any good plan

:evil:hello....I dont know how are you going to explain my situation...?My ex still seeing same person who caused our divorce,during last 2 years he is going staying ,spending weekends,some nights,xmas also we got divorced couple months ago,nothing has been changed,I am sending our 5 years old daughters with him some wekends when he ask me,I dont want to play game with my daughter becouse I have problem with my ex.
He is going sleeping with her then coming hom ethen I am washing his underwears and clothes,they are going all together with my daughter and her kids to have fun,taking pictures,my daughter is telling theyare cooking together in the kitchen.When he is at home he is still waiting food from me...
Also his bullying and unacceptable behavior continue...I wont talk about them anymore becouse most of you should read my issues from anoher section of forum.
I try to be play fair all the time,I wish him to find someone and be happy then he let me go or move out,I am not jealous or I am dont want him back...
He and her caused problem to me last 2 years,in the begining when I was still crying for him,he was coming home,packing his stuff going to see her,I was dying every time.But I got over...I found out who is she?her name,her job and her job and home adress...When I was in trouble upstaires I was hearing their phone conversations,laughing,gigling...now he is still trying give trouble to me...now I need advice..who has any nice advice me to play game with them if he carry on make me upset?

Several points need raising here Istanblues.

Firstly, this man cannot be allowed to treat you like this; you need to find your inner strength and stop him walking all over you. Easier said than done I know, but you are worth so much more.

What sort of picture is this giving your 5 year old; she must be so confused?!!

Have you sorted finances between you yet? The house you live in, is it yours, his, rented, what?

You say you are divorced, so you have the absolute and he comes and goes as he pleases.

I would think that there may be grounds to get an occupancy order or transfer the tenancy if the property is rented to stop him coming back when ever he wants.

He is obviously causing you and I would imagine your daughter a great deal of emotional stress.

You cannot let this continue; you need to talk to your solicitor and get this sorted out sooner rather later, for your own sanity and to be able to move on.

xx Sarah xx

Hi Sarah,
Thanks for consideration.I spoke to my solicitor already.I got divorce and got court order.It says I will keep the MH next 10 years then will sell and share,also took his 20000 pound loans innto my name.
But he called my remortgage company and said I commited fraud,cant effort to pay payments they asked me payslip couldnt show....My broker did for me also..then he called Benefit Agency and told them I am commitng benefit fraud,got letter from the last week for interviw after they checked and cancelled becose I dont get any benefit.At this moment his name is still on the mortgage cant put him out at least he doesnt hit me.I spoke to police and dif.solicitor.Now I can stay in exisiting mortgage but he didnt sign transfer forms ant my sol.carried to the cort to judge sign behalf of him at 7th of July.He is mad,he said he will play game and use against to me...even if tonite..I said back off what do you wanna do just do it...he got letters CSA,he has to pay 340 pounds a month ,he says if I dont cancel CSA he will never pay even if he will lose job and start getting custody of my daughter..I am doing everything legally..I said ok dont pay if you dont wanna pay,my sol is gonna write warning letter,becouse no mol order is gonna cost expensive hope court date can come closer becouse in waiting list...