I've ruined my life

Thanks Girlie

I hope that you got something out of all that reading!

I have purposely kept popping back in to update as I think it's nice to be able to see a timeline of how things can and mostly do go.

I know my situation is unique to me, but the feelings, efforts and timescales are pretty much the same for everyone.

I know that at the start I would never have thought I would want to find anyone else, let alone fall in love, but I did and I have

Peace to you all....

I came on here this afternoon to post a question (all help appreciated!)and on browsing, came across this thread. I have just finished reading it! What a wonderful saga, i've laughed and cried but enjoyed every single post. What a wonderful bunch you all are and so supportive of each other too. I am so glad I found it, and was so absorbed that I forgot about my own problems for a while! Thank you all so much xx

Holy thread resurrection!!

Very quick reply, just a quick note to say that I am still happily married to Kathy - married in 2014.

I hope that all the others that were involved with my story found their own happiness.

There's a rainbow out there for all of you, just wait a little longer if it's not there yet