got divorced by my now ex-husband because he can''t dea ... Latest 10 Feb 16 by BreeMil | Replies:2 :720 | |
| | Sadness in my Heart Gosh I really hate this roller coaster!
I have this deep saddness in my heart and I guess it''s just part of the grieving process that comes with divor ... Latest 05 Feb 16 by MooToo | Replies:9 :989 | |
| | Now I understand You know, I always wondered when people are talking, the lot standing there and one said "hi, was it really that bad, did he really think it was that b ... Latest 04 Feb 16 by Singlemum72 | Replies:1 :410 | Latest by Singlemum72 04 Feb 16 |
| | When it gets bad for me I know it is just at the beginning but what is worst of all, is if I accidently just see a picture of when all was going well, everybody happy, seeing our futur ... Latest 03 Feb 16 by afonleas | Replies:1 :417 | |
| | Dealing with anger and resentment 3 months into our separation and after a complete humiliation. ..I''m angry. Yes I''ve done all of the reading, I know it''s a stage of grief.
We sti ... 03 Feb 16, by Singlemum72 Latest 03 Feb 16 by MooToo | Replies:4 :401 | |
| | nisi I have been waiting for nearly 8 weeks for the Nisi paperwork to come through. I have no idea what it actually is. I have a court number so am I waiting for the ... 26 Jan 16, by itsbeenalongtime Latest 31 Jan 16 by MooToo | Replies:2 :381 | |
| | I''m Done So it''s taken a while but I have finally come to realise that all my efforts to try to build bridges with my STBX are not worth it.
I wanted to try to ... Latest 31 Jan 16 by MooToo | Replies:3 :388 | |
| | Such a mess Hi All
I can''t begin to tell you how stressed I am with the events in my life  Latest 31 Jan 16 by MooToo | Replies:11 :954 | |
| | Good idea or bad idea? Hi All
Just wondered what your take on this was. My STBX has sort of moved out of the marital home now and only really pops in for a couple of hours e ... Latest 29 Jan 16 by MooToo | Replies:11 :901 | |
| | Can I survive this Is this how it feels every day. A alarm clock waking you up. A cold bed next to you. And you wonder, is it even bothering her. A while ago someone at least phon ... Latest 25 Jan 16 by mustcomethrough | Replies:4 :474 | Latest by mustcomethrough 25 Jan 16 |
| | If there is one Well, I once read (well I suppose I should not say that but anyway) someone said... If there is a GOD he must have a strange sense of humour. ... Latest 25 Jan 16 by Still me | Replies:1 :418 | |
| | Latest 24 Jan 16 by AngieP | Replies:1 :444 | |
| | Divorce is good .... Hi
Just a quick one liner really on how I am beginning to view divorce .
Divorce is good for us , because not one good marriage has ended in d ... Latest 19 Jan 16 by Declan | Replies:83 :4955 | |
