Bad day today

Hi ... I'm having a bad day today. I hate Sundays! My son sees his Dad today and I hate it.

I know he needs to see him (my eldest refuses but has a life of his own), but I hate it when HE comes to the door, rings the doorbell of OUR home and then takes my son off for a fun-filled day ..... leaving me behind.

When will I stop caring that he doesn't love me anymore? I can't switch off my emotions. I feel like I am being punished for somthing when I have done nothing. He stopped loving me.

I don't want to get divorced, I married him for life, loved him then and still do.

I try and keep busy but .......... its a long lonely day.

Hello there

Sundays are a pig aren't they? Even more difficult when the kids are off somewhere.

I find dipping in and out of wiki really helps especially at the weekend. Someone has just posted me something that has just made me tears of sorrow turn to utter laughter.

Take it easy today and get through bit by bit.

Mirfield:)

Oh Jessie that flipping sentence 'i did nothing wrong' will haunt me till the day i die, i reckon. Most of us will be experiencing the same. I live alone, kids married, no plans for the future, because he is living those with the ow.

But after a while we will get our routine that doesnt include him, and soon THAT will become the norm, and Jessie when the reality sets in that he COULD treat you like this, believe me that love soon turns sour.

YOUR son will soon be coming back to YOUR home and you have him for the next 6 days. Why sit at home on sundays, make sunday a YOU day.,

Your not alone, see, another sad s*d on me own on a sunday!

On a lighter note, anyone please. How do i get to make smiley faces on my postings, please?

Joy x

Thanks ladies -

Its worse cos he left on a sunday (7 weeks today), so every one of them is a reminder.

I have been busy every one of them since ... my friends have been fab but this is the first on my own. They all have families too and sundays are family days aren't they.

There is no-one else involved yet(no... really!)and it all seems so pointless. I know that he is not happy with the new life ... he more or less told me so yesterday but .... he would be more unhappy if he came back.

22 years together .... what a waste.

Joy just click on the faces on the left to insert them into the text where you want them .... they appear as type until to the post is made then change to pictures.

Think I will go and walk the dog somewhere no-one can see me crying:(

I'm glad it's not just me that struggles with Sundays. I find many people see Sunday as a family day and it used to be a day we spent together and despite friends being great, I feel at my loneliest on Sundays. I was going to break the day with Wimbledon today but it's raining....

I tend to journal lots on Sundays- writing is so therapeutic for me. Victoria Wood DVDs are also great medicine.

Here's to the end of Sunday

Jessie thanks, here goes.


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joy

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