| Outcome of todays mediation well had my first mediation appointment today and although very stressful I feel like I have come away more positive.
Two options to me really offered ... Latest 23 Oct 12 by positive99 | Replies:2 :321 | Latest by positive99 23 Oct 12 |
| Does mediation work? I've noticed there aren't many post in the "Mediation" section of the forum, which makes me think not many people actually use it. Or maybe it's that ... Latest 23 Oct 12 by ochreloca | Replies:26 :1603 | |
| Couple of questions re:mediation I just wondered about a few things:
Will a mediator discuss / encourage / actively discourage us from talking about the reasons the marriage failed?
Do ... 19 Oct 12, by halflifedecay Latest 19 Oct 12 by WhiteRose | Replies:1 :347 | |
| Mediation paperwork. I am still seething after mediation from hell on Thursday, when the mediator ( a Solicitor) was rude/unprofessional and didn t even know the law, it is such a s ... Latest 15 Oct 12 by cliasmol£7 | Replies:8 :795 | Latest by cliasmol£7 15 Oct 12 |
| Mediation in a Separation My stbx''s solictor has written informing me that she wishes to pursue a Deed of Separation. The letter also informs me that the (previously informally agreed, ... 13 Oct 12, by halflifedecay Latest 15 Oct 12 by halflifedecay | Replies:3 :389 | Latest by halflifedecay 15 Oct 12 |
| In same room? I went to see mediator recently and she said I would have to sit in same room as X. I contested this but she seemed to know her job, obviously. After my apprais ... 11 Oct 12, by Gloriasurvive Latest 12 Oct 12 by maisymoos | Replies:4 :366 | |
| Mediation from hell Dear All,
Many thanks for all your support.
I knew this morning was going to be difficult, but not to the extent it was.
Mediation Solicitor was bas ... Latest 11 Oct 12 by sulkypants | Replies:3 :320 | Latest by sulkypants 11 Oct 12 |
| Is it worth going ? I am due to go to mediation later in week to swap financial forms with husband.
He is self employed but works through Ltd companies, which are only him, ref ...
Latest 10 Oct 12 by cliasmol£7 | Replies:8 :748 | Latest by cliasmol£7 10 Oct 12 |
| Is it worth going back to mediation ? I went a few weeks ago with husband to mediation, he lied about his employment status, when I confronted mediation service about fact that he had wrong form the ... Latest 26 Sep 12 by Action | Replies:3 :406 | |
| Mediation - I''ve been asked if i will go to mediation, they tell me it should take 3 1.5hour session - but these are to be done indivually - can some please explain furthe ... 16 Sep 12, by AwaitingDivorce Latest 17 Sep 12 by leanng | Replies:5 :339 | |
| Form A accepted without mediation? STBX contacted a mediator earlier this year, but I declined to attend on the basis that we had already negotiated for three years (directly and via solicitors) ... Latest 09 Sep 12 by SilverFir | Replies:3 :347 | |
| Mediation farce! So ex finally turned up to our mediation appointment. Was obvious from start he wasn''t willing to try as he had brought none of the financial documents request ... Latest 31 Aug 12 by MrsMathsisfun | Replies:6 :366 | Latest by MrsMathsisfun 31 Aug 12 |
| Mediation Having recently been made redundant, i now have to apply for legal aid. To get legal i have been told i MUST go through mediation. My divorce is at financial st ... Latest 22 Aug 12 by .Charles | Replies:2 :334 | |
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| Validity Period of FM1? Looks like I''m going to have to play any divorce & financial orders absolutely by the book, as I''m being thwarted by any attempts to move things along Latest 22 Aug 12 by Elphie | Replies:6 :616 | |
| Mediation & Settlement Hi,
Just wanted to ask a question about inheritance as there seems to be lots of conflicting information!
My partner has been separted for nea ... Latest 15 Aug 12 by robinson25 | Replies:10 :777 | Latest by robinson25 15 Aug 12 |
| can he take the house? I went to a mediator for an initial consultation, she said she was certain that with the little equity that would be in our property that a court would entertai ... 06 Jun 12, by Gloriasurvive Latest 11 Aug 12 by ascatfish | Replies:11 :849 | |
| help mediation costs have been to mediation with a solicitor and is was quite frankly useless. i paid for all the sessions up to the last session totaling £900. the last session i ... Latest 07 Aug 12 by TBagpuss | Replies:1 :401 | |
| cancelled well my first mediation appointment with ex was yesterday and surprise surprise he cancelled it on the morning!
Would have been more shocked if he hadn ... Latest 06 Aug 12 by Stingrayj | Replies:7 :919 | |
| mediation with a restraining order Hi all
Just like to say what a fantastic site with a wealth of information on it
i am currently bound by a restraining order to no contact wit ... Latest 05 Aug 12 by tonyshrops | Replies:3 :578 | Latest by tonyshrops 05 Aug 12 |
| First mediation session I have just been to my first mediation and it was dreadful can anybody help.
Started by the female mediator in my 121 stating the last time she had a S ... Latest 16 Jul 12 by Fiona | Replies:10 :876 | |
| survived 1st mediation Well I survived it, and my ex husband lost his cool, lovely. He showed his cards seems he wants a better house and is worried that when his pension comes out ne ... | Replies:0 :321 | |
| Do I need to attend? My stbx has refused to enter into mediation. However, the mediation service have told me I still need to pay £65 to attend a session before they''ll provide m ... 26 Jun 12, by Salisburyeagle Latest 26 Jun 12 by lonely and confused | Replies:5 :414 | Latest by lonely and confused 26 Jun 12 |
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| mediation first visit HELP I have just got my date for mediation.
I posted in then divorce section then found this.
my ex is going to reduce me to rubble as he has done for t ... Latest 01 Jun 12 by epitome title | Replies:3 :402 | Latest by epitome title 01 Jun 12 |
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| Re Mediation Meeting Went to second mediation meeting today ... awful! Hoped to discuss living arrangements (we''re both living in FH still - unbearable!) Is there point continuing? ... Latest 30 May 12 by Action | Replies:1 :389 | |
| Combination of mediation and court. Hi,
I have had to go back for another initial mediation session because I am changing solicitor and it has been more than 4 months since my last visit. ... 26 May 12, by xxxxhelpxxxx Latest 27 May 12 by LittleMrMike | Replies:1 :327 | Latest by LittleMrMike 27 May 12 |
| Mediation spreadsheet I have to complete this and am confused. My ex lives in the martial home with her new partner - she denies he makes any contributions. I live in my new home wit ... Latest 26 May 12 by Bobbinalong | Replies:4 :769 | Latest by Bobbinalong 26 May 12 |
| the financial spreadsheet for mediation Hi, Just started mediation and have disclosed our respected finances on individual spreadsheet before