urgent

yes the situation is way out of control! I am just going to contact my sol now.
I aologise but I meant my english is not extremely fluent and because I havent been a very outgoiong person I am a bit slow. But I have a GCSE in English. My writing skills are good.

in certain circumstances I get nervous and start to stammer. I feel the police or judge may think its because I am guilty

Being nervous and not being an outgoing person is not a crime. If you explain in advance that you lack confidence when communicating directly with people they will understand.

And yes, your writing skills are very good

Take care again,

S

hi Ssoria
The judge will know that English is not your first language and will have listened to speakers from many cultures and make allowances, so I wouldn't worry about it. Speak clearly and look at the person you're addressing. Eye contact is important when trying to demonstrate that you have nothing to hide. Body language is important too, so hold your head up and just knowing that you are telling the truth will give you confidence. Even though you may be shaking with fear, you will appear confident.

Unfortunately I've exceeded my daily pm allowance so will write tomorrow with what my counsellor taught me about being confident in court.

Stay strong and let us know how you get on.

Mitchum x

Thank you all for your very encouraging response.
I received an email from sons guardian
saying:::

Happy New Year to you and your family, i hope that you had a good break.



Just wanted to email you to let you know that I am aware of recent events over the past few days and that SON is currently with his father. I will call you on Monday to discuss this. I have been contacted by SON by text but we haven’t been able to speak yet. I am aware that SON spoke to , his solicitor (SONS) this week.



I am also aware that Social Services were contacted by the police and the case has been allocated to a social called XXX YYY (i don’t have her telephone number yet) for her to undertake an initial assessment.



I will call you on Monday to discuss this further.



All the best

I have replied to her explaining what happened with a copy of my diary of the past events