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Partner left my stuff out in the rain?????

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22 Apr 14 #430976 by jeanclaude
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The total value estimated by the repair man is touching £8k...they were expensive equipment NOT mickey mouse STUFF..that''s why I am really livid about the hole things...It must be the wrong month or something ...hormones or lack of it ??????

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22 Apr 14 #430979 by sulkypants
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Second hand value less than £500 per item just to be realistic

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22 Apr 14 #430985 by jeanclaude
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so what you are saying is ...she wins wins wins all the way and I lose lose lose all the way ...not fare is it really?...and James Brown says........
"its a mans world" .....dream on guys .....DREAM ON ....boooooooooooooo
we are not talking about £1000.00 here we are talking about my second livelihood not chicken feed...and some of it were replaceable music and things came from my late mother and father ....please someone tell me they understand about sentimental things that cannot be replace????????
the funny thing is that the females on here think we deserve it ?

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22 Apr 14 #430989 by happy53
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No of course you don''t deserve it. Your ex was being spiteful and cruel.

However, what the other wikis are saying is that basically there is very little you can do about it. Taking her to Court would probably cost more than to replace the items.

She has a non-mol order out on you so she feels safe in the actions she has done that there will be no come-back on her.

It is wrong of her to do what she did, very wrong.

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23 Apr 14 #430992 by PGtips
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Step off from the females, no one says you deserve this. Take a deep breath, take a few deep breaths, divorce is a lot more complicated than rain on your speakers. Focus.
Wish you the best ,
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23 Apr 14 #430996 by hawaythelads
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Just pure and utter vindictive behaviour.
You could report her for criminal damage to the police, but you''ve got more chance of seeing God than it being pursued.
Sueing her she''ll just deny it.
You''ll get nowhere.
All the best
hrh

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23 Apr 14 #431023 by mumtoboys
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insurance? I know it probably wouldn''t cover the vindictive ex who left stuff out in the rain but it would at least be worth a discussion with the insurance company.

It''s not unreasonable to leave stuff outside if you know it''s going to be collected and there is a non-molestation order in place. Was it a rainy day or was there a sudden downpour? She probably didn''t care either way but she may not have intended it to happen the way it did.

Divorce is a long-haul thing. Focus on getting to the end of it with as much of your dignity in tact as you can manage ''cos believe me, that''s what will matter at the end of this more than anything else.

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