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Relationships 1554 topics

Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.
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Bombshell
Oh my god, just been hit by a complete bombshell.

Bumped in to neighbour who told me something that I had suspected since ex had locked me out of our h ...
26 Nov 11, by Phoenix1963
Latest 29 Nov 11 by stepper
Replies:5
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Latest by stepper
29 Nov 11
my son & my new partner
Can anyone help me help my son in dealing with my new partner? My 12 year old is feeling a lot of pain following my seperation from my husband. I understand he ...
22 Nov 11, by housey
Latest 25 Nov 11 by Marshy_
Replies:11
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Latest by Marshy_
25 Nov 11
Stil in love with my ex
Apologies if this isthe wrong place for this & being so pathetic but I can't talk.to friends on this & I need to off load. My ex & I split 6 years a ...
26 Sep 11, by Unimum
Latest 25 Nov 11 by hazelhorse
Replies:20
:1155
Latest by hazelhorse
25 Nov 11
Getting over the pain and trusting again.
Its been just over a year since my seperation which is now going to be a divorce.
I have been on a few dates as I feel ready to love again but have so much ...
12 Nov 11, by Kitten08
Latest 20 Nov 11 by Marshy_
Replies:4
:243
Latest by Marshy_
20 Nov 11
Giving him last chance?
Help needed please!!!

I've been divorced for 2 years now and have moved on, met the one, my soulmate. Although we've only met in April this year and of ...
20 Nov 11, by moving_on1265
Latest 20 Nov 11 by Marshy_
Replies:2
:279
Latest by Marshy_
20 Nov 11
What would YOU do for love?
...would you change your name?
...would you be a baby making machine?
...would you raise step children as your own?
...would you be polite with your ...
08 Oct 11, by MontyPython
Latest 13 Nov 11 by Kitten08
Replies:13
:842
Latest by Kitten08
13 Nov 11
undying love
I have had a PM from what appears to be a conveyancer in need of some love. I'm not sure how to respond - any ideas?

Her email begins "My name is ...
11 Nov 11, by .Charles
Latest 11 Nov 11 by .Charles
Replies:19
:908
Latest by .Charles
11 Nov 11
How KIND are you?
This was discussed on BBC 1 this morning...how KIND are you?

What act of kindness have you done this week?

Remember these acts do not have mon ...
10 Nov 11, by MontyPython
Latest 10 Nov 11 by positive99
Replies:2
:347
Latest by positive99
10 Nov 11
Trauma
I am doing fine most of the time now. 11 months post my separation and life is good again. Light at the end of the tunnel is clear and bright.

I have m ...
08 Nov 11, by Shoegirl
Latest 08 Nov 11 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:9
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Latest by NellNoRegrets
08 Nov 11
Move back in?
My ex decided last February he didnt want to be with me anymore. Had several GF's.

Finally moved out of home in July. Rented a place with his then GF ...
02 Nov 11, by CarolB_1958
Latest 04 Nov 11 by Marshy_
Replies:3
:298
Latest by Marshy_
04 Nov 11
Relationships after separation
I've posted a few posts recently about my financial situation post separation but I wanted some advice on my current relationship status.

A couple of m ...
03 Nov 11, by cw1975
Latest 03 Nov 11 by Marshy_
Replies:3
:472
Latest by Marshy_
03 Nov 11
Absolute gained, Consent Order Sealed.. what next?
My cousin got his decree Absolute in April 2011 and the Consent Order was sealed in early October this year. Between obtaining the Absolute and having the Cons ...
30 Oct 11, by Mogadored
Latest 01 Nov 11 by Mogadored
Replies:2
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Latest by Mogadored
01 Nov 11
Am I mad?
Hi everyone,

To give a bit of background me and my stbx split in May this year and he moved out at beginning of June. Within days he had met someone an ...
11 Oct 11, by positive99
Latest 31 Oct 11 by mummymanchester
Replies:18
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Latest by mummymanchester
31 Oct 11
Why won't she divorce him? **update added**
Hi everyone, Im new here and this is my first post:)

