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Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

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	coercive control Coercive control is a complex pattern of abuse using power and psychological control over another – financial control, verbal abuse, forced social isolation.< ... 22 May 12, by hur Latest 02 Jun 12 by jar of hearts	Replies:6 :556	Latest by jar of hearts 02 Jun 12
	My New Theme Song </div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 31 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334389-my-new-theme-song#334500 title="Great upbeat song Nanny. I''ve been asked to think of a song to dance with my son to at his forthcoming wedding (I''ve refused to dance with ex). So far all I can think of is ''I''m gonna wash that..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 01 Jun 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Action</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>400</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334389-my-new-theme-song#334500 title="Great upbeat song Nanny. I''ve been asked to think of a song to dance with my son to at his forthcoming wedding (I''ve refused to dance with ex). So far all I can think of is ''I''m gonna wash that..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Action</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 01 Jun 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334491-marital-coercion-defence><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334491-marital-coercion-defence title="This looks like a really great benefit of staying married: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_coercion example of usefulness: www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2012/jun/01/vicky-pryce-chris-huhne" class=" topictitle">Marital Coercion defence</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> This looks like a really great benefit of staying married:<br> <a class=bbcode_url href=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_coercion target=_blank rel="n ... </div> </div><div class="pull-right"> </div><div class=started> 01 Jun 12, by <span class=kwho-user>maggie</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>497</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334001-inlove><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334001-inlove title="Hi All , i am sure this has been covered many times but here goes ... How long does being in love with someone last? I ask this because my STBX said the classic ''I,m not in love with you anymore''..." class=" topictitle">InLove</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi All ,<br> i am sure this has been covered many times but here goes ...<br> How long does being in love with someone last?<br> I ask this because my STBX said ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 30 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>scaryspice</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334001-inlove#334300 title="Hi Scary. Love huh? People have been going on about love for hundreds of years. But how does love work. This is what I think. You can be in love with someone a lifetime. You keep love in your heart..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 31 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>5</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>568</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/334001-inlove#334300 title="Hi Scary. Love huh? People have been going on about love for hundreds of years. But how does love work. This is what I think. You can be in love with someone a lifetime. You keep love in your heart..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 31 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at title="Hi all, Samchik here. Posting under the other name today. I have been away from the boards for a while. I''m just writing this because I''m tearing my hair out over my wife today...her behaviour is..." class=" topictitle">What the hell is she playing at?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi all,<br> <br> Samchik here. Posting under the other name today. I have been away from the boards for a while. I''m just writing this because I''m tearing my ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 28 May 12, by <span class=kwho-blocked>artistformerlyknownas..</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at?start=21#334291" title="Morning sam, Everyone offering advice,but you don''t want it,you want everything to be back to the normality that was your life! Unfortunatly that is not an option that life has gone and whatever you..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 31 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>afonleas</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>21</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1529</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/333382-what-the-hell-is-she-playing-at?start=21#334291" title="Morning sam, Everyone offering advice,but you don''t want it,you want everything to be back to the normality that was your life! Unfortunatly that is not an option that life has gone and whatever you..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>afonleas</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 31 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair title="Don''t know how many people frequent wiki who are the instigators of separation because they had the affair/started a new relationship but if there are any would you share your stories? I ask this..." class=" topictitle">Have you had an affair?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Don''t know how many people frequent wiki who are the instigators of separation because they had the affair/started a new relationship but if there are any woul ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 27 May 12, by <span class=kwho-blocked>ConfusedDad</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair?start=56#334258" title="I''ve felt ugly for a long time and that was when my husband was here. I lost weight when he left it just fell off within weeks. I now look like I did 10 years ago with a few more lines. Everyone..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 31 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>revenge</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a class=disabled>...</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair?start=56" title=Page:9>9</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>57</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>3296</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/333242-have-you-had-an-affair?start=56#334258" title="I''ve felt ugly for a long time and that was when my husband was here. I lost weight when he left it just fell off within weeks. I now look like I did 10 years ago with a few more lines. Everyone..