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Trolly Dolly

Thanks for asking. I am better today.

Good sleep last night and was in work for a bit then lunch with a goood friend.

Spent the evening trying to stay away from my wife. Not because we are at each other''s throats or arguing but just because it is to painful.

i hope you are well.

M.

It sounds like you have the sword of Damocles hanging over you. At least I found out about my husbands extra curricular activities and threw his arse out there and then. There was no messing about. I sent him packing.
Only a few days and your stbx will be gone. Hopefully then your stress will be less. Or just a different kind.
Glad you''ve got out and about anyway. Look after yourself.

Morning Moona,

Thinking of you fella during this difficult period . Shoulder to shoulder my friend .

Moona,

Here is something that I learned on my journey to help free the pain .

If caught up in a belief that holds you back such as

I still love them very much
Maybe she will change her mind
I just can''t let her go after all these years . And , many more like that

Thoughts like that keep us in pain

Here is a quote that summarises what you may have known for some time now and provided a kick for me.


" If someone wants to leave you,let them go."
Powerful eh,

Says a lot
Says , that you should not stop someone who has made the decision to go. Or, that you should prefer your dignity .
It tells you to do the right thing ,even if it seems unbearable .

Once you come to the conclusion that you want to do the right thing, because you cannot go on like this anymore , get the best help you can .

Big step coming up Moona. You got a massive gang right here supporting you .

Best
D