My partners ex said she'd divorce him for adultery but hasn't done anything about it yet? I can't ...
13 Jan 11, by xtcc
Latest 31 Oct 11 by mummymanchester
Replies:29
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Latest by mummymanchester
31 Oct 11
Why do I feel like this?
Sorry to post yet another pityful me me me!
I chucked my stbx out in July as I found numerous emails between him and women he worked with/had worked with in ...
28 Oct 11, by lozzsa21
Latest 31 Oct 11 by mummymanchester
Replies:14
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Latest by mummymanchester
31 Oct 11
Ex wife problems
my partner was thrown out by his wife of 14 years because she was in love with someone else. that was 3 years ago. a year ago we met.
she has caused nothing ...
26 Oct 11, by plshelp
Latest 27 Oct 11 by hawaythelads
Replies:5
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Latest by hawaythelads
27 Oct 11
Relationships - Beware the Charming Man
Daily Mail article - food for thought.

Latest 18 Oct 11 by rubytuesday
Locked
Replies:19
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Latest by rubytuesday
18 Oct 11
Bewildered???
Will try to keep this short and sweet, but that may be slightly difficult!!
I am truly confused by events in my life and any advice would be welcome without ...
08 Oct 11, by GillB7
Latest 11 Oct 11 by PricklyRobin
Replies:10
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Latest by PricklyRobin
11 Oct 11
What is it all about? :-(
Apologies to start with guys, I am having my own little pity party today....
Divorced four years ago. Then fell in love again,it was a long distance relatio ...
10 Oct 11, by Liago
Latest 10 Oct 11 by ditchedagain11
Replies:1
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Latest by ditchedagain11
10 Oct 11
Bad romances
The BBC recently published this ...
Latest 02 Oct 11 by sun flower
Replies:2
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Latest by sun flower
02 Oct 11
Confused over my bf feelings for ex
Hi all,
I've been seeing my bf for 2 years now. We're both separated with children so have similar issues to deal with. I am my children's primary carer, s ...
29 Jul 11, by ishouldbesolucky
Latest 30 Sep 11 by strongerthanithought
Replies:16
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Latest by strongerthanithought
30 Sep 11
In mental purgatory
I've been married 20 years. Like most marriages it has had its ups and downs including an affair on each side. Somehow we muddled through until about 8 years ...
28 Sep 11, by in10ct
Latest 30 Sep 11 by in10ct
Replies:5
:498
Latest by in10ct
30 Sep 11
Friends of the 'opposite sex'
After separation or divorce it is great to have a new relationship at some stage. It can spark off a whole new lease of life, boost your self esteem and general ...
26 Sep 11, by michellesurprised
Latest 27 Sep 11 by Marshy_
Replies:8
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Latest by Marshy_
27 Sep 11
Effort in Marriage
Interesting article here, in yesterday's Daily Telegraph.

Latest 26 Sep 11 by RoseQ
Replies:4
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Latest by RoseQ
26 Sep 11
need advice
Hi there, i need advice about what`s gonna happen if i getting divorced.
I am 30 years old mother of 6 months old son.
I am married, but this is going t ...
21 Sep 11, by rori_24
Latest 25 Sep 11 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:1
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Latest by NellNoRegrets
25 Sep 11
when can i start dating again.........
Hi,
I am going through a divorce procedure from my ex husband.
At the moment i am not interested in meeting a man but i think that my divorce could go o ...
15 Sep 11, by pandabear41
Latest 24 Sep 11 by Bobbinalong
Replies:6
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Latest by Bobbinalong
24 Sep 11
Over protective mother?
Hopefully others might have experienced the situation I am finding myself in...