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>revenge</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 31 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call title="Took a distressing call today from my husband. I think he may be having some kind of breakdown, I don''t think I''ve ever heard him like that before. My instinct is to go to him. I''m scared though..." class=" topictitle">Distressing call</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Took a distressing call today from my husband. I think he may be having some kind of breakdown, I don''t think I''ve ever heard him like that before. My inst ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 24 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Sunshine10</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call?start=14#334012" title="I am so sorry to hear about your turmoil - and it will be turmoil. You have to be very strong and let his friend help him. You left for very strong reasons and people don''t change no matter how much..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 30 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>mag gie</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>16</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>823</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332630-distressing-call?start=14#334012" title="I am so sorry to hear about your turmoil - and it will be turmoil. You have to be very strong and let his friend help him. You left for very strong reasons and people don''t change no matter how much..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>mag gie</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 30 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333237-moving-on-by-meeting-someone-else><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333237-moving-on-by-meeting-someone-else title="Is the way to get over a relationship and become happy actually to meet someone else? When I look back over my past I have always been quite badly hit by breakups but the pain was significantly..." class=" topictitle">Moving on by meeting someone else</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Is the way to get over a relationship and become happy actually to meet someone else? When I look back over my past I have always been quite badly hit by break ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 27 May 12, by <span class=kwho-blocked>ConfusedDad</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333237-moving-on-by-meeting-someone-else#333303 title="My troubles began in June 2011 and we were separated by October. I did date one woman from Jan-March and took her to bed pretty quickly. It was really fun and a great shot to my self esteem. I was..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 27 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>6</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>389</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/333237-moving-on-by-meeting-someone-else#333303 title="My troubles began in June 2011 and we were separated by October. I did date one woman from Jan-March and took her to bed pretty quickly. It was really fun and a great shot to my self esteem. I was..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 27 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332706-dilemma><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332706-dilemma title="Hi everyone, I have recently discovered that a friend of mine''s husband, J, is cheating on her. Not just cheating, but actually has another woman set up in another property. This has been going..." class=" topictitle">Dilemma...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi everyone,<br> <br> I have recently discovered that a friend of mine''s husband, J, is cheating on her. Not just cheating, but actually has another woman se ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 24 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Dazed</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332706-dilemma?start=7#332866" title="Good morning & thankyou for your thoughts about my dilemma. To be honest, i still don''t really know what to do but it''s her birthday tomorrow & I am gonig to suggest a catch-up to celebrate. I..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 25 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Dazed</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332706-dilemma?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332706-dilemma?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>12</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>725</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332706-dilemma?start=7#332866" title="Good morning & thankyou for your thoughts about my dilemma. To be honest, i still don''t really know what to do but it''s her birthday tomorrow & I am gonig to suggest a catch-up to celebrate. I..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Dazed</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 25 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332470-difficult-day><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332470-difficult-day title="Dear all...you won''t probably recognise me...but it''s me...&quot;samchik.&quot; I have decided to go incognito as I''m tired of my wife reading all of the posts under my previous account and using..." class=" topictitle">Difficult day...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Dear all...you won''t probably recognise me...but it''s me...&quot;samchik.&quot; I have decided to go incognito as I''m tired of my wife reading all of ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 23 May 12, by <span class=kwho-blocked>artistformerlyknownas..</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332470-difficult-day?start=7#332685" title="Hmmm. Are you sure about that one? You cannot control others. You can control your reactions. Was it your wife who made your day difficult or you? Could you have made your day less difficult if you..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 24 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332470-difficult-day?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332470-difficult-day?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>7</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>684</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332470-difficult-day?start=7#332685" title="Hmmm. Are you sure about that one? You cannot control others. You can control your reactions. Was it your wife who made your day difficult or you? Could you have made your day less difficult if you..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Canuck425</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 24 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332132-have-they-got-a-right><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/332132-have-they-got-a-right title="Yet again, it has been highlighted to me that my STBX, who seems to be making a go of it with OW No 2, is constantly ''promoting'' himself and his hobby on the internet. What was once a hobby,..." class=" topictitle">Have ''they'' got a right?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Yet again, it has been highlighted to me that my STBX, who seems to be making a go of it with OW No 2, is constantly ''promoting'' himself and his hobby on the ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 21 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>flowerofscotland</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332132-have-they-got-a-right?start=7#332282" title="Hi Fos. There is a golden rule to love and relationships and those that are in them and in love at the same time. They dont need to broadcast it. Broadcasting something that should be obvious only..