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	Internet dating searched I''m nowhere near ready to date. The thought of it turns my stomach. Why? Because I''m still attached to my wife of course. So what use have I for dating sites ... 22 Apr 12, by samchik1 Latest 23 Apr 12 by Canuck425 1 2	Replies:8 :615	Latest by Canuck425 23 Apr 12
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	what do I do? Hi I am married for 2 years but we have been together for ten. our relationship has never been easy but things have got worse since our marrage. I am now starti ... 20 Apr 12, by avion Latest 21 Apr 12 by samchik1	Replies:1 :310	Latest by samchik1 21 Apr 12
	New Maroon 5 Song about breakups </div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 19 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/325047-new-maroon-5-song-about-breakups#325238 title="brilliant song xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 20 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>raybird</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>377</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/325047-new-maroon-5-song-about-breakups#325238 title="brilliant song xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>raybird</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 20 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar title="I already knew it to be so...but now I''ve got the cold, hard proof. Man does this sting badly. I did something a little underhand...I installed a key logger onto our laptop. I checked the key logs..." class=" topictitle">She''s a liar...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I already knew it to be so...but now I''ve got the cold, hard proof. Man does this sting badly.<br> <br> I did something a little underhand...I installed a key ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 18 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar?start=14#325015" title="Well done on finding out, I had the same excuses and had sight of emails to her lover and bang. Things won''t get better. Do not meet or speak with her. She will back pedal now because you''ve ruined..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 19 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Patrick1968</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>17</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>929</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324709-she-s-a-liar?start=14#325015" title="Well done on finding out, I had the same excuses and had sight of emails to her lover and bang. Things won''t get better. Do not meet or speak with her. She will back pedal now because you''ve ruined..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Patrick1968</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 19 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324864-advice-for-the-weekend><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324864-advice-for-the-weekend title="He wants to come and see the kids (which is fine) but wants to come and spend the day at the house with them just hanging out, make tea, watch tv, play games (like its a normal day). A week ago I..." class=" topictitle">Advice for the weekend</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> He wants to come and see the kids (which is fine) but wants to come and spend the day at the house with them just hanging out, make tea, watch tv, play games (l ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 19 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Sunshine10</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324864-advice-for-the-weekend?start=7#324984" title="Sunshine10 wrote: Hugs sunshine - yes its going to be mighty difficult, but its a brave and decent thing you''re doing!" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 19 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324864-advice-for-the-weekend?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324864-advice-for-the-weekend?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>13</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>572</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324864-advice-for-the-weekend?start=7#324984" title="Sunshine10 wrote: Hugs sunshine - yes its going to be mighty difficult, but its a brave and decent thing you''re doing!" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 19 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324737-do-i-say-something><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324737-do-i-say-something title="Hi Wikis I could do with your opinion on this one please. Bit of background - split from stbx at end of 2010 on finding out about his affair, he has ignored all divorce papers until January of this..." class=" topictitle">Do I say something?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi Wikis<br> <br> I could do with your opinion on this one please.<br> <br> Bit of background - split from stbx at end of 2010 on finding out about his affair, ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 18 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Sailorgirl</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324737-do-i-say-something?start=7#324820" title="I let him stay as like I said, now i''m nearing the end I don''t want to rock the boat. It''s also better for the children as they don''t have to endure a friday night drive, its 4 hours on a good..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 18 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Sailorgirl</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324737-do-i-say-something?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324737-do-i-say-something?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>10</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>882</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324737-do-i-say-something?start=7#324820" title="I let him stay as like I said, now i''m nearing the end I don''t want to rock the boat. It''s also better for the children as they don''t have to endure a friday night drive, its 4 hours on a good..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Sailorgirl</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 18 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324243-a-brutally-honest-post><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324243-a-brutally-honest-post title="Dear all...this is going to be a brutally, brutally honest post...I feel like I need to put this out there. Many of you who have read my posts will know that I have been plagued with self-blame during..." class=" topictitle">A brutally honest post...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Dear all...this is going to be a brutally, brutally honest post...I feel like I need to put this out there. Many of you who have read my posts will know that I ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 16 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324243-a-brutally-honest-post?start=7#324465" title="Hi Sam. No one is perfect. And nothing is perfect. The truth is, it wasnt right between you two and it didnt work out. Thats all. There were communications issues. But people like to find faults in..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 17 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324243-a-brutally-honest-post?