I am in a relationship. It's been less than two years though. We have a ...
22 Sep 11, by NRP
Latest 23 Sep 11 by NRP
Replies:18
:847
Latest by NRP
23 Sep 11
Mans point of view please
I have been in a relationship for 18 months with a great man. I fell hopelessly in love with him, and was devoted to him, I would do anything for him, I spoilt ...
16 Sep 11, by PinkDuck
Latest 20 Sep 11 by Patrick1968
Replies:10
:627
Latest by Patrick1968
20 Sep 11
Ex's girlfriend won't butt out
Hi everyone
I'm new to this divorce game so please can you offer some advice
My divorce of 2 years is not amicable 18 yrs marriage 25 yrs total relation ...
06 Aug 11, by bike rage
Latest 17 Sep 11 by sillywoman
Replies:5
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Latest by sillywoman
17 Sep 11
I DO want a man to........
...compliment me.
...love me unconditionally.
...respect me before your mother or daughters.
...make passionate love to me only.
...smile.
. ...
09 Sep 11, by MontyPython
Latest 16 Sep 11 by Marshy_
Replies:20
:903
Latest by Marshy_
16 Sep 11
Friends with benefits
Bit confused at the moment. Have met a nice guy and we have started a relationship.
Its all very new and very different.
10 Sep 11, by teecher
Latest 16 Sep 11 by Marshy_
Replies:14
:842
Latest by Marshy_
16 Sep 11
I DON'T want a man to........
...give me his surname, I have a perfectly good one thank-you.
...smoke.
...drink alcohol heavily.
...fart.
...steal.
...lie.
...hide an ...
09 Sep 11, by MontyPython
Latest 09 Sep 11 by Lostboy67
Replies:14
:847
Latest by Lostboy67
09 Sep 11
Hubby left me
My husband has left me and although I have been expecting it for years I still have no idea how I will manage financially.
We have 2 children together 1 is ...
07 Sep 11, by Gutted101
Latest 09 Sep 11 by Nanny18
Replies:11
:684
Latest by Nanny18
09 Sep 11
help
Help......
just had a major surprise today...got an email from this female that...my wife of 17 years has been sending pics of herself rangeing from topless ...
21 Aug 11, by desperatedave
Latest 05 Sep 11 by Marshy_
Replies:11
:603
Latest by Marshy_
05 Sep 11
Would love to meet new people but awkward?
My story isn't typical (or maybe it is but I have only known of one from this site so far).

My ex and I have separated amicably (last Christmas) but fo ...
31 Aug 11, by kids4life
Latest 31 Aug 11 by kids4life
Replies:2
:219
Latest by kids4life
31 Aug 11
He just does not get it!
Hi all

I have been married for 11 years.

1. My hub has never got on with my 3 children from a previous marriage

2. We both had affa ...
30 Aug 11, by louise1969
Latest 31 Aug 11 by NellNoRegrets
Replies:2
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Latest by NellNoRegrets
31 Aug 11
27 Aug 11, by PinkDuck
Latest 29 Aug 11 by Marshy_
Replies:4
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Latest by Marshy_
29 Aug 11
Shall I stay or shall I go now (a song coming on)
I am not sure where to begin, having gone through two divorces I now feel I am going through a third and its not even mine..

As much as I dont want to ...
12 Aug 11, by PinkDuck
Latest 27 Aug 11 by hadenoughnow
Replies:64
:2528
Latest by hadenoughnow
27 Aug 11
custody joint
many thanks to all of you who have given me replies to my questions.

Can any of the answers be found in writing any where on the net,as I may need this ...
26 Aug 11, by chicken123
Latest 26 Aug 11 by chicken123
Replies:11
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Latest by chicken123
26 Aug 11
Feeling terrible
Hi

My husband moved out about 12 weeks ago. It was my decision to end the relationship and I was doing ok - I had the odd wobble but i was managing to ...
21 Aug 11, by positive99
Latest 23 Aug 11 by louise1969
Replies:13
:602
Latest by louise1969
23 Aug 11

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