Love Rats!

Hi All
Well back from my hol and the episode of my new man - finding out he has been seeing another woman behind my back and still in contact with several on the dating site claiming he is single!!!!

The holiday was great away from that PC he is ok.

He mentioned marriage to me on Saturday - I have yet to tackle him about all those secrets I know about him.

Yes advice was to dump him how could he do this to me Little Old Vulnerable Me who has so much on her plate? I have court final hearing next week and my ex is driving me mad giving me grief about it still.

Just received more bad news I have to go into Hospital too the week after could be serious - Im keeping my fingers crossed.

It can't get any worse can it?

Jus talk to me someone I need some care and sympathy Im heading for that breakdown - I was determined never to get to that point.

My youngest is out of his mind - missing me so taken days off work to be with him and share quality time.

I just want normality again feel like joining a Kabutz to find my inner self again. What do you think?
Love
Mollyx:(

Molly,

Glad you enjoyed the holiday - sounds like you will need it for what lies ahead.

Why don't you pop into chat and see who is there? Better than sitting alone and brooding.

Hadenoughnow

Hi Molly
Oh my. What a mess. I think you need some time just for you, be on your own and get your head back together again. I am sorry about the hospital you know we all will be keeping our fingers crossed too. Obviously the man is not strong enough to support you through these bad times. Have you family around, they are the best at this horrid time.
I went through a relationship with a complete rat, wish I had dumped him years ago,
but that is so easy to say now with hindsight. Never easy is it?
zara

Thanks I don't know where I am these days! Just soldier on I suppose.
Trying to be strong - but as you know its's hard. Its good to know you guys are out there tol isten!
Mollyx

Molly,
I am glad you had a nice holiday.
Sorry you are still going through a bad patch,this is what it is a patch,things will move on.About the hospital,we always think the worse,so do not fret about it,deal with it when it comes,it might be nothing and if it is ignorance is definitely not bliss.There will be help all along the way.
It might not be the right time to ditch bf,so use the bugger!!
I do not do much at the moment ,so I am in and out of wiki,I will check chat to see if u r in.I am in chat in the early of the morning.
Molly,what you cannot change just have to accept as hard as it may be.
Big hugs ,take care

Thanks Marriaa - trying to use the bf - but its hard knowing the truth!
But other things more important. I know I have to think of myself but as one not used to doing this - I have always constantly and still do think of others - its difficult.
Will chat to yuo soon....

Mollyx