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/324243-a-brutally-honest-post?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>10</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>695</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/324243-a-brutally-honest-post?start=7#324465" title="Hi Sam. No one is perfect. And nothing is perfect. The truth is, it wasnt right between you two and it didnt work out. Thats all. There were communications issues. But people like to find faults in..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 17 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324028-love-and-loss-of><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/324028-love-and-loss-of title="Good BBC Programme on all the aspects of.. Interesting from 0:20:00 ( da FOG!! ) LW" class=" topictitle">Love and Loss of....</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Good BBC Programme on all the aspects of..<br> <br> <a href=http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b01g4df7 class=bbcode_url rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" tar ... </div> </div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 15 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>320</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323820-my-list><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323820-my-list title="This was gonna be a blog. But I am on my I phone and the blog feature won''t work on that. So have to post this on the forum. Pain is intense today...searing...deep inside my stomach. As I posted..." class=" topictitle">My list</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> This was gonna be a blog. But I am on my I phone and the blog feature won''t work on that. So have to post this on the forum. Pain is intense today...searing... ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 15 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323820-my-list?start=7#323952" title="Hi Sam. I can see you doing some serious heart searching and I can understand why. You feel a failure. And I know this feeling all too well. But I want to tell you a few things. You may not listen...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 15 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323820-my-list?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323820-my-list?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>7</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>729</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323820-my-list?start=7#323952" title="Hi Sam. I can see you doing some serious heart searching and I can understand why. You feel a failure. And I know this feeling all too well. But I want to tell you a few things. You may not listen...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 15 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323626-backslide-already><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323626-backslide-already title="Ha...well that was all very nice while it lasted. But the inevitable backslide has hit hard today. I had felt empowered yesterday...but as some here said, that was more likely due to the fact that she..." class=" topictitle">Backslide...already</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Ha...well that was all very nice while it lasted. But the inevitable backslide has hit hard today. I had felt empowered yesterday...but as some here said, that ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 14 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323626-backslide-already#323766 title="One thing we can never really know is what they are doing. Those of us who have been left or dumped have this immediate cognitive bias that goes, ''they''ve chosen to do something else, which means..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 14 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>6</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>327</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323626-backslide-already#323766 title="One thing we can never really know is what they are doing. Those of us who have been left or dumped have this immediate cognitive bias that goes, ''they''ve chosen to do something else, which means..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 14 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323741-how-long-is-a-marriage><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323741-how-long-is-a-marriage title="how long will my marriage be considered by courts, i got married in 1995, but now in the process of divorce, according to my wife Petition our marriage broke down in 2004 i dispute this i put the..." class=" topictitle">how long is a marriage,</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> how long will my marriage be considered by courts, i got married in 1995, but now in the process of divorce, according to my wife Petition our marriage broke d ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 14 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>kasuku</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323741-how-long-is-a-marriage#323760 title="If, as you say, you were married in 1995 and are still married today, then your marriage lasted about 17 years. It does seem that the marriage has died a long lingering death, as I suppose my own..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 14 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>LittleMrMike</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>292</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323741-how-long-is-a-marriage#323760 title="If, as you say, you were married in 1995 and are still married today, then your marriage lasted about 17 years. It does seem that the marriage has died a long lingering death, as I suppose my own..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>LittleMrMike</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 14 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences title="Hello all, not been on for a few months, STBX left last September. Mid divorce now,got Nisi, awaiting FDR in May. Got fed up of being alone in February and began internet dating (this is after 18..." class=" topictitle">Dating - is it me?! Others experiences?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hello all, not been on for a few months, STBX left last September. Mid divorce now,got Nisi, awaiting FDR in May. Got fed up of being alone in February and bega ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 04 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>sohurt</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences?start=14#323599" title="Don''t give up just be true to yourself. That is all you can do. Meet men but be honest afterwards do not lead anyone astray. Do not critiise people that aren''t match for you (Unless there is a..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>maisymoos</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>17</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1077</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321709-dating-is-it-me-others-experiences?start=14#323599" title="Don''t give up just be true to yourself. That is all you can do. Meet men but be honest afterwards do not lead anyone astray. Do not critiise people that aren''t match for you (Unless there is a..