Ex Wife and Girlfriend Trouble

I agree with stillalive, so also sorry if I sound unkind.

If gf is upset so soon about her position in your life things won't go smoothly in the future.... what's more I'd worry about a relationship with someone who doesn't trust your judgment on this and isn't happy to let you put your kids first. After all your kids are quite young, you know your ex best and you want things to be pleasant for your gf, which is why you're suggesting she spends the day away from the house.

If she's visiting from abroad there must be stacks of interesting things she could do for the day - do you have any female friends who could show her their favourite shops, take her to the pictures etc...?

I am keeping my fingers crossed that she is just sulking today and will be ok later. I had offered to introduce her to some female company, the trouble is most of them are the ex's ex friends. I wouldn't introduce her to any that are likely to be sympathetic to the ex.
The g/f had declined to meet any. The other thing that I want her to do is take an IELTS exam as she will need that if she intends to work here eventually and send her on a short English couse to prepare her.
I am worried that she is bored but she said she was ok.
I think that I will now tell the ex so that she is prepared.

Good luck with both telling the ex and sorting things out with new gf!

Good god man! Have you heard yourself! Pull yourself together and put them both in their place! You need to tell your ex you have a new girlfriend and if there is any trouble you will call the police and you need to tell your girlfriend that she has to understand the situation could be difficult. Your choice in women sounds a little bit off the wall though. Get a bit selfish and put yourself and your kids first!