Divorce / Failing Relationship Radar or DivDar

I don't know if its because I am divorced.

I am not sure if it was chatting here.

But I have a new Radar, I have had it for a long time now and its kinda a sad one to have. A DivDar

Its kinda like the sixth sense, I know when a relationship is rocky and going to end. The signs are all there and I think sadly I notice this before the couple even know.

Its 4 marriages I have watched crumble, offered support and pointed them to wikivorce. Only 1 has managed to recover.. and honestly I am looking at that now thinking, I hope they can sort it out but...

I see them coming due to Facebook posts, its sad but its generally the woman who gives me the clues its going to end badly. Shes lost weight, changes her hair, going out more (Without other half) or its a picture I have seen and its ALARM bells.
Today I got a call from my friend who told me hes been asked to leave the house, she wants a break.. hes sad but very positive they will work it out. Me I ask for some facts, and I know immediately me shes seeing someone but I just hint as what I think rather than openly say shes cheating.

Its not nice having been there, but life after divorce is OK for me.. just wish I didn't see them coming.

Love to you all and thanks for all your support here. I guess we all have this sad radar..

Not lost and not sleeping on a sofa!! but happily achieve life goals I wish I had done years ago!