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>maisymoos</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323459-reorganisation><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323459-reorganisation title="Yesterday I woke with a jolt...something was wrong. I went through a list...knot in stomach? Check. Feelings of utter despair? Check. Fear of losing my son? Check. Mind movies of a sexual and intimate..." class=" topictitle">Reorganisation...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Yesterday I woke with a jolt...something was wrong. I went through a list...knot in stomach? Check. Feelings of utter despair? Check. Fear of losing my son? Che ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 13 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323459-reorganisation?start=7#323555" title="Just another message of support... She left because you think about stuff, in just the kind of way that everyone else does? Man, she''s deluded... And to throw you curveballs of manipulative lines...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323459-reorganisation?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323459-reorganisation?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>11</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>769</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323459-reorganisation?start=7#323555" title="Just another message of support... She left because you think about stuff, in just the kind of way that everyone else does? Man, she''s deluded... And to throw you curveballs of manipulative lines...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323332-today-s-curve-balls><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323332-today-s-curve-balls title="So...today has brought fresh challenges and has thrown me a few curve balls I wasn''t expecting. The first one was her. She has turned into an emotional mess overnight. Went to bed like the cat who..." class=" topictitle">Today''s curve balls</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> So...today has brought fresh challenges and has thrown me a few curve balls I wasn''t expecting.<br> <br> The first one was her. She has turned into an emotiona ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 12 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323332-today-s-curve-balls?start=7#323417" title="Hi Sam. Just a short note to say that yr doing very well. You have the right attitude. Dont give her any money until she goes. Its her bed. She has made it. Now she has to lie on it. And we all have..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323332-today-s-curve-balls?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323332-today-s-curve-balls?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>8</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>844</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323332-today-s-curve-balls?start=7#323417" title="Hi Sam. Just a short note to say that yr doing very well. You have the right attitude. Dont give her any money until she goes. Its her bed. She has made it. Now she has to lie on it. And we all have..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323046-day-in-bristol><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/323046-day-in-bristol title="This day feels significant. Probably because I myself feel so insignificant. It is my first day completely alone since all of this began. She has taken our son out for the day. So, I had a hospital..." class=" topictitle">Day in Bristol</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> This day feels significant. Probably because I myself feel so insignificant. It is my first day completely alone since all of this began. She has taken our son ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 11 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323046-day-in-bristol?start=7#323112" title="Small steps Samchick, if that''s all you can manage at the moment, just small steps. It is such an awful situation to be in, I think everyone on here will agree. But you have to think about yourself..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 11 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>perin123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323046-day-in-bristol?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/323046-day-in-bristol?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>9</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>819</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/323046-day-in-bristol?start=7#323112" title="Small steps Samchick, if that''s all you can manage at the moment, just small steps. It is such an awful situation to be in, I think everyone on here will agree. But you have to think about yourself..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>perin123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 11 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322922-if-love-is-like-a-butterfly><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322922-if-love-is-like-a-butterfly title="I once read a philosopher''s (I think it was Nietzsche''s) account of love. He likened it to a butterfly that settles where it wants to...only to fly off at will, landing somewhere else. His point was..." class=" topictitle">If love is like a butterfly...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I once read a philosopher''s (I think it was Nietzsche''s) account of love. He likened it to a butterfly that settles where it wants to...only to fly off at wil ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 10 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322922-if-love-is-like-a-butterfly?start=7#323067" title="Hi Samchick samchik wrote: Then you can raise yr right hand, straight out and bring it down on yr back. Pat away. You did the right thing and you should commend yrself for this. A marriage is like..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 11 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322922-if-love-is-like-a-butterfly?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322922-if-love-is-like-a-butterfly?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>13</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>770</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322922-if-love-is-like-a-butterfly?start=7#323067" title="Hi Samchick samchik wrote: Then you can raise yr right hand, straight out and bring it down on yr back. Pat away. You did the right thing and you should commend yrself for this. A marriage is like..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 11 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322632-kids-meeting-the-new-girlfriend><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322632-kids-meeting-the-new-girlfriend title="please can you advise? i have found out (through my kids) that their dad...my stbx...has a new girlfriend and they have spent most of the weekend with her and kids......its left me feeling really..." class=" topictitle">kids meeting the new girlfriend</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> please can you advise?