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Relationships 1554 topics

Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.
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Love and Sex
I have been following and contributing to the brave post by Samchik regarding sex and love in marriage.

One poster went on slightly apprehensive that s ...
11 Apr 12, by soulruler
Latest 02 Apr 25 by kentkouh
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Latest by kentkouh
02 Apr 25
Dating and Facebook, Photos, etc
My wife and I separated in February and she filed for divorce in June - we are cordial but very much separated in all regards.

I've started seeing some ...
24 Sep 24, by ThisIsGoingWell
Latest 29 Jan 25 by benisfroms
Replies:6
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Latest by benisfroms
29 Jan 25
Telling my STBX about a new relationship
I finally decided to end my 11 year marriage in August 2023. One of the main reasons was due to the fact that the marriage was never consummated due to my wife' ...
19 Sep 24, by A Quiet Thing
Latest 03 Oct 24 by A Quiet Thing
Replies:6
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Latest by A Quiet Thing
03 Oct 24
Can my ex stop new partner coming to the house?
Hi all, I'm new to this forum and hoping someone can help!

For background, separated from husband after he cheated multiple times, own a house together ...
17 Jun 23, by Zuzie839
Latest 19 Jun 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:3
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Latest by rubytuesday
19 Jun 23
Is My Wife Having An Affair?
I am suspicious that my wife is having an affair.

I can't be certain, but does anyone recognize these signs.

1. About 3 months ago, she asked ...
08 Jul 16, by batterseaboy
Latest 14 Apr 23 by Erty
Replies:7
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Latest by Erty
14 Apr 23
Confused and indecisive
Hi
I wonder if someone can give me some honest feedback about what I should do. I am married to my wife for more than 13 years, with a daughter. The marriag ...
10 Sep 22, by joydeepsaha
Latest 24 Nov 22 by Cup of Tea
Replies:1
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Latest by Cup of Tea
24 Nov 22
Wife divorce application
Hi, ive just received an email informing me my wife has applied for a divorce & must respond in 14 days. Number 1 do I have to reply? & 2 how or when ...
28 Jul 22, by SKC2383
Latest 10 Aug 22 by SKC2383
Replies:2
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Latest by SKC2383
10 Aug 22
Ex has moved her into my house.
Hi all.

How do you cope when your Ex moves in a new partner. In summary I separated from him after years of being unhappy. It was my choice and I ini ...
18 Jul 22, by elaine238
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I've ruined my life
Hi, I am new on here and in desperate need for help.

I have been married for nearly 24 years and have 2 sons, 20 and 22 who still live at home but will ...
09 Aug 08, by Lsot1
Latest 13 Feb 22 by Lsot1
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Latest by Lsot1
13 Feb 22
Seperation
Hi, myself and wife have been trying to save the marriage, had councelling etc, we both agree it is going nowhere, we have no children and no home (currently re ...
13 Dec 21, by davetheman007
Latest 04 Jan 22 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
04 Jan 22
I wish I was a narcissistic
You may well gasp in horror when you see the title of my topic. Hear me out. I have been taken in by a narcissistic man.
He was confident, entertaining and ...
23 Jun 21, by Marbles2021
Latest 24 Jun 21 by mirage63
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Latest by mirage63
24 Jun 21
Revolut: Find out where money is being secretly moved to
Hello, I am new, joined this forum for advice, sorry if not in the right section. Also sorry it's long!

I’ve discovered by chance husband has re-acti ...
23 Feb 21, by mrsdoubtful
Latest 02 Mar 21 by gsub
Replies:3
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Latest by gsub
02 Mar 21
What to do ?
Hi

I have been in a stale relationship for some time and have recently been told by my wife that she is suffering panic attacks when I come home from o ...
03 Feb 19, by ardmore123
Latest 31 Jan 21 by LoveMyRascals
Replies:2
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Latest by LoveMyRascals
31 Jan 21
Is it ciminal emoitional abuse?
I thought I had a good case for coercive control because my wife screams for hours if I talk to my family, she has been hostile to some of my friends, and const ...
29 Nov 20, by thewomble
Latest 30 Nov 20 by Djsmith
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Latest by Djsmith
30 Nov 20
Do we ever learn? Discovering a narcissist, too late...
Hi All.

I ask myself this question many times in the last couple of years.
Do we ever learn?
The problem with learning about relationships, is ...
06 Nov 20, by Bobbinalong
Latest 29 Nov 20 by Nelly@2
Replies:5
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Latest by Nelly@2
29 Nov 20
Cohabitating
What constitutes cohabitation. Is staying over at my new partners house sufficient, or do we need to be paying bills etc together and pooling our finances In or ...
19 Oct 20, by Adgjl
Latest 21 Oct 20 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
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Latest by rubytuesday
21 Oct 20
Contact after separation
I’m currently supporting my son in the process of applying for a divorce.
They separated 6.5 yrs ago, there were several times they discussed divorce wher ...
17 Sep 20, by melsomebody
Latest 18 Sep 20 by Vigorate
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Latest by Vigorate
18 Sep 20
Am I entitled to have new partner round for visit
Hi all I’m new here.
I’m currently going through a divorce, I’m in the FH with the children, S2BEX is renting a room.
I have met someone new, he h ...
04 Jul 20, by TSZJ
Latest 08 Jul 20 by .Charles
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Latest by .Charles
08 Jul 20
What a mess
I haven't been on here for a few years. I got through my divorce with thanks to the support network on here. That was 2013.

Last year I met someone. I ...
13 Jun 19, by esox19
Latest 13 Jun 19 by Vigorate
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Latest by Vigorate
13 Jun 19
just joined. advice on separation please
Hi
I'm 3 months into my marriage separation.
It wasn't my choice.
Together for 28 yrs, married for 25.