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 22 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332132-have-they-got-a-right?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/332132-have-they-got-a-right?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>7</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>901</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/332132-have-they-got-a-right?start=7#332282" title="Hi Fos. There is a golden rule to love and relationships and those that are in them and in love at the same time. They dont need to broadcast it. Broadcasting something that should be obvious only..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 22 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/331371-my-lessons-so-far><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/331371-my-lessons-so-far title="Well. I have not posted on the forum for a little while. In the initial stages of all this I found myself here all the time. I needed to post, post, post, in order to alleviate and process the initial..." class=" topictitle">My lessons so far</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Well. I have not posted on the forum for a little while. In the initial stages of all this I found myself here all the time. I needed to post, post, post, in or ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 18 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/331371-my-lessons-so-far?start=7#331658" title="I made the classic mistake of ''letting things lie'' even though I was bored out of my mind with him (when he wasn''t out boozing)as I thought the kids wanted him there. They tell me years later that..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 19 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>MsSmith</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/331371-my-lessons-so-far?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/331371-my-lessons-so-far?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>7</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>857</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/331371-my-lessons-so-far?start=7#331658" title="I made the classic mistake of ''letting things lie'' even though I was bored out of my mind with him (when he wasn''t out boozing)as I thought the kids wanted him there. They tell me years later that..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>MsSmith</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 19 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328598-which-surname-would-you-give-baby><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328598-which-surname-would-you-give-baby title="I have posted about my partner before. He has been seperated for almost 3 years and had said just before the 2 year mark that he was going to get divorced then as it is easier after 2 years. We..." class=" topictitle">Which surname would you give baby?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I have posted about my partner before. He has been seperated for almost 3 years and had said just before the 2 year mark that he was going to get divorced then ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Jenna29</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328598-which-surname-would-you-give-baby?start=7#331506" title="Just my two pence worth :) Two of my daughters each have a child, with different fathers. One knew she wouldn''t stay with the father (DV) and the baby took her surname, the other thought she would..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 18 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>xxxxhelpxxxx</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328598-which-surname-would-you-give-baby?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328598-which-surname-would-you-give-baby?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>9</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>732</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328598-which-surname-would-you-give-baby?start=7#331506" title="Just my two pence worth :) Two of my daughters each have a child, with different fathers. One knew she wouldn''t stay with the father (DV) and the baby took her surname, the other thought she would..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>xxxxhelpxxxx</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 18 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329291-a-very-tough-weekend><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329291-a-very-tough-weekend title="Well. That was a tough weekend. Came back with my son from my mum''s place last night. Half of our stuff was gone and she has finally moved out. That was hard in itself. My son and I both said we..." class=" topictitle">A very tough weekend</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Well. That was a tough weekend. Came back with my son from my mum''s place last night. Half of our stuff was gone and she has finally moved out. That was hard i ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 08 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329291-a-very-tough-weekend#330918 title="Just a thought for you. She won''t miss something that she thinks she can go back to anytime she wants. Its like a holiday away from life, responsibilities and all that. In my experience it hits the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 16 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Shoegirl</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>6</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>340</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329291-a-very-tough-weekend#330918 title="Just a thought for you. She won''t miss something that she thinks she can go back to anytime she wants. Its like a holiday away from life, responsibilities and all that. In my experience it hits the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Shoegirl</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 16 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation title="Sure this topic must have come up before but what are people''s thoughts on reconciliation and specifically the chances of it happening? My wife (we''re separated and she''s living on her own) is..." class=" topictitle">Reconciliation</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Sure this topic must have come up before but what are people''s thoughts on reconciliation and specifically the chances of it happening?