<br> i have found out (through my kids) that their dad...my stbx...has a new girlfriend and they have spent most of the weekend with her a ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 09 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>hapus</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322632-kids-meeting-the-new-girlfriend?start=7#322968" title="In all honesty this woman ain''t done anything wrong at all.She wasn''t responsible fo your marriage break up. Just be positive about her. It''s your ex that''s the twxt. All the best Pete x" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 11 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>hawaythelads</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322632-kids-meeting-the-new-girlfriend?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322632-kids-meeting-the-new-girlfriend?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>9</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>897</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322632-kids-meeting-the-new-girlfriend?start=7#322968" title="In all honesty this woman ain''t done anything wrong at all.She wasn''t responsible fo your marriage break up. Just be positive about her. It''s your ex that''s the twxt. All the best Pete x" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>hawaythelads</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 11 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex title="Well this one is eating away at me. Something she said a couple of weeks ago that has sort of lodged itself in my mind. But I need to provide context first. When we met she had been in a bad..." class=" topictitle">60% about sex??????</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Well this one is eating away at me. Something she said a couple of weeks ago that has sort of lodged itself in my mind. But I need to provide context first.<br> ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 06 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex?start=28#322918" title="This post highlights everyone has a view about sex. All fairly different. Lust and passion Intimate and caring Meaningful and meaningless I agree with another poster that age and relationship..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 10 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a class=disabled>...</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex?start=28" title=Page:5>5</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>33</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1642</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322073-60-about-sex?start=28#322918" title="This post highlights everyone has a view about sex. All fairly different. Lust and passion Intimate and caring Meaningful and meaningless I agree with another poster that age and relationship..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 10 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322829-newly-dating-when-to-do-the-horizontal-rumba><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322829-newly-dating-when-to-do-the-horizontal-rumba title="Been divorced for 5 years -hurray Single for the 5 years--hurray had a friendship bonk or two a few years back --hurray dated a bit but no-one I wanted to get to know better--also fine now the..." class=" topictitle">newly dating - when to do the horizontal rumba??</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Been divorced for 5 years -hurray<br> Single for the 5 years--hurray<br> had a friendship bonk or two a few years back --hurray<br> dated a bit but no-one I wan ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 10 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>soglad</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322829-newly-dating-when-to-do-the-horizontal-rumba#322857 title="Just tell him to leave off the sex texts and pushing it. You''re not giving it out anytime in the near future and you''ll be more likely to bin him if he keeps pressurising you. And besides i need the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 10 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>hawaythelads</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>639</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322829-newly-dating-when-to-do-the-horizontal-rumba#322857 title="Just tell him to leave off the sex texts and pushing it. You''re not giving it out anytime in the near future and you''ll be more likely to bin him if he keeps pressurising you. And besides i need the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>hawaythelads</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 10 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before title="Awful.Awful.Awful. I''m sitting here shaking...uncontrollably. Tears are hitting the keyboard...one has just hit the space bar right in the middle. Oh...where to start? I came home from my mum''s..." class=" topictitle">So the shit hit the fan...like never before</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Awful.Awful.Awful. I''m sitting here shaking...uncontrollably. Tears are hitting the keyboard...one has just hit the space bar right in the middle.<br> <br> Oh. ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 08 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before?start=28#322754" title="Well OP, you are a male version of me (and that is not actually a compliment right now because I was a total doormat when it came to my husband). Your wife is using you both sexually, emotionally and..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 10 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>soulruler</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a class=disabled>...</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before?start=28" title=Page:5>5</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>30</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1731</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322449-so-the-shit-hit-the-fan-like-never-before?start=28#322754" title="Well OP, you are a male version of me (and that is not actually a compliment right now because I was a total doormat when it came to my husband). Your wife is using you both sexually, emotionally and..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>soulruler</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 10 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322300-negatives-and-positives><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322300-negatives-and-positives title="Was going to post this as a blog but can''t get it to work - its a bit long for here sorry! Last time I wrote a blog it was 12 weeks on, now it is a week short of 11 months, in so many ways I cannot..." class=" topictitle">Negatives and Positives</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Was going to post this as a blog but can''t get it to work - its a bit long for here sorry!<br> <br> Last time I wrote a blog it was 12 weeks on, now it is a we ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 08 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Dees</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322300-negatives-and-positives?start=7#322673" title="I am amazed how much I have changed or developed in the last year. I am much more honest and genuine in all my interactions now. It''s not that I was a outright dirty liar before. Honestly, I just..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 10 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322300-negatives-and-positives?