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Paddy2808
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16 Jun 08 #26712 by Paddy2808

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My wife and I attended a counselling session today but it was of little use in respect of our relationship. Having had several discussions beforehand we had already decided that we could not continue living a lie.

It did help us to decide how to tell our children, which we have now done. They are 17 & 14 and I have to say this is the most difficult thing I have ever done. It felt like I was deliberately trying to hurt them.

Now comes the part where we sort out who is going/staying, maintenance etc etc. I think its going to get worse before it gets better.

megan
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16 Jun 08 #26718 by megan

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Sadly you could be right, but you've decided together and your talking so thats the best you can do. If you continue to talk there's a chance you and your children can come out of this without the bitterness and resentment many of us carry.
Good luck to you
Megan

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