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I am having an affair with a married woman

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08 Jun 14 #436210 by KimberlyClarkson
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Also, we have this in common> that in the past we have simply been surviving and now we are living.

When we are speaking on Skype and there is "silence" in some relationships people get nervous. We welcome it. We just smile and it feels so natural and pure.
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08 Jun 14 #436214 by hawaythelads
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Do you think you can afford to keep meeting up every 10 days from 3000 miles away.
If you''re having long silent pauses in conversations now after only 2 months once you''ve known her 16 years it''ll be like a you''ve taken a vow of silence in a franciscan monastery.
What countries of origin are you having to commute from respectively?
HRH x
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08 Jun 14 #436215 by Deedum
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Out of interest, how did you meet? Was it a chance meeting in person.
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08 Jun 14 #436216 by driven40
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So I take it you will be leaving the uk to go live with her as it is possible she will not be able to take her children out of the country when she divorced and both your respective incomes will be taken into consideration when it comes to possible spousal maintenance but them who will look after the children when you both have to travel the world to different meetings??? How will you keep up contact with your children when not in the UK? Or are you both going to leave your children to your respective partners to look after whole you both travel the world together in bliss??? It''s a great idea but very hard for a mother or father to do
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08 Jun 14 #436217 by KimberlyClarkson
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I appreciate your response.
Luckily, I can afford to see her. The last time I rented an apartment, she sent me a grocery list and i bought all the stuff. Later that evening we were in the kitchen cooking chops. Every evening we are together we last till around 4 am. I never knew it possible to make love every time from 10 in the evening till 4 am or so.

She lives in the Czech Republic. She has a very top job and is extremely intelligent. If feels awesome because her intelligence and personality is an almost exact match for me.
I tried to force an argument with her a couple of times and its impossible!!
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08 Jun 14 #436218 by KimberlyClarkson
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I was in Moscow. I happenned to see her as she walked through the door. (we were both exhibiting at the same trade show). We were asked to go into the same room and coffee was brought to us. Within seconds we hit it off.
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08 Jun 14 #436219 by KimberlyClarkson
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Hi!

I have thought of this.
It will be me that goes to live in her country as I am the owner of my business and so I will make it easy for her.

The actual travelling is simply to meet her.

So, if I am living their with her her child will not be affected.

Mine yes. But luckily I travel so much and my daughter is very happy. I know this is an issue and so its a top priority of mine.
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