heads done in

hi people my heads done .the last eight weeks has been a nightmare its has if my wife has woken and said she does,nt love me any more we,ve been married for seven years but we,ve been together for sixteen years.we have two kids 15 and 5 i love my wife to bits ive never let her down and i dont think she,s cheating on me?.we have only ten years left to pay on our house were would i stand on that?? were not arguing just no love or sex.does it sound like a midlife crises????

Hello Scottyboy

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dukey

Hi Scottyboy

Wont say I know what you are going through, but currently going through a similair situation. Married 17 years 3 fab kids aged 14, 10 and 9. Back in November get told she is unhappy and wants a divorce. We hardly ever argued, certainly no abuse or affairs ~(from my side anyway) Returned from our summer holiday in the middle of Sept and appeared to of had a great time, then 2 months later told she wants divorce. Received the petition in the post in January without being told it was on the way. Still living in the same house - mid life crisis ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?

Felt like shit to start with and as the months creep on it does get a little better. Am sure with time things will keep improving. Biggest worry are my kids and finances....

Wait and see is my current motto