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322300-negatives-and-positives?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>9</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>676</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322300-negatives-and-positives?start=7#322673" title="I am amazed how much I have changed or developed in the last year. I am much more honest and genuine in all my interactions now. It''s not that I was a outright dirty liar before. Honestly, I just..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 10 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322658-gratitude><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322658-gratitude title="Here is an interesting article on gratitude. I am pretty close on this one. Moving through cancer and marriage breakdown at the same time has led me on a transformational journey. I am grateful..." class=" topictitle">Gratitude</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Here is an interesting article on gratitude.<br> <br> <a href=http://tinybuddha.com/blog/a-reason-to-be-grate...a-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN class=bbcode_url rel="n ... </div> </div><div class="pull-right"> </div><div class=started> 09 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>358</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322184-hell><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322184-hell title="Oh good god. This is just awful. So much pain. It literally physically hurts right now. I haven''t slept all night. My eyes sting from crying so much. The pendulum has swung well and truly out of my..." class=" topictitle">Hell</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Oh good god. This is just awful. So much pain. It literally physically hurts right now. I haven''t slept all night. My eyes sting from crying so much. The pendu ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 07 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322184-hell?start=7#322322" title="Samchik Amazing advice there from everyone and hope you are waking this morning with your little boy and can take all the positives from what the others have said and make it your mantra and not just..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 08 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-moderator>Mitchum</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322184-hell?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/322184-hell?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>11</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>632</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/322184-hell?start=7#322322" title="Samchik Amazing advice there from everyone and hope you are waking this morning with your little boy and can take all the positives from what the others have said and make it your mantra and not just..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>Mitchum</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 08 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322175-narcissist><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322175-narcissist title="I have read up on narcissim and my x meets all the traits. Has anyone been involved with one and even now he is controlling my youngest son and giving me spreadsheets of when i can see him which..." class=" topictitle">Narcissist</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I have read up on narcissim and my x meets all the traits. Has anyone been involved with one and even now he is controlling my youngest son and giving me spread ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 07 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>stresseduk</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322175-narcissist#322219 title="I too have read the traits of a narcissist and yep my ex passed with flying colours!!! I had to laugh gailuk at your ex''s spreadsheet!! My ex likes to be in control and fits son in where and when in..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 07 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>perin123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>374</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/322175-narcissist#322219 title="I too have read the traits of a narcissist and yep my ex passed with flying colours!!! I had to laugh gailuk at your ex''s spreadsheet!! My ex likes to be in control and fits son in where and when in..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>perin123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 07 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321933-reconciliation-but-showing-no-remorse><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321933-reconciliation-but-showing-no-remorse title="Hi, Firstly an apology. I feel a bit of a sham coming back on here after being off for well over 6 months, I will continue my blog over the coming weekend and conclude my nightmare 12 months. I have..." class=" topictitle">Reconciliation, but showing no remorse</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi,<br> <br> Firstly an apology. I feel a bit of a sham coming back on here after being off for well over 6 months, I will continue my blog over the coming week ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>donkler</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321933-reconciliation-but-showing-no-remorse?start=7#322215" title="I have just written a blog on this part of my story if anyones interested." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 07 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>donkler</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321933-reconciliation-but-showing-no-remorse?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321933-reconciliation-but-showing-no-remorse?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>7</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>726</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321933-reconciliation-but-showing-no-remorse?start=7#322215" title="I have just written a blog on this part of my story if anyones interested." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>donkler</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 07 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321960-any-ideas-for-keeping-distance><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321960-any-ideas-for-keeping-distance title="Honestly I am trying. Don''t pick up the calls the last few day, Written two letters (not sure he understood the first one) to say I don''t want to see or talk to him. But tonight he has to come..." class=" topictitle">Any ideas for keeping distance</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Honestly I am trying. Don''t pick up the calls the last few day, Written two letters (not sure he understood the first one) to say I don''t want to see or talk ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Sunshine10</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321960-any-ideas-for-keeping-distance#322055 title="U have to be brutal with the no contact rule. If you know he is coming round, try and be somewhere else leaving a neighbour or family member there to do what is needed. Dont accept calls from him...