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Maintenance 3329 topics

Discuss child and spousal maintenance. How much child support are you entitled to? What determines whether you will receive/pay spousal maintenance?
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Excessive Outgoings
Hi,
My boyfriend is in the middle of a divorce and at the financial disclosure stage. The mortgage they had together had a financial clause on it - if they ...
17 May 08, by sal890042
Latest 17 May 08 by Young again
Replies:1
:525
Latest by Young again
17 May 08
HUSBAND NOT WANTING TO PAY SM
We are in the process of divorce having been married for 5 years with two children aged 8 and 4.

Neither of us wants to keep the family home. In total ...
15 May 08, by letkm
Latest 17 May 08 by Young again
Replies:1
:560
Latest by Young again
17 May 08
Changing maintenance agreements
Hi all

My divorce is complete (yee ha) however ex husband wants to change the maintenance payment amount he agreed to in the consent order. He has nev ...
17 May 08, by rasher
Latest 17 May 08 by rasher
Replies:2
:479
Latest by rasher
17 May 08
Stopping Spousal Maint on Co-Habitation
My STBXW started something up with an old boyfriend about 6 months before we split. Even before I moved out she started seeing him and since we split she has be ...
26 Mar 08, by alexanda
Latest 15 May 08 by AA1969
Replies:8
:1978
Latest by AA1969
15 May 08
Spousal Maintenance... how is it paid?!!
This is a really small question...
IF at final hearing my partner is ordered to pay spousal maintenance to his x2b how is it usually paid? i.e monthly cheq ...
15 May 08, by ambeljazz
Latest 15 May 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:512
Latest by LittleMrMike
15 May 08
HUSBAND NOT WANTING TO PAY SM
We are in the process of divorce having been married for 5 years with two children aged 8 and 4.

Neither of us wants to keep the family home. In total ...
15 May 08, by letkm
Latest 15 May 08 by letkm
Replies:2
:675
Latest by letkm
15 May 08
is this too much?
Hi all,
Newbie here. Just to set scene we both work and have two children - tried collaborative process which after 10k each in fees left us no further forw ...
12 May 08, by stressfree
Latest 12 May 08 by stressfree
Replies:2
:589
Latest by stressfree
12 May 08
Spousal maintenance
I have been married for 18 years and separated for 5 months. We have no children. Could i get spousal maintenance, he earns 35k and i earn 16k a year. I will ...
11 May 08, by yewtree
Latest 12 May 08 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:1
:679
Latest by IKNOWNOW
12 May 08
Maintenance for daughter at uni
Any advice please? Have decree nisi and 1st appontment at court for ancilliary relief in July. D finishes A levels this summer will go to uni. I understand unde ...
09 May 08, by roseanne
Latest 09 May 08 by Fiona
Replies:2
:529
Latest by Fiona
09 May 08
maintenance payments
2 questions:

1)We agreed to split the days so 3 days each week plus alternate weekens until she found out vis csa website that it was worth £19 a wee ...
09 May 08, by pepsi1
Latest 09 May 08 by Fiona
Replies:1
:496
Latest by Fiona
09 May 08
What is child maintenence supposed to cover?
I split with my wife about a year ago now, at the time we were both wanting to move on with our lives, so we were able to agree terms regarding money, possessio ...
30 Apr 08, by fredsmith22
Latest 09 May 08 by Monitor441
Replies:26
:3967
Latest by Monitor441
09 May 08
Is CM part of financial settlement? Help!
Hi.

I received a proposal without prejudice fom my wifes sol.

1. House to wife
2. She takes new mortgage.
3. She gives me lump sum. (2 ...
08 May 08, by Robert1977
Latest 08 May 08 by Fiona
Replies:1
:652
Latest by Fiona
08 May 08
Maintenance to wife registered disabled
I have been divorced for 15 months now. At the time of my divorce I was earning £50,000 per annum and I am now unemployed. I was ordered by the court to pay my ...
07 May 08, by Chrisw
Latest 07 May 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:513
Latest by LittleMrMike
07 May 08
SM flexibility
My ex and I are trying to come to some agreement about spousal maintenance. Right now I earn much more than her.