<br> <br> My wife (we''r ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 11 May 12, by <span class=kwho-blocked>ConfusedDad</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation?start=21#330520" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 14 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Ekaterine</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>22</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1509</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/329893-reconciliation?start=21#330520" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Ekaterine</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 14 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328896-is-it-just-me><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328896-is-it-just-me title="I am so glad I found this site. Everyone on here is so selfless and caring and yet it is all to people that they do''t even know. It is just me or do others think that it would be nice to meet up?..." class=" topictitle">is it just me</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I am so glad I found this site. Everyone on here is so selfless and caring and yet it is all to people that they do''t even know.<br> <br> It is just me or do ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 07 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>yellowrose</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328896-is-it-just-me?start=7#330381" title="I have often thought the same but I am even further away in Cardiff! :(" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 14 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Momo65</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328896-is-it-just-me?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328896-is-it-just-me?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>12</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>849</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328896-is-it-just-me?start=7#330381" title="I have often thought the same but I am even further away in Cardiff! :(" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Momo65</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 14 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/330325-why-do-we-marry><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/330325-why-do-we-marry title="So. Half of all marriages end in divorce and I''d wager a hefty sum that of the other fifty percent, a sizable proportion are miserable. It really makes me wonder what we are looking for from marriage..." class=" topictitle">Why do we marry?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> So. Half of all marriages end in divorce and I''d wager a hefty sum that of the other fifty percent, a sizable proportion are miserable. It really makes me wond ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 13 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/330325-why-do-we-marry?start=7#330365" title="Something I was told a few years ago .... Getting married for sex is like buying a Jumbo Jet for the penuts...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: LB" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 May 12 by <span class=kwho-moderator>Lostboy67</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330325-why-do-we-marry?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330325-why-do-we-marry?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>8</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>850</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/330325-why-do-we-marry?start=7#330365" title="Something I was told a few years ago .... Getting married for sex is like buying a Jumbo Jet for the penuts...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: LB" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>Lostboy67</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating title="As i said in an earlier thread i think my wife has been cheating but have no real proof. The strange text that freeked her out the night she left. Leaving me everything and leaves with just 3 binbags..." class=" topictitle">should i text my wife that i think she wa cheating</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> As i said in an earlier thread i think my wife has been cheating but have no real proof. The strange text that freeked her out the night she left. Leaving me ev ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 13 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>juwelkeeper</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating?start=14#330307" title="totally agree but each situation is different..but you have to go with your gut insticnt..thats all and my ex got it wrong." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 May 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>blonde cazza</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>17</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1127</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/330219-should-i-text-my-wife-that-i-think-she-wa-cheating?start=14#330307" title="totally agree but each situation is different..but you have to go with your gut insticnt..thats all and my ex got it wrong." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>blonde cazza</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/330188-wife-left-after-20-years><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/330188-wife-left-after-20-years title="I don''t know if this is the right froum but anyway here goes. I have been married to my wife for 16 years and met 4 years before that so 20 years together and i loved here dearly. Last saturday night..." class=" topictitle">Wife left after 20 years</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I don''t know if this is the right froum but anyway here goes.<br> I have been married to my wife for 16 years and met 4 years before that so 20 years together ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 12 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>juwelkeeper</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/330188-wife-left-after-20-years?start=7#330229" title="Thanks FOS that helped a lot." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 13 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>juwelkeeper</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330188-wife-left-after-20-years?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/330188-wife-left-after-20-years?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>13</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>838</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/330188-wife-left-after-20-years?start=7#330229" title="Thanks FOS that helped a lot." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>juwelkeeper</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 13 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329478-developmental-tasks><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329478-developmental-tasks title="My first day of utter solitude today. Not able to focus on work at all. Not going to. The day was odd to say the least: Woke up 10.45 Read a book in bed (well, she took the bed...on the sofa) til..." class=" topictitle">Developmental tasks...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> My first day of utter solitude today. Not able to focus on work at all. Not going to. The day was odd to say the least:<br> <br> Woke up 10.45<br> Read a book i ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 09 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/329478-developmental-tasks?start=7#329834" title="Cool. Someone like me haha. I think for me it comes from my mum as I am just like her in this way. C" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 10 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/329478-developmental-tasks?