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How do we get from holding a belief to certainty?

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23 Aug 08 #42535 by devilferade77
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I am not kicking religion, which is based on Faith and Belief, because we all have beliefs, even Science oriented people like myself. I am intrigued though, by the process that seems to occur in our minds, where our beliefs become certainties; also, we dislike any attempt to undermine what we believe.

Can you describe, by recollection of personal experience, any events that changed your beliefs, either promoting it to certainty or eroding it, causing you to rethink your beliefs.

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23 Aug 08 #42549 by Elly
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Hi Devil

Yes, i lost faith when my husband decided to break our marriage vows, by having an affair, we are Catholics, he always told me we would be married forever, now he is asking for a divorce.

Faith, sorry not sure i have any left

Erin x

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23 Aug 08 #42551 by NellNoRegrets
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I stopped believing in God a long time ago. I think 9/11 just showed the randomness of evil. I have no feelings that there is a spirit world at all.

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24 Aug 08 #42563 by Zara2009
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I believe I am a cute fluffy little fairygirl :kiss:

It is a certainty that when I look in the mirror I will realise that I am not :(

zara

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24 Aug 08 #42582 by Zara2009
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Yep I was right :unsure:

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24 Aug 08 #42584 by Sera
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Erin wrote:

i lost faith when my husband decided to break our marriage vows, by having an affair, we are Catholics,


Erin,
I'm not a Catholic; and I'm not a member of any church. However, we should not lose our own sense of faith and principles because one man has let us down.

Granted; you did not have your husbands agenda. Granted he has betrayed his promises to you. But in divorcing; I'm sure immediate friends, people in your community and members of your church will all be very supportive to you at this time. If I were you - I would break ties with your husband; and not lose the connection you have with your God.

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