Hi
I completed my forms. I did meet with a solicitor in advance, who suggested that I could do it myself returning for ad-hoc advice, I've returned once so far to discuss finances. Overall quite straight forward, causing me to question what additional service others pay for, on the other hand there were occassions where I struggled and needed to refer to Wiki for clarification of expectations.
Unfortunately I didn't keep notes from the completion process so any issues need to be recalled from memory. Please feel free to review my postings to see what questions I asked. In summary I managed with the combination of the Wiki overview, Court leaflets plus forum for specifics.
One element I found especially helpful was visiting my local court and collecting a Divorce pack from them. This gave me the relevant forms and guidance, no more, no less, so I knew what was required at that time and was not daunted by forms I didn't need to complete. Once completed they also checked for omissions so I knew at least I'd filled in all the relevant fields.
One thing I would have liked would have been up to date electronic forms that could have been completed and saved on my pc. The HMCS forms were in Acrobat format, whilst reasonably well laid out, could not be saved. The Wiki forms, whilst possible to edit, did not match the court forms so I was reluctant to use them.
D8
P.1
- might have helped if it had been clear that Case reference number would not be available at this point.
- 1b - possibly the biggest stumbling block. The form suggested that
Maiden Name was required, whereas leaflet D184 illustrated married name, I went with the latter.
- 3 - I was not clear of distinction between "Habitually resident" and "Domiciled" (as prescribed in D8 Notes, perhaps a Divorce Dictionary might have helped).
- 5 - Children - guidance is not explicit on the exclusion of children that are now over 18 years old.
p.3
- 13 (Particulars) - perhaps it might have helped if I'd known how much, or little, needed to be stated to support
grounds for divorce. Ultimately I checked Wiki for examples.
p.5 Prayer
- 2 - Costs - could have been clearer on the impact of (the respondents) legal aid on the merits of claiming costs.
- 3 - Ancillary Relief - I refered to Wiki at this stage, I knew I didn't want to claim myself but didn't know if I should leave open for the respondent to claim as expected.
D8A - Statement of Arrangements for Children
p.5
- 7a. - Maintenance - this section appears to assume that the respondent will be paying maintenance.
p.6
- 8 - Contact - this section appears to assume that any children remain living with the Petitioner.
Once the Petition and Statement of Arrangements were submitted to the court, subsequent forms (D80A and D84) were not a problem, although I recall having to ask at the court office what to enter on D80A page 3 items 3, 4, 5 (respondent's signature). Having saved copies of any previous documentation was necessary to repeat the same information.
form E - work in progress. Might be less daunting if it were clearer that not every section is applicable. As with many things, preparation has been the key. Currently paused before I return to establishing future income needs.
Hope this gives you something to start on.