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 06 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>511</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321960-any-ideas-for-keeping-distance#322055 title="U have to be brutal with the no contact rule. If you know he is coming round, try and be somewhere else leaving a neighbour or family member there to do what is needed. Dont accept calls from him...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 06 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives title="So. I read a lot about these creatures, waws. Most of what I read is the same basic message; these women have ultimately died a &quot;death of a thousand tiny cuts.&quot; In other words, for years or..." class=" topictitle">Walk away wives</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> So. I read a lot about these creatures, waws. Most of what I read is the same basic message; these women have ultimately died a &quot;death of a thousand ti ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives?start=21#322004" title="I can''t even understand how I pxssed the ex harridan off so much to be a WAW I was never there most of the time too busy in work or the pub ;) HRH xx" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 06 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>hawaythelads</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>26</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1550</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321728-walk-away-wives?start=21#322004" title="I can''t even understand how I pxssed the ex harridan off so much to be a WAW I was never there most of the time too busy in work or the pub ;) HRH xx" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>hawaythelads</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 06 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321254-did-i-do-enough><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321254-did-i-do-enough title="I know I''m abusing this forum...just have so much to process I feel I''ll shortly implode if I don''t get some of this out. One of her main sources of ammunition has been that I was not supportive..." class=" topictitle">Did I do enough...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I know I''m abusing this forum...just have so much to process I feel I''ll shortly implode if I don''t get some of this out. One of her main sources of ammuniti ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321254-did-i-do-enough?start=7#321968" title="you did your best , you searched high and low to to resolve all difficulties,you have learned that your spouse does not share the same value , thoughts as your self. the fact is you never really..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 06 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>kasuku</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321254-did-i-do-enough?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321254-did-i-do-enough?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>11</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>924</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321254-did-i-do-enough?start=7#321968" title="you did your best , you searched high and low to to resolve all difficulties,you have learned that your spouse does not share the same value , thoughts as your self. the fact is you never really..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>kasuku</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 06 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320640-today><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320640-today title="My husband has just walked out the door. Even then I had to pack his bag. I don''t know if I''ve done the ''right'' thing. But today I just realised that I want to love someone who loves me back...." class=" topictitle">Today</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> My husband has just walked out the door. Even then I had to pack his bag. I don''t know if I''ve done the ''right'' thing. But today I just realised that I wa ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 29 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Sunshine10</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320640-today?start=21#321946" title="Re-iterating what the others have said. I try to be the ''fair'' parent and put his point of view to my son as he is not here to do it for himself - but I don''t want to do my son further damage. I..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 05 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>sun flower</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320640-today?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320640-today?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320640-today?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320640-today?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>22</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1218</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320640-today?start=21#321946" title="Re-iterating what the others have said. I try to be the ''fair'' parent and put his point of view to my son as he is not here to do it for himself - but I don''t want to do my son further damage. I..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>sun flower</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 05 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321334-feel-happy><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321334-feel-happy title="Over one and a half years on from discovering my exs affair, I have had the most complicated time consuming and contentious divorce which reached final hearing. Have still so many issues going on CSA..." class=" topictitle">Feel happy</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Over one and a half years on from discovering my exs affair, I have had the most complicated time consuming and contentious divorce which reached final hearing. ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>maisymoos</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321334-feel-happy#321341 title="Awesome! Thanks for the good news post. Love hearing it!" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 03 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>2</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>254</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321334-feel-happy#321341 title="Awesome! Thanks for the good news post. Love hearing it!" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 03 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321100-seven-thousand-million><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321100-seven-thousand-million title="Or 7 Billion people on this planet. So it didn''t work out between you and 1 of them. Just a thought this evening... LW (BTW samchik check your PM box)" class=" topictitle">Seven Thousand Million</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Or 7 Billion people on this planet.<br> <br> So it didn''t work out between you and 1 of them.<br> <br> Just a thought this evening...<br> <br> LW<br> <br> (BTW ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 01 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321100-seven-thousand-million?start=7#321267" title="The older I get, the more importance I place on shared values, beliefs, similar background, etc. I now realise my ex and I were like chalk and cheese when I look at our upbringings, outlook on..