I am not sure where to put this.I consider it my relationship with my wiki,sometimes wacky friends.
So here it goes.
After a lot of delibaration the divorce ball is rolling.My husband petitioned me and the contents of the petition is so hurtful and half truth.If I had not been on here reading other people's circumtances I would have taken it so personally that most probably I would be in a corner curled up in tears as it happens I realise that it is the facts of divorce.
I saw my solicitor for the first time on Wednesday and I am very impressed ,I am confident that it will be money well spent.With all your advice I manage to present her with loads of documents,kept copies for myself,which hopefully willreduce the cost.We are counter petitioned as my solicitor says this will be in my favour financially.He is using my" working long hours in the business and neglecting the children" for the cause of the break down of the marriage while he is trying to exclude me from the business.I will not be telling lies about him,every accusation I have proof of,which is very sad as there is a lot the children are not aware of.I did not want to have our private life aired in public,more so for him as I am sure his friends will attend any hearing for the fun of it.It is not going to be a nice one.
This morning I received copies of three letters that my solicitor sent to his solicitors .One informing him of our intention to counter petition,one demanding immediate lumpsum of £10000 for holiday and equal monthly drawings and the other one requesting him not to call at the
matrimonial home without prior arrangement.
I would like to say A BIG THANK YOU to all of you.Your advices have been very constructive.
I have cried reading some blogs,I have rejoice when I have seen the positive vibes coming through.I tried to give my two pennies worth when I can ,above all I did not feel I was the only bad wife and stupid person in the world.
The chat room has kept me company and entertained me for may hours when it would have been very lonely in the evening.I have been priviledged to have met one of you and another that I keep in touch with more.You both know who you are and for that I am grateful.
I know that there will be many unsavoury moments ahead and I will be here for comfort confident that I will find it.
Once again A BIG THANK YOU MY FRIENDS
I wish I could buy you all a drink.
Hopefully we will meet oneday and you will realise that I am not as nuttty as I sound just a bit mad.Have a nice bank holiday weekend .
.Hi to all of you meeting in London,
Behave yourself,
Do not give wiki a bad name!!!!
Look after Megan for me.
Phew!That was a long one,sorry could not stop!!!!
LOVE YOU ALL
MARRIAA
