After over a year of trying to sort out a financial settlement with the ex i made a court application. She cancelled
mediation, ignored all solicitor communications and has been as difficult as possible throughout the whole thing.
We eventually exchanged
form E’s as part of the court order. Her form was incomplete, had wrong adding up, missing info, lies and was so poorly filled out I’m struggling to see how a solicitor would let it be submitted like that. She left her pension value as TBC.
We have exchanged questionnaires, I’ve given my answers. She hasn’t supplied hers yet. One of the questions is what is the value of the pension (I don’t have one).
Chronology and statement of issues were sent to me 2 weeks after they were meant to be and she still hasn’t provided her pension valuation or even requested it from her employers according to her solicitors. I’m being told that teachers pension
CETV’s are taking months to come through.
The first appointment was meant to be this week but solicitors have agreed directions so that we don’t have to attend. One of the orders is for her to reply to the questionnaire in 3 weeks time.
By the sounds of it, she won’t have the pension CETV for in 3 weeks time. She should have applied for it back in October when it was originally requested.
It’s important info because at the moment she’s refusing to offer me any share of the house (around £100k equity) and trying to make me pay for repairs that she can provide no proof of.
She is a high earner, I’m not. She’s saying I’m understating my earnings but I’m not.
At what point can I ask for a Costs order to be made and how likely is it it will be granted if she continues to frustrate the process? What will happen in 3 weeks if she still hasn’t provided the pension info?
After £4k in costs I’ve incurred so far I still don’t have a proper
financial disclosure and it’s wearing me down.
Thanks in advance for your help.