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 02 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Deedum</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321100-seven-thousand-million?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321100-seven-thousand-million?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>9</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>711</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321100-seven-thousand-million?start=7#321267" title="The older I get, the more importance I place on shared values, beliefs, similar background, etc. I now realise my ex and I were like chalk and cheese when I look at our upbringings, outlook on..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Deedum</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 02 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx title="This weekend both of our kids were at home, son from uni daughter on college holidays. Arranged to see Dad at Rugby for what should have been a great day out and time spent together for them. He had..." class=" topictitle">Prat of a STBX</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> This weekend both of our kids were at home, son from uni daughter on college holidays.<br> <br> Arranged to see Dad at Rugby for what should have been a great d ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>julie321</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx?start=21#321207" title="Thats the spirit Julie!!!! Just be glad, like me, that you have got rid of a cheat from your life, once a cheat always a cheat and let them wallow in their regret years down the line - whilst we..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 02 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>sillywoman</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>22</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1175</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321136-prat-of-a-stbx?start=21#321207" title="Thats the spirit Julie!!!! Just be glad, like me, that you have got rid of a cheat from your life, once a cheat always a cheat and let them wallow in their regret years down the line - whilst we..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>sillywoman</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 02 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious title="Well that''s just taking the piss. Came into the bathroom to have a bath for fear I''ll either let my anger out on her or break down. She is f?£&amp;£?g unbelievable. We got our separation agreement..." class=" topictitle">Bloody furious!!!!!!!!!</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Well that''s just taking the piss. Came into the bathroom to have a bath for fear I''ll either let my anger out on her or break down. She is f?£&amp;£?g u ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 31 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious?start=14#321191" title="The Black Adder sketch summed up my marriage perfectly ! thank you ,Shoegirl" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 02 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>livinginhope</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>14</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>899</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/321020-bloody-furious?start=14#321191" title="The Black Adder sketch summed up my marriage perfectly ! thank you ,Shoegirl" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>livinginhope</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 02 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321017-reconciliation><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321017-reconciliation title="Just thought I''d post this as these kind of stories seem to be rare. A stranger started chatting to me while waiting at the bus stop. He was going on about how the nice weather we''re having really..." class=" topictitle">Reconciliation?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Just thought I''d post this as these kind of stories seem to be rare.<br> <br> A stranger started chatting to me while waiting at the bus stop.<br> He was going ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 31 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321017-reconciliation#321044 title="Nice story indeed. Thanks for sharing. Yep, look after you. Get fit, reach out, accept it''s over, become pleasant and positive because that is attractive! You might get her back and you might not...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 01 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>5</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>275</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/321017-reconciliation#321044 title="Nice story indeed. Thanks for sharing. Yep, look after you. Get fit, reach out, accept it''s over, become pleasant and positive because that is attractive! You might get her back and you might not...." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 01 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320982-canuck-s-quot-red-flag-quot-exercise><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320982-canuck-s-quot-red-flag-quot-exercise title="Canuck, you made an interesting comment in response to my post yesterday. I thought a lot about what you said about &quot;red flags&quot; in the early phase of our relationships (there are many) and..." class=" topictitle">Canuck''s &quot;red flag&quot; exercise</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Canuck, you made an interesting comment in response to my post yesterday.<br> <br> I thought a lot about what you said about &quot;red flags&quot; in th ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 31 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320982-canuck-s-quot-red-flag-quot-exercise#321038 title="Sam, Don''t beat yourself up about ignorning those flags, ever. Hindsight is a wonderful think, but we all make decisions based on who we are at the time, and at the time they were probably the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 31 Mar 12 by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>2</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>319</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320982-canuck-s-quot-red-flag-quot-exercise#321038 title="Sam, Don''t beat yourself up about ignorning those flags, ever. Hindsight is a wonderful think, but we all make decisions based on who we are at the time, and at the time they were probably the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 31 Mar 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320983-jury-please><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320983-jury-please title="What do I do? How much do I take before I give up? My wife thinks I am having / had an affair. I am not / did not. She has compiled a list of a number of (innocent) incidents and convinced herself..." class=" topictitle">Jury please</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> What do I do? How much do I take before I give up?