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/329478-developmental-tasks?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>13</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>917</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/329478-developmental-tasks?start=7#329834" title="Cool. Someone like me haha. I think for me it comes from my mum as I am just like her in this way. C" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 10 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329206-counselling-or-not><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329206-counselling-or-not title="I''m in the throes of thinking about starting the separation process (and if that doesn''t sound very decisive, it''s because I''m not feeling very decisive right now!)and would appreciate any..." class=" topictitle">Counselling...or not?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I''m in the throes of thinking about starting the separation process (and if that doesn''t sound very decisive, it''s because I''m not feeling very decisive rig ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 08 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Abi6</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329206-counselling-or-not#329253 title="hi abiv i decided to pay for a conselling session when trying to save my marriage , my stbx wouldnt talk to outsiders thought that the problems should be sorted out btwn ourselves, which is fine if..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 08 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>julesgy</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>343</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/329206-counselling-or-not#329253 title="hi abiv i decided to pay for a conselling session when trying to save my marriage , my stbx wouldnt talk to outsiders thought that the problems should be sorted out btwn ourselves, which is fine if..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>julesgy</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 08 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328526-it-s-now-in-the-lap-of-the-gods><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328526-it-s-now-in-the-lap-of-the-gods title="So...it finally feels like I''ve handed over control of my marriage to the gods. Yesterday I picked my son up from nursery and we went home to pack for a couple of hours. Then set off for my Mum''s..." class=" topictitle">It''s now in the lap of the gods</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> So...it finally feels like I''ve handed over control of my marriage to the gods. Yesterday I picked my son up from nursery and we went home to pack for a couple ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328526-it-s-now-in-the-lap-of-the-gods?start=7#328801" title="I am glad you recognise counselling is a waste of time if there are 3 people involved. I went through 3 months of relate appointments after my ex claimed he had finished his affair. I knew all..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 06 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>maisymoos</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328526-it-s-now-in-the-lap-of-the-gods?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328526-it-s-now-in-the-lap-of-the-gods?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>12</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>782</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328526-it-s-now-in-the-lap-of-the-gods?start=7#328801" title="I am glad you recognise counselling is a waste of time if there are 3 people involved. I went through 3 months of relate appointments after my ex claimed he had finished his affair. I knew all..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>maisymoos</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 06 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday title="Day 5 of no contact and today is my birthday. The first for 25 years I have been without him. I have my family around me and my friends have been so kind and thoughtful. But I didn''t even warrant a..." class=" topictitle">Today is my birthday</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Day 5 of no contact and today is my birthday. The first for 25 years I have been without him. I have my family around me and my friends have been so kind and ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 05 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Sunshine10</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday?start=14#328762" title="Happy Birthday xx Yesterday was my 40h bday and like you my ex showed no interest....i dont have family here but today my son returned with a card and chocalates which he purchased with his pocket..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 06 May 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>blonde cazza</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>14</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>1007</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/328563-today-is-my-birthday?start=14#328762" title="Happy Birthday xx Yesterday was my 40h bday and like you my ex showed no interest....i dont have family here but today my son returned with a card and chocalates which he purchased with his pocket..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>blonde cazza</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 06 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328435-stuck><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328435-stuck title="I have a complicated situation that seems more like a soap opera but is very serious. There is no fighting just underlying sadness and denial. My new partner (not my wife) is no longer willing to..." class=" topictitle">Stuck</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I have a complicated situation that seems more like a soap opera but is very serious. There is no fighting just underlying sadness and denial.<br> <br> My new ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 04 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>glasper</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328435-stuck#328483 title="I think timing is key, a point Marshy raised. How long have you been separated and how long have you been seeing new partner? If its still early days and your stbx wife is OK with your relationship,..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 04 May 12 by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>5</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>653</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328435-stuck#328483 title="I think timing is key, a point Marshy raised. How long have you been separated and how long have you been seeing new partner? If its still early days and your stbx wife is OK with your relationship,..