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I'm a journalist writing a piece for You magazine in the Mail on Sunday about women whose ex-partners lost their libidos as the women become more and more successful.

I know a lot of really successful women use this site so specifically I'm looking for:

A now divorced or separated woman in her 30s or 40s who was with a man whose sex drive waned the more successful she became and that contributed to the marriage breakdown. You will be interviewed and photographed and paid for your time.

Anyone interested can email me on This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or phone me on 0208
519 5888 or phone 07971 61 31 51

I earned more than my ex if that's what you mean by successful, but my sex life and my ex-husband's are private and will remain so.

I earned more than my stbx. I wish his libido had wained.
Whilst I was slogging away at a new job he was ******* his s*****t.
Bitter me ............never.

Lol, Megan,

Ms Anna Magee,

i find it interesting that you are only asking for women of an age your target audience can relate to - and then solely to support some sort of theory that men need to dominate women in order to avoid impotence and possibly divorce.

As a mere man and therefore incapable of holding more than two thoughts in my head at any one time, I think you are misrepresenting yourself when you write that you are a 'journalist'....

... but then again could I interest you in a correlation between my ex-wife's increasing malice, spice, vindictiveness, abuse and theft with my own decrease in libido, health and will to live - finally leading to divorce?

Would a women who did not "sleep" her way to success lower herself to this...or have i misread the original post?

Hi Anna,

As a man in his mid 30s I would say exactly the opposite of what you are implying.

"A now divorced or separated woman in her 30s or 40s who was with a man whose sex drive waned the more successful she became and that contributed to the marriage breakdown."

I think there is nothing sexier or more attractive than a woman who has her own life, drive, career and ideas.

Life is a partnership and to share with an equal is incredibly stimulating....

So no, I completely disagree with what you are implying.

Everyone remain calm, this thread is being hijacked ....

What do the men here think?

Is a docile, meek and submissive woman who pampers to your every whim your ideal life-partner?

or,

Is your ideal soulmate an indepedently minded, driven and strong willed person who knows exactly what she wants?

For my own part, I have fallen for a lady who amongst other things knows her own mind, is clever, unafraid to call a spade a spade and is also tactful, sensitive and caring - to cap it all she is gorgeous and a wonderful cook!

(PS - the above description is not my ex)