I was a stay at home Mum, so I haven ...
20 May 19, by seaofwaves
Latest 20 May 19 by ilovedogs
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Latest by ilovedogs
20 May 19
Where to start
I've been married for 18 months but since last July my husband has been living at his parents house. I found out he had an affair with a girl from work and that ...
14 Mar 19, by bearhug
Latest 14 Mar 19 by bearhug
Replies:3
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Latest by bearhug
14 Mar 19
Separation
My wife and I are separating and at the moment are amicable. We are selling the house and splitting the equity. But now she has come back saying she wants 67% a ...
13 Feb 19, by Woodsy1974
Latest 13 Feb 19 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:7
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
13 Feb 19
Splitting up
Hi, I've posted here before and had some good advice, but tonight I have had my worst fears confirmed and have decided things need to end (relationship not life ...
11 Sep 18, by andyb7274
Latest 03 Dec 18 by Bobbinalong
Replies:3
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Latest by Bobbinalong
03 Dec 18
New relationship after the divorce
I was talking to a friend and she brought up a point that has had me wondering.
Once I'm completely divorced and I start a new relationship and that person ...
30 Nov 18, by Nellie,the,elephant
Latest 01 Dec 18 by Nellie,the,elephant
Replies:6
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Latest by Nellie,the,elephant
01 Dec 18
Help needed on my situation currently separated
Hi all.
when you have done something you seem to irreparable in relationship can it be turned round

comments please ...
24 Nov 18, by Bobbinalong
Latest 24 Nov 18 by Cheesestring
Replies:3
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Latest by Cheesestring
24 Nov 18
Wifes conversation with friend
We have been married for just under 2 years. As usual the marriage has had its ups and downs over the time - with good moments and arguments.

Recently ...
09 Nov 18, by garymorris
Latest 14 Nov 18 by garymorris
Replies:2
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Latest by garymorris
14 Nov 18
How soon can an asset split be forced?
Does anyone know how soon a spouse can start forcing a sharing of assets and sale of house after leaving the marital home? - no young children involved.

29 Jun 18, by clyptic
Latest 30 Jun 18 by hadenoughnow
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Latest by hadenoughnow
30 Jun 18
What happens if you have a new partner
What happens if you are in a relationship with someone else and going through divorce and financial settlement. You are considering living with them or even get ...
10 Jun 18, by Trinity la Matrix
Latest 10 Jun 18 by Under60
Replies:1
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Latest by Under60
10 Jun 18
Don't want to divorce but is it the only way forwa
I am after a bit of advice. I am married with a daughter (14 months) and over the recent few months, I am feeling as if my marriage is breaking down.

B ...
23 Feb 18, by lilou295
Latest 23 Feb 18 by polar
Replies:1
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Latest by polar
23 Feb 18
ex parte non molestation orders
Hi Im just wondering what i heard in court on monday was for real.

my ex got an exparte non molestation order against me claiming violent behavior towa ...
15 Feb 18, by cantbelievethis
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Adultery
I left my husband as I felt it too dangerous to stay after 20 years together.
We agreed to divorce June 2016.
Then he decided the reason (Unreasonable b ...
26 Jan 18, by Under60
Latest 06 Feb 18 by confusedjohn
Replies:2
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Latest by confusedjohn
06 Feb 18
Friend having affair.. advice please
Hello all,

Not been on here for ages but would appreciate some advice. I have found out that one of my best friends has been having an affair. She has ...
29 Dec 17, by belle43
Latest 29 Dec 17 by Under60
Replies:2
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Latest by Under60
29 Dec 17
My wife's affair??
he guy was supposed to be my "best friend". For 10 or 11 years they had an affair (even in my own bed and my son's bed). I never caught them, she fina ...
15 Oct 17, by Hatebreeds
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Kids calling boyfriend \"dad\"
I have been divorced for 4 1/2 years.
I have 3 wonderful kids and we have a 50/50 shared parental responsibility with their mom.
I have 2 daughters (12 ...
06 Aug 17, by unsure2
Latest 11 Aug 17 by Chrisb1579
Replies:3
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Latest by Chrisb1579
11 Aug 17
Why dont they take their belongings?
I have recently joined this forum and thankyou for your replies.

My husband left me 8 months ago for another woman. He only took with him his motorbik ...
24 Jan 09, by wengen
Latest 15 Jun 17 by Tamarasuju
Replies:50
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Latest by Tamarasuju
15 Jun 17
Fear of same thing happening
If I do have any relationships in the future, I cannot help but fear that a woman I was with would start exhibiting all the same behaviours as my wife.

...
14 May 17, by Average bloke
Latest 14 May 17 by Clawed
Replies:2
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Latest by Clawed
14 May 17
Isolated and confused
I am in an emotionally abusive marriage, have previously posted about this. We were trying again,but it has all gone horribly wrong, trying seemed to involve me ...
20 Apr 17, by coselbee
Latest 21 Apr 17 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
21 Apr 17
Impossible circumstances
Anyone else in a situation where everything they say/do/think is wrong in some way in the eyes of your spouse?

So given you can't do anything right, yo ...
29 Oct 16, by Average bloke
Latest 29 Oct 16 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
29 Oct 16
Stonewalling
Hi, does anyone have any opinions on stonewalling from a spouse?

Whenever my wife was unhappy with something she gave me the silent treatment for about ...
05 Oct 16, by Average bloke
Latest 06 Oct 16 by Grrrrrrrrrr01
Replies:3
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Latest by Grrrrrrrrrr01
06 Oct 16
Divorce / Failing Relationship Radar or DivDar
I don't know if its because I am divorced.

I am not sure if it was chatting here.

But I have a new Radar, I have had it for a long time now an ...
03 Oct 16, by lostandonthesofa
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