I have two real concerns:

1 ...
30 Apr 08, by Mikalone
Latest 06 May 08 by Mikalone
Replies:2
:545
Latest by Mikalone
06 May 08
judge or solicitor ?
could someone please tell me ,is it the judge or the solicitor who decides if S.M. is payable?can the solicitors sort it out between them, or do you have to go ...
04 May 08, by smoker
Latest 06 May 08 by attilladahun
Replies:7
:1331
Latest by attilladahun
06 May 08
Spousal maintenance
Hi,

Can anyone offer advice on the following?:

I have agreed to a settlement in principal with my xtb. The settlement being one which she o ...
05 May 08, by chesscube
Latest 05 May 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:513
Latest by LittleMrMike
05 May 08
Reviewing Orders
Hi, my first posting and would like some advice on how to apply for a review of an order and on what grounds it would be considered.

My areas of concer ...
02 May 08, by wizard
Latest 02 May 08 by Fiona
Replies:2
:456
Latest by Fiona
02 May 08
Maintenance and sm from Self employed Husband
Hello,

I am really confused as to where I will satnd with cm and sm from my husband.
He is a company director and only takes a small wage and but t ...
02 May 08, by irene61221
Latest 02 May 08 by Young again
Replies:4
:965
Latest by Young again
02 May 08
Spousal Maintainance
Hi,

Being new to this game (of separation!) I have no clue as to the level of SM I require to pay my soon to be ex wife? I am in the forces and return ...
28 Apr 08, by kutznermr
Latest 30 Apr 08 by Fiona
Replies:3
:623
Latest by Fiona
30 Apr 08
maintenance
can he just stop paying because change of his circumstanes ...
29 Apr 08, by stevie
Latest 30 Apr 08 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:1
:528
Latest by IKNOWNOW
30 Apr 08
When does Spousal Maint end ?
My wife and i of 21 yrs are looking to split up. (separate or divorce ?). She is 44 and unemployed -- has been off sick for 12 months (hysterectomy / back probl ...
29 Apr 08, by trouty
Latest 30 Apr 08 by Fiona
Replies:3
:725
Latest by Fiona
30 Apr 08
maintenance
can he just stop paying because change of his circumstanes ...
29 Apr 08, by stevie
Latest 29 Apr 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:447
Latest by LittleMrMike
29 Apr 08
Spousal maintenance
Hi
I wonder if you could help me and give me a rough idea of how much spousal maintenance may be. i know each case is different but any idea would be a rea ...
22 Apr 08, by timberwolf
Latest 28 Apr 08 by trouty
Replies:3
:720
Latest by trouty
28 Apr 08
Spousal Maintenance?
I am getting a little confused about SM when children are not involved. Much of what I read seems very unfair if there is a large difference in earning capacity ...
28 Apr 08, by Williteverend
Latest 28 Apr 08 by LittleMrMike
Replies:1
:576
Latest by LittleMrMike
28 Apr 08
Finances !
Hi all. Wish I'd discovered this site a year ago...
Got a couple of questions, I'll try to keep it short.

The first question is regarding spousal m ...
27 Apr 08, by Techy
Latest 27 Apr 08 by Fiona
Replies:6
:626
Latest by Fiona
27 Apr 08
can I get spousal maintenance
Hi I'm being divorced by my husband, and although its not something I want am trying to sort out what I am entitled to. My husband is in the US Navy and therefo ...
25 Apr 08, by jaffacake
Latest 25 Apr 08 by D L
Replies:1
:603
Latest by D L
25 Apr 08
maintainance
hi can sombody advise i will be seeking divorce soon i hope from my controling partner
we bought presant home together renovated cottages also created ...
23 Apr 08, by karolann
Latest 24 Apr 08 by Ephelia
Replies:1
:518
Latest by Ephelia
24 Apr 08
Spousal Maintenance
Newbie posting so please be gentle!

