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05 Jan 18 #498500 by julie4543
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Hello, my husband has applied for Non- Mol ex=parte against me despite the fact that he has a 3-year restraining order against him for harassment to me.
I went to court and the judge has said he cannot dismiss the order as my husband has to be there he was very concerned that it had been issued but needs to speak with my ex about why he failed to disclose his conviction.
I cannot afford a solicitor although I work and he was receiving legal aid.
I provided numerous emails he sent which showed my character and not the one he is portraying and lots of social media posts where he is the one being malicious, so his solicitor said he knew nothing of the restraining order I have and it was issued in September 2017 so any advice what could happen at our 2nd hearing on the 10th, also I have to submit my evidence in timeline and on the day, any advice on this? Also any evidence he has supporting his lies does he have to share this with me asap as I have to send mine to his solicitor? thank you

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09 Jan 18 #498595 by hadenoughnow
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Sorry you haven't had a reply yet. Any evidence you want to put before the court should also be sent to his solicitor before the hearing.

It would help the judge if you supplied a simple chronology of events relating to this matter along with supporting evidence.

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09 Jan 18 #498607 by julie4543
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Thank you, I had so much evidence as he breached bail conditions numerous times with essay type emails it has been very hard sifting through it all to make it less bulky. He had raised 46 parts but a lot of it was against my personality ie I was violent vile abusive, I'm so tired I have done best I can with working too, I have not had a reply from his solicitor or any evidence from him shared to me?

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10 Jan 18 #498633 by julie4543
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he didn't turn up, his solicitor sent email to court saying he had no legal aid so until he managed to sort it out and :silly:ex get help to feeling better about going to court could it be adjourned for 14 days. The judge said he made it very clear that no matter what he had to turn up today and he also did not have any evidence either.

The judge asked me if I would like it to be adjourned or dealt with today so I said today so he dismissed it based on my evidence and the fact his statement had no facts.

I'm happy but he can reapply but the judge said it is on the system now so he will have to state there is a restraining order against him so unlikely he would get application anyway.

Thanks

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10 Jan 18 #498652 by hadenoughnow
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That sounds like a good outcome. Let's hope he leaves you in peace now.

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