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Maintenance 3329 topics

Discuss child and spousal maintenance. How much child support are you entitled to? What determines whether you will receive/pay spousal maintenance?
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How do contribution of marriage and conduct affect maintanance?
I have read the guides to two guides to "periodical payments" in the forum and the library.

I have a short question about conduct. I underst ...
01 Jun 20, by thewomble
Latest 03 Jun 20 by thewomble
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Latest by thewomble
03 Jun 20
REMO - Canada
Hello and i would be very grateful for any advice on this subject as I am slowly giving up and losing hope and not sure if i can afford a sol and whether it's f ...
29 May 20, by Scorpio1962
Replies:0
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Spousal maintenance and universal credit
Hi,

My STBX is asking for spousal maintenance. If I were to give her this and capitalise it, she would be unable to claim universal credit because this ...
15 May 20, by MarcusFox
Latest 26 May 20 by MarcusFox
Replies:2
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Latest by MarcusFox
26 May 20
When does Maintenance End
Hi,
My Son is in his last term of colleague and he lives with my ex wife.He is 18 in Aug. He is currently considering his options, whether to work for a yea ...
22 May 20, by fozbinning
Latest 22 May 20 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
22 May 20
How long is spousal maintenance payable?
I have two Kids aged 14 and 12. My wife's solicitor is asking for spousal maintenance until she is 60 which is 15 years from now. I was informed by my solicito ...
15 May 20, by hdawg
Latest 16 May 20 by hdawg
Replies:4
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Latest by hdawg
16 May 20
Excellent article on Spousal Maintenance by LMM
LMM has revised his very informative article on Spousal Maintenance to include a section on
Latest 13 May 20 by wikivorce team
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Latest by wikivorce team
13 May 20
Consent order query
Good afternoon.

As part of my divorce back in August 2006 there was a consent order drawn up to protect the financial side. As part if this consent ord ...
11 May 20, by Chr1sgsi
Latest 12 May 20 by Chr1sgsi
Replies:4
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Latest by Chr1sgsi
12 May 20
Redundancy
Good evening.

Could someone please advise if possible what is the current guidelines if any regarding redundancy and child maintenance?

My wif ...
25 Apr 20, by Newchapter
Latest 27 Apr 20 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
27 Apr 20
Extendable Term Orders
Spousal maintenance is based on need and ability to pay. If there is an application to extend maintenance then both need and ability to pay will need to be revi ...
19 Apr 20, by hadenoughnow
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Child maintenance after consent order
Another maintenance question ...

I am always paying the agreed amount at the end of each month. The consent order came into effect on the 4. of Mai 201 ...
01 Apr 20, by Mr Smiley
Latest 01 Apr 20 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
01 Apr 20
Covid 19 - Can't afford to pay Maintenance
Due to the Covid 19 outbreak my partner has had to take a 10% pay reduction from 1st April. He currently pays his ex wife Spousal and Child Maintenance. Can the ...
24 Mar 20, by divorced at last
Latest 25 Mar 20 by divorced at last
Replies:4
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Latest by divorced at last
25 Mar 20
H manipulating earnings to set aside maintenance
Help. Husband manipulating his earnings and employment to set aside maintenance (which is low and very short fixed term anyway).

H works tax efficientl ...
03 Mar 20, by * Tilly *
Latest 04 Mar 20 by * Tilly *
Replies:2
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Latest by * Tilly *
04 Mar 20
Spousal Maintenance
On 18th Sep 2019 the Aldershot and Farnham UK Court granted interim spousal maintenance to my x-wife at a rate of £750 per month starting 1st Oct and to contin ...
28 Jan 20, by ajloder
Latest 28 Jan 20 by .Charles
Replies:1
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Latest by .Charles
28 Jan 20
Child Maintenance Calculator
Question: is the calculation of child maintenance using the online tool an acceptable benchmark? i.e. accepted widely by courts/judges?

Question 2: If ...
07 Jan 20, by CastleBlayneyMan
Latest 07 Jan 20 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:2
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
07 Jan 20
Definition of Secondary Education
Hi, My son is over 18 but not yet 19, he sat his A levels but didn't get the results he wanted to get into university. As a result he enrolled onto an NVQ3 cour ...
20 Nov 19, by SLConfused
Latest 21 Nov 19 by Rickoshea
Replies:3
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Latest by Rickoshea
21 Nov 19
Reducing maintenance
Hi,
Overall I have been the rough times of separation and divorce and have remarried.

