new relationships

Hypothetical ? If I was to meet someone knew would it change divorce proceedings or form E.
Im not in a relationship at the mo in any way but thought well u never know for the future

very interesting question,I have often wanderedwhat would happen,even if you are not living together

I have a feeling it depends on whether you live together or intend to live together (not sure who'd be stupid enough to admit that before it actually happens) was asked this in mediation. If you do then the other persons assetts and your benefiting from them can be considered in the assessment of what you need. So say you met and moved in with George Clooney (the real one!) - you might struggle to say you needed to get the terraced house in the rough end of town for you and the kids. I notice there are a few 'partners of people who are getting divorced' on this site, they would probably be able to help most here !!!

My main advice would be - dont use your real name on any dating sites:lol:
RasherX

Ho-ho!

Re. dating sites, dodgy places for the emotionally vulnerable.

Having been there Rasher, I would confirm that there are women who prey on innocence and like to savour the purity of the bewildered man recently split from his wife.

Such men are often decent, clean and extremely naive, which make them a nice playground for sociopathic nymphomaniacs.

Guys, the actuality of dreamed-of rampant, unfettered and casual sex may not quite what it is imagined. It is also more than likely to be harmful. Of course one could meet a nice lady, and why not, there are a lot of nice ladies 'out there', but please keep your eyes wide open. As for not using one's real name, that is de rigeur!

Gorgeous, unless you are really living with someone, don't put say you are in a relationship. Who knows what the future holds and you could just as easily break-up in a few months, especially with the stress of an unresolved divorce. Keep it simple and stay 'single'.

'Sociopathic nymphomaniacs' - why wasn't this mentioned in my career counselling! You certainly make it sound like a lot more fun than I've been having. Will have to see if they run a course for mature students...

Quite right on the dating sites advice - extremely scarry places although if the whole horror of divorce is fading enough to make you think you might like a relationship again - going on a dating site will cure you of any of that. Good cheap aversion therapy.

Single is much better, I havent had to look for the remote control in ages.... RasherX

Rasher,

Not only does the remote stay where you left it, but I would expect a man to arrive with chocolates and flowers and when he leaves he takes his dirty laundry with him!

(I know I do) he-he!

my so so nearly x said hed pay me x amount a month extra at fh if i said i would not form relationship for 5 years...hello controlled me long enough and i can earn that in 2 days a month so declined his GENEROUS offer
you guys go out for it and take no prisoners
looby xxx