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 04 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327992-broken-souls-everywhere><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327992-broken-souls-everywhere title="I don''t know what a &quot;soul&quot; is in a logical sense. I just looked it up and this is what I''m told: 1. the principle of life, feeling, thought, and action in humans, regarded as a distinct..." class=" topictitle">Broken souls...everywhere</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I don''t know what a &quot;soul&quot; is in a logical sense. I just looked it up and this is what I''m told:<br> <br> <br> 1. the principle of life, fee ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/327992-broken-souls-everywhere?start=7#328202" title="Samchick and co. I can''t even begin to answer these deep philosophical questions. I have a few observations. 1. Mitchum. You may feel numb but I KNOW you have soul and at the heart of that soul..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 03 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>sun flower</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327992-broken-souls-everywhere?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327992-broken-souls-everywhere?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>12</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>785</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/327992-broken-souls-everywhere?start=7#328202" title="Samchick and co. I can''t even begin to answer these deep philosophical questions. I have a few observations. 1. Mitchum. You may feel numb but I KNOW you have soul and at the heart of that soul..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>sun flower</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 03 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328063-she-will-never-be-part-of-my-life-again><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328063-she-will-never-be-part-of-my-life-again title="Had it with all this stress and crap. Let her go with anyone she thinks will make her happy. LW" class=" topictitle">she will never be part of my life again.</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Had it with all this stress and crap.<br> Let her go with anyone she thinks will make her happy.<br> <br> <br> LW ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>258</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date title="So...I''m back from my Mum''s place with my son. Had a weekend full of the usual, suicidal thoughts, depression, gut wrenching pain, and the rest. My wife''s behavior is messing with me a bit. I''m..." class=" topictitle">Nearing her moving out date...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> So...I''m back from my Mum''s place with my son. Had a weekend full of the usual, suicidal thoughts, depression, gut wrenching pain, and the rest.<br> <br> My w ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 01 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date?start=14#328038" title="Every relationship I''ve been in, I''ve morphed into a doormat. I''ve married twice and failed twice. My youngest son is the best thing that came out of my last marriage. My 2nd OH played horrendous..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 02 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>greebobeebo</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>18</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>991</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/327763-nearing-her-moving-out-date?start=14#328038" title="Every relationship I''ve been in, I''ve morphed into a doormat. I''ve married twice and failed twice. My youngest son is the best thing that came out of my last marriage. My 2nd OH played horrendous..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>greebobeebo</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 02 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328002-moving-on><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328002-moving-on title="I have gone through almost 10 months of this.I have wept and just been like a used rag and thought my life was over. I wanted a nice life with a a girl I thought was gen. She f&amp;cked me over...." class=" topictitle">moving on</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> I have gone through almost 10 months of this.I have wept and just been like a used rag and thought my life was over.<br> <br> <br> I wanted a nice life with a a ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328002-moving-on#328031 title="Great words LW xx" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 02 May 12 by <span class=kwho-blocked>blonde cazza</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>304</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/328002-moving-on#328031 title="Great words LW xx" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-blocked>blonde cazza</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 02 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327938-fairy-tale-ending-part-3><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327938-fairy-tale-ending-part-3 title="After Cinderella''s stepmother and stepsisters go off to the ball, Cinderella decides that enough is enough and finally takes matters into her own hands. When her fairy godmother showsup and presents..." class=" topictitle">Fairy Tale Ending Part 3</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> After Cinderella''s stepmother and stepsisters go off to the ball, Cinderella decides that enough is enough and finally takes matters into her own hands.<br> <b ... </div> </div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Wiser</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327938-fairy-tale-ending-part-3#327947 title="Love it :cheer:" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 02 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>1</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>295</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327938-fairy-tale-ending-part-3#327947 title="Love it :cheer:" rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Marshy_</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 02 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327935-fairy-tale-endings-part-2><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327935-fairy-tale-endings-part-2 title="Let''s change the story into something much more powerful. Cinderella goes along with the game plan until she arrives at the ball, then she realizes that what she is doing lacks integrity and she..." class=" topictitle">Fairy Tale Endings Part 2</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Let''s change the story into something much more powerful.<br> <br> Cinderella goes along with the game plan until she arrives at the ball, then she realizes th ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Wiser</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>248</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327932-fairy-tale-endings-part-1><i class="fa fa-comment fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327932-fairy-tale-endings-part-1 title="In the original story of Cinderella, we find Cinderella and her step-mother and step-sisters in a terribly disfunctional and co-dependent relationship. To make matters worse, Cinderella is a classic..." class=" topictitle">Fairy Tale Endings Part 1</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> In the original story of Cinderella, we find Cinderella and her step-mother and step-sisters in a terribly disfunctional and co-dependent relationship.