what do I do... now being cheated on by my new man

Feel awful.
A "friend" of mine found my current mans profile on an adult dating site and emailed him etc ... he has bitten.
What do I do - how do I tell him what I know ...

and I thought he loved me ...

what am I ...

I'm so sorry to hear this. Have you spoken with him about it? I would.

You don't deserve to be treated with disrespect and you MUST let him know that. Unless you can sort it out now you must walk away from this new relationship; you've enough on your plate already. You need to put yourself and your children first at the moment.

What are you? A vulnerable woman who loves her kids and is trying to do her best - nothing to be ashamed of in that.

hi taylr14,

bottom line here is you need to confront him and let him know that you have seen this and ask him to explain himself. It could be old and have been there for a while from before you met...

you second choice then is to believe his explanation or not.

And then I guess its decision time. If its as bad as you suspect you need to tell him you are worth more and walk or throw him out... but hopefully it won't be and you can get life back on track.

In a past life I was in your shoes a few times and until you confront him the unknown (wondering) is worse than it is once you know the facts, good or bad. Once you know you have the power.

hope that helps

BC

You sure it was him how reliable is your friend ? Sorry but just a thought. Maybe he knew and wanted to see how far it would go.