<br> <br> My wife thinks I am having / had an affair. I am not / did not. She has compiled a list of a numb ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 31 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Cardigan</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320983-jury-please?start=7#321029" title="Have to say that I am loving the words of Canuck - maybe try his approach and see how you get on - and then if the worst comes to the worst you know you have given it your best shot. Sounds like it..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 31 Mar 12 by <span class=kwho-user>epitome title</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320983-jury-please?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320983-jury-please?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>8</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>571</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320983-jury-please?start=7#321029" title="Have to say that I am loving the words of Canuck - maybe try his approach and see how you get on - and then if the worst comes to the worst you know you have given it your best shot. Sounds like it..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>epitome title</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 31 Mar 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320822-worst-day-yet><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320822-worst-day-yet title=":( Well that was just an awful day...I really didn''t think it was possible for a human to feel that. She went to London overnight...I stayed with our son. Her going seemed to give me a taste of..." class=" topictitle">Worst day yet</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> <img src=data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHdpZHRoPSIyMCIgaGVpZ2h0PSIyMCI+PC9zdmc+ data-src=https://d1wvzw4tebwj88.cloudfront.net/media/kunena/emoticons/sad.png alt=:( title=:( class="bbcode_smiley jch-lazyload" width=20 height=20 /><noscript><img src=https://d1wvzw4tebwj88.cloudfront.net/media/kunena/emoticons/sad.png alt=:( title=:( class=bbcode_smiley width=20 height=20 /></noscript>Well that was just an awful day...I really didn''t think it was possibl ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 30 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320822-worst-day-yet?start=7#320919" title="samchuk, Canuk''s right about the pleading and the begging. But don''t be ashamed of what you already did. I did it too at the start. I was just being honest about how I felt to someone whom I thought..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 30 Mar 12 by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320822-worst-day-yet?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320822-worst-day-yet?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>9</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>678</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320822-worst-day-yet?start=7#320919" title="samchuk, Canuk''s right about the pleading and the begging. But don''t be ashamed of what you already did. I did it too at the start. I was just being honest about how I felt to someone whom I thought..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 30 Mar 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320596-when-they-leave-the-door-ajar-a-teeny-bit><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320596-when-they-leave-the-door-ajar-a-teeny-bit title="&quot;Maybe...in a few months I''ll realise what I have with you&quot; &quot;I might be back on the doorstep within a month&quot; &quot;Maybe this will be the biggest mistake of my life&quot;..." class=" topictitle">When they leave the door ajar...a teeny bit</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> &quot;Maybe...in a few months I''ll realise what I have with you&quot;<br> <br> &quot;I might be back on the doorstep within a month&quot;<br> < ... </div> </div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 29 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320596-when-they-leave-the-door-ajar-a-teeny-bit?start=7#320800" title="Hi Sam I am sorry you find yourself in this awful &quot;limbo&quot;. Been there, unfortunately like so many on here. My ex did the same, said the same, kept me in limbo for 12 months (whilst seeing..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 30 Mar 12 by <span class=kwho-user>perin123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320596-when-they-leave-the-door-ajar-a-teeny-bit?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320596-when-they-leave-the-door-ajar-a-teeny-bit?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>10</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>707</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320596-when-they-leave-the-door-ajar-a-teeny-bit?start=7#320800" title="Hi Sam I am sorry you find yourself in this awful &quot;limbo&quot;. Been there, unfortunately like so many on here. My ex did the same, said the same, kept me in limbo for 12 months (whilst seeing..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>perin123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 30 Mar 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much title="Yesterday evening I was hit with a combination of punches that floored me and from which I am yet to get back up. She says: (1) I wasn''t a good enough lover and our sex life left her indifferent. I..." class=" topictitle">Three comments that hurt so much...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Yesterday evening I was hit with a combination of punches that floored me and from which I am yet to get back up.<br> <br> She says:<br> <br> (1) I wasn''t a go ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 27 Mar 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much?start=21#320592" title="Thank you all for your comments. There''s a lot of wisdom and sense in what you''ve said. I''ll try to digest some of that as I struggle on in the light of those comments." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 29 Mar 12 by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>22</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1104</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/320285-three-comments-that-hurt-so-much?start=21#320592" title="Thank you all for your comments. There''s a lot of wisdom and sense in what you''ve said. I''ll try to digest some of that as I struggle on in the light of those comments." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 29 Mar 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> </tbody><tfoot> <tr> <td class="center hidden-phone"> <a id=forumbottom> </a> <a href=#forumtop rel=nofollow> <span class=divider></span> <i class="fa fa-arrow-up hasTooltip" aria-hidden=true></i> </a> </td> <td colspan=6 class=hidden-phone><div class=input-append> </div> </td> </tr> </tfoot> </table> </form><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination hidden-phone"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships?start=0" title=Page:Start>Start</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships?start=320" title=Page:Prev>Prev</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a class=disabled>...</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships?start=280" title=Page:8>8</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships?start=320" 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