<br> <br> ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 02 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Wiser</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>0</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>257</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> </div> </div> </div> </td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327236-basically><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327236-basically title="Jeez.... I''ve looked through divorce/marriage sites and all the time I see... &quot;Maybe I didn''t do enough/ helped enough/ was THERE enough&quot;. &quot;Maybe I should have spent less time on the..." class=" topictitle">Basically...</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Jeez....<br> I''ve looked through divorce/marriage sites and all the time I see...<br> <br> &quot;Maybe I didn''t do enough/ helped enough/ was THERE enough ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 29 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>leftwondering</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/327236-basically?start=7#327761" title="samchik wrote: HUGS :( I think all that ''stuff'' materialistic cr@p is pointless, wanting to be with someone is what I want, it sure helps if they want to be with you too ;) I''d prefer a hug..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 01 May 12 by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327236-basically?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/327236-basically?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>8</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>580</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/327236-basically?start=7#327761" title="samchik wrote: HUGS :( I think all that ''stuff'' materialistic cr@p is pointless, wanting to be with someone is what I want, it sure helps if they want to be with you too ;) I''d prefer a hug..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-moderator>WhiteRose</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 01 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327659-pain-from-investing-yourself-emotionally><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327659-pain-from-investing-yourself-emotionally title="Here''s the thing, I have been bringing up my girls alone for nearly three years since their father checked out, although he had checked out of our marriage, and to be fair, so had I a long time..." class=" topictitle">Pain from investing yourself emotionally</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Here''s the thing,<br> I have been bringing up my girls alone for nearly three years since their father checked out, although he had checked out of our marriage ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 01 May 12, by <span class=kwho-user>ponygal44</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327659-pain-from-investing-yourself-emotionally#327748 title="There is some really good advice on this post. It is really good that you can see that you allowed this to happen to you. Nothing you did would have changed the outcome, you are a good person who put..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 01 May 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Shoegirl</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>3</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>275</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327659-pain-from-investing-yourself-emotionally#327748 title="There is some really good advice on this post. It is really good that you can see that you allowed this to happen to you. Nothing you did would have changed the outcome, you are a good person who put..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Shoegirl</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 01 May 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327385-how-to-explain-lack-of-maternal-family-to-child><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327385-how-to-explain-lack-of-maternal-family-to-child title="My daughter is four and a half and has never met my mother, whom I''ve been estranged from since I was 15. I''ve explained that she wasn''t very nice and my daughter has accepted that. However, my..." class=" topictitle">How to explain lack of maternal family to child?</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> My daughter is four and a half and has never met my mother, whom I''ve been estranged from since I was 15. I''ve explained that she wasn''t very nice and my da ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 30 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>Jenna29</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327385-how-to-explain-lack-of-maternal-family-to-child#327396 title="TBagpuss - Yes, I''ve asked him not to which unfortunately made him do it more as he''s trying to point out to her that he and his family are ''better'' and that when she is here she only has me. She..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 30 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Jenna29</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>411</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/327385-how-to-explain-lack-of-maternal-family-to-child#327396 title="TBagpuss - Yes, I''ve asked him not to which unfortunately made him do it more as he''s trying to point out to her that he and his family are ''better'' and that when she is here she only has me. She..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Jenna29</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 30 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326910-what-a-feckin-day-part-2><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326910-what-a-feckin-day-part-2 title="So...I debated heavily with myself about whether I would post this or not...or indeed whether I will continue posting at all. The fact I''m writing this tells you my conclusion. How did things..." class=" topictitle">What a feckin day...part 2</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> So...I debated heavily with myself about whether I would post this or not...or indeed whether I will continue posting at all. The fact I''m writing this tells y ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 27 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326910-what-a-feckin-day-part-2#327020 title="I sometimes wondered whether my ex was reading my thoughts through this site, but, like SG, I thought, ''this isn''t about her whether I come here or not, it''s all about me'', so my concerns..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 28 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>5</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>353</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326910-what-a-feckin-day-part-2#327020 title="I sometimes wondered whether my ex was reading my thoughts through this site, but, like SG, I thought, ''this isn''t about her whether I come here or not, it''s all about me'', so my concerns..