I am in the throws of a divorce, my Solicitor recommends Collaborative Law and I am on speaking terms with my wife, ...
22 Apr 08, by Perthi
Latest 23 Apr 08 by Perthi
Replies:10
:1817
Latest by Perthi
23 Apr 08
Not paying maintenance and lying about income
I was awarded a percentage of my ex-husband's future earnings in our settlement in 2005. He is refusing to pay me on the grounds that I owe him money for a car ...
21 Apr 08, by posy
Latest 23 Apr 08 by posy
Replies:4
:803
Latest by posy
23 Apr 08
Why do the solictiors views differ so much
My partners position is that initially him end ex to be sold family home without solicitors advice and because he earns more so she could afford nice place he g ...
22 Apr 08, by April15
Latest 23 Apr 08 by April15
Replies:4
:699
Latest by April15
23 Apr 08
Spousal maintenance
Hi,

I have recieved an offer from my ex wife (I have two children with her) and have agreed to all but one of the proposals, this being a nominal spous ...
22 Apr 08, by chesscube
Latest 23 Apr 08 by Fiona
Replies:5
:677
Latest by Fiona
23 Apr 08
variation of spousal and/or child maintenance
My husband and I got married last week. He pays his ex-wife spousal and child maintenace payments in excess of £3000 per month in total. The larger part is spo ...
22 Apr 08, by moggiemcalpine
Latest 22 Apr 08 by D L
Replies:1
:758
Latest by D L
22 Apr 08
NRP pay's towards ex's child he's never adopted?
Just a quick question. I have been paying maintenance for the three children my soon to be ex wife and I brought up. The eldest child is from a previous relatio ...
21 Apr 08, by DUTCHMARTIN
Latest 21 Apr 08 by Angel557
Replies:1
:450
Latest by Angel557
21 Apr 08
How is spouse maintenance affected by new marriage
I am considering divorce from my wife and I expect to have to pay her monthly maintenance of around £900 or £1,000 on top of child maintenance for our child o ...
18 Apr 08, by vegt
Latest 20 Apr 08 by Fiona
Replies:4
:1105
Latest by Fiona
20 Apr 08
Failure to disclose benefits received
Hi I wonder if anyone can help.

I divorced 8 years ago and a consent order was agreed.

My ex agreed in this to keep me updated with her financ ...
19 Apr 08, by kudosfree
Latest 19 Apr 08 by sexysadie
Replies:1
:533
Latest by sexysadie
19 Apr 08
Latest 19 Apr 08 by cd12358
Replies:1
:810
Latest by cd12358
19 Apr 08
Whilst waiting for house to sell
If the husband wants to move out whilst waiting for the house to sell as life at home is unbearable. He would have to rent a property where his teenage daughter ...
14 Apr 08, by Sparrow67
Latest 18 Apr 08 by Ephelia
Replies:5
:706
Latest by Ephelia
18 Apr 08
am I likely to be liable for maintenance payments?
Will I need to pay maintenance?? 0 Minutes ago
I have recently left my husband and will be divorcing him. I dont have full figures for pension etc at the mo ...
18 Apr 08, by furigan
Latest 18 Apr 08 by furigan
Replies:3
:596
Latest by furigan
18 Apr 08
mainenence buy out
i have just received a letter fro my sol inc correspondence he has had wit my stbx sol.our decree nisi is through and we r waitin a court date 2 sort out a clai ...
17 Apr 08, by wendyb976
Latest 17 Apr 08 by wendyb976
Replies:2
:680
Latest by wendyb976
17 Apr 08
New Partner's assets
My wife and I split 15 months ago, and I'm now with a new partner though not divorced yet. My new partner has some rasonable assets, and my former marital home ...
16 Apr 08, by Cash
Latest 16 Apr 08 by IKNOWNOW
Replies:2
:578
Latest by IKNOWNOW
16 Apr 08

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