I really wish I had read this 18 months ago...

I found this article on the Huffington Post website.

A private detective''s tips on how to spot someone who may be being unfaithful. In retrospect I saw all five of the signs listed. And yet I somehow ignored them. Love is blind? Yeah....

www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/anthony-smith/u...lnk3%26pLid%3D161702

With the benefit of hindsight it all falls into place, in an odd way like throwing the pieces of a jigsaw in the air and when it lands, you have a complete image.

No matter. What is done is done.

I read that article too, and thought exactly the same as you.

If only...

I suspect many of us will have noticed these traits in our ex partners.

But luckily for you.
You did read this 8 months ago.

Re:Hello everyone 8 Months, 1 Week ago
Hi stumpy

Write a letter or email to her stating that although she doesn''t want to be married.you propose that your son and step son reside with you every other weekend. Friday after school until Monday am or Sunday pm if she is far away so that the kids get to maintain a relationship with you.
If you''re not a wife beater the only reason for her being so secretive about her address is because she''s oyhiding the fact she has anew bloke who will be around.
The technical term for this will be “my friend” and for living with her the technical term is “he does not live here I can have friends to stay over”

See that tag line of mine.
I don''t say it for fun

No shxt Sherlock I didn''t need to spend 36 years as a private dxck to be able to state the blindingly obvious either
All the best
HRH x

The thing is that had I seen this 18 months ago I would no doubt already be divorced.

I''m not saying she was having an affair, but frankly all the evidence points in that direction.

Anyway, onwards and upwards.