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>jjones123</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 28 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script title="Hi, I''m tearing my hair out here and just need to let off some steam... Husband had an affair. Well, is still having one. He has been on the verge of leaving for OW for a Very Long Time - several..." class=" topictitle">The affair script</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Hi,<br> <br> I''m tearing my hair out here and just need to let off some steam...<br> <br> Husband had an affair. Well, is still having one. He has been on the ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 26 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>riseandshine</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script?start=21#326913" title="Yes me to had the &quot;script&quot; I would &quot;help him on his way&quot; I though I could stop it happening! I am now very grateful of not being able to! A life without the drama, the lies, the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 28 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>startagain</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script?start=21" title=Page:4>4</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>22</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>2080</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/326674-the-affair-script?start=21#326913" title="Yes me to had the &quot;script&quot; I would &quot;help him on his way&quot; I though I could stop it happening! I am now very grateful of not being able to! A life without the drama, the lies, the..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>startagain</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 28 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day title="Well...if I''ve ever lived a day with so many highs and lows before I cannot recall it. I really can''t. It''s almost funny...I''m actually laughing at it here...my life is bloody hilarious.:laugh:..." class=" topictitle">What a feckin day</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Well...if I''ve ever lived a day with so many highs and lows before I cannot recall it. I really can''t. It''s almost funny...I''m actually laughing at it here. ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 24 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>samchik1</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day?start=14#326587" title="The one thing I can say is that above all make sure that you are OK. I guess only you will know if you can ditch the keylogger -and actually, in my personal opinion I think it is self administered..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 25 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>Fifi100</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day?start=14" title=Page:3>3</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>20</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>881</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/326367-what-a-feckin-day?start=14#326587" title="The one thing I can say is that above all make sure that you are OK. I guess only you will know if you can ditch the keylogger -and actually, in my personal opinion I think it is self administered..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>Fifi100</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 25 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326460-decisions><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326460-decisions title="Spent last few years supporting and helping partner get through court for contact,ancillary and divorce. Real tough going but stayed the course and have had 6 months since decree Absolute. Thought we..." class=" topictitle">Decisions!</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> Spent last few years supporting and helping partner get through court for contact,ancillary and divorce. Real tough going but stayed the course and have had 6 m ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 25 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-blocked>Nonymouse</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326460-decisions#326546 title="Give it time. It sounds like you both have been through the mill and it just needs some time for all the dust to settle. Enjoy what you have and wait and see what happens. In my experience living..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> 25 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>MrsMathsisfun</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span class=repliesnum>4</span></div><div class=views>:<span class=viewsnum>306</span></div></td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=container-fluid><div class=row-fluid><div class=span12> <span class=lastpostlink> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326460-decisions#326546 title="Give it time. It sounds like you both have been through the mill and it just needs some time for all the dust to settle. Enjoy what you have and wait and see what happens. In my experience living..." rel=canonical>Latest</a> by <span class=kwho-user>MrsMathsisfun</span> </span> <br> <span class=datepost> 25 Apr 12</span> </div></div></div></td> </tr> <tr class=category> <td class="hidden-phone span1 center"> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326066-one-for-the-guys-dealing-with-self-centred-women><i class="fa fa-comments fa-2x"></i></a> </td> <td class=span5><div class=krow> <a href=/forum-index/relationships/326066-one-for-the-guys-dealing-with-self-centred-women title="g/f is a shift worker so should be sleeping now. Had a pain of a journey home, two tubes lines closed because of fire alerts, took the son''s dog to the vet, did the washing up and cooked the kids..." class=" topictitle">One for the guys, dealing with self centred women.</a> <br/><div class=post-preview> g/f is a shift worker so should be sleeping now. Had a pain of a journey home, two tubes lines closed because of fire alerts, took the son''s dog to the vet, di ... </div></div><div class=pull-right> </div><div class=started> 23 Apr 12, by <span class=kwho-user>James53</span> <div class="pull-right hidden-phone"> </div> </div><div id=klastpostphone class=visible-phone> <a href="/forum-index/relationships/326066-one-for-the-guys-dealing-with-self-centred-women?start=7#326217" title="Sounds like Red Flag to me too!!" rel=canonical>Latest</a> 24 Apr 12 by <span class=kwho-user>dataman999</span> <div class=pull-right> </div> </div><div class=pull-left><div class="pagination pagination-small"><ul> <li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326066-one-for-the-guys-dealing-with-self-centred-women?start=0" title=Page:1>1</a></li><li><a href="/forum-index/relationships/326066-one-for-the-guys-dealing-with-self-centred-women?start=7" title=Page:2>2</a></li> </ul> </div> </div> </td> <td class="span2 hidden-phone"><div class=replies>Replies:<span 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