We married in 2007, separated in 2011 (2 children), divorced ...
07 Nov 19, by CastleBlayneyMan
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are we better showing he has living expenses
My partner is currently going for mediation with his STBE and they are getting to the financial disclosures time, his Ex wants £170,00 from £220,000 of equity ...
29 Oct 19, by casakas
Latest 29 Oct 19 by Rickoshea
Replies:1
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Latest by Rickoshea
29 Oct 19
Child maintenance??
Hi, is there a standard amount that is paid per child and if so how much and at what age does it stop.
Regards trebor6 ...
26 Oct 19, by Trebor6
Latest 26 Oct 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
26 Oct 19
Ex has never paid required amount
I have never received the correct amount, ex pays £240 rather than £380pm.
I had nothing for 2 years.
Is it only CMS who would deal with this? Would ...
19 Oct 19, by PuebloEspanol
Latest 20 Oct 19 by spinit
Replies:1
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Latest by spinit
20 Oct 19
Spousal maintenace
I’m three years through the process, thanks hugely to the support of this site. Unable to sleep as my ex has decided to stop paying the court order spousal m ...
14 Oct 19, by Jalisia
Latest 19 Oct 19 by Deborah66
Replies:1
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Latest by Deborah66
19 Oct 19
Cessation of Maintenance Payments
I would appreciate any help with this matter.
I divorced from my wife six years ago. We were both on relatively low monthly incomes at that time. I wanted ...
28 Sep 19, by George gym
Latest 29 Sep 19 by LittleMrMike
Replies:3
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Latest by LittleMrMike
29 Sep 19
School Fees
I have consent order that states that I am responsible for the payment of school fees. I have paid these for the last 5 years. My son did very badly in his GCSE ...
30 Aug 19, by mick8335
Latest 01 Sep 19 by Allcry
Replies:5
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Latest by Allcry
01 Sep 19
First day in court over
I had my first hearing yesterday and it did not go too well.
My main concerns were my wifes ability to obtain 50% of my earnings, even after we have been s ...
29 Aug 19, by Swampydrill
Latest 30 Aug 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:5
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Latest by hadenoughnow
30 Aug 19
Ex not applying for benefits - why?
A brief summary of the situation: I left my wife in the family home (joint mortgage) 3 months ago. 3 children, youngest is 2 and eldest (9) gets DLA and is stru ...
15 Aug 19, by mic1000
Latest 15 Aug 19 by Allcry
Replies:1
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Latest by Allcry
15 Aug 19
solicitor felt unsure about maintenance
I visited a solicitor who felt a request for maintenance was not likely as my 2 children are 18 and 21. I have worked part time for 20 years £22k and my husban ...
03 Aug 19, by carfest
Latest 07 Aug 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
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Latest by hadenoughnow
07 Aug 19
Joint lives
Hello Wiki,

Not been here for 5 years but here we go agin!

I have a joint lives CO dating back to 2002. My ex husband tried to vary this in 20 ...
03 Aug 19, by spooky
Latest 03 Aug 19 by spinit
Replies:3
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Latest by spinit
03 Aug 19
Variation order - help
My partners ex has applied for CM for their 3 children, on top of the 50% salary he gives her as SM (which at the time was agreed to include all support of the ...
31 Jul 19, by Justanotherthing
Latest 01 Aug 19 by Justanotherthing
Replies:2
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Latest by Justanotherthing
01 Aug 19
Clean break
My ex has currently got a signed consent order where he gets 40% share of the FMH when one of the trigger factors is met.
He pays SM towards half the mortga ...
17 Jul 19, by lauger
Latest 17 Jul 19 by .Charles
Replies:1
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Latest by .Charles
17 Jul 19
Financial Remedy Order - impact after cohabitation
Hi,

I am divorced and pay my ex-wife periodical payments for the benefit of herself and the children of the family under a global order.

The G ...
10 Jul 19, by gpatp
Latest 12 Jul 19 by gpatp
Replies:2
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Latest by gpatp
12 Jul 19
11 Jun 19, by solvethis84
Latest 12 Jun 19 by spinit
Replies:1
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Latest by spinit
12 Jun 19
Finance - husband moving out
My DH who who is asking for the divorce & has filed, is planning on leaving the family home, and has stated he'll pay the mortgage/all house bills (council ...
11 Jun 19, by Margo71
Latest 11 Jun 19 by Margo71
Replies:2
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Latest by Margo71
11 Jun 19
Changing court order
I got divorced last November. We got a court order to say my ex has to pay me spousal maintenance for 3 years and when the family house is sold, which is immine ...
21 May 19, by 1966winelover
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clean break after Consent order
Can anyone help me with a problem I face? 8 years after my divorce (Consent Order spousal support for me and maintenance for our child), my ex wants to cease s ...
22 Mar 19, by dartmum
Latest 24 Mar 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
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Latest by hadenoughnow
24 Mar 19
University - Maintenance
My ex-husband is refusing to continue paying any maintenance to our son when he goes to University.

Our son has Autism and gets reaally overwhelmed and ...
11 Mar 19, by Pepsi64
Latest 11 Mar 19 by spinit
Replies:1
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Latest by spinit
11 Mar 19
When does university end?
Hi, under our consent order I agreed to pay CM until the end of my two sons first degree courses. The youngest is approaching that point and hands his last piec ...
10 Mar 19, by numptonG
Latest 10 Mar 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
10 Mar 19
Student finance and divorce
Just going through details for a financial order at the moment and wanted to know if anybody has any experience of applying for student finance. My ex-husband d ...
01 Mar 19, by Newbeginnings2018
Latest 02 Mar 19 by joem
Replies:1
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Latest by joem
02 Mar 19
Varying consent order
My 43 year old partner receives 30K per annum for herself and 7 K for her 10 year old daughter from her extremely rich ex. The spousal maintenance is for joint ...
06 Feb 19, by alreid1612
Latest 24 Feb 19 by alreid1612
Replies:15
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Latest by alreid1612
24 Feb 19
Downward Variation
Hi there,

My husband has been paying his ex £800pcm in spousal maintenance for the past 6 years. The order is due to end in 2020, once she qualifies.< ...
21 Feb 19, by sailingby
Latest 21 Feb 19 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:4
:578
Latest by WYSPECIAL
21 Feb 19
Spousal maintainance benefits
hi

my stbx will receive enough capital to rehome for her and our daughter (she will have primary care) needs.

However re income, she currently ...
14 Feb 19, by chris_w01
Latest 15 Feb 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:2
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Latest by hadenoughnow
15 Feb 19
Financial Bullying - Help
I desperately require some assistance and have absolutely no idea what to do anymore. I tried to resolve my issues myself, but reached the end of my line.
< ...
29 Jan 19, by batman2011
Latest 06 Feb 19 by batman2011
Replies:7
:1540
Latest by batman2011
06 Feb 19

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