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Petty acts of revenge

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06 Aug 08 #37870 by Matt/24/7
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Hiya guys.

Just wanted to apologise to all who were in chat earlier today who were only trying to advise and help me and i just did'nt want to listen.
I've had time to think about it now, and all i was after was revenge, rather petty and bitter dont you think?
Like to add, im not gonna go down that road, i dont hate my wife and im not gonna damage my son or make him hate his Daddy in the process.
Im not usually that pig headed. I know im not a good man, but im trying real hard to be the man i so want to be, and its thanks to people like you spelling out to me the ammount of damage i could've done thats made me stop and think.

Thank you all for your time and patience

M x

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06 Aug 08 #37872 by Angel557
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Revenge is a normal thought , we have all thought it, but at the end of the day revenge makes you feel good for all of 30 seconds and makes you feel like crap for a very long time.

Now you know your not going to do what you wanted to do you can stop beating yourself up, and make your boy your number 1.

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06 Aug 08 #37873 by marriaa
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matt.
I am glad you have come to your senses.One good thing I do find is when I am really upset and want to go for x2b's throat I come in chat and rant by the time I have spent five mins with wiki peeps,I have calmed down and even manage to laugh and revenge seems so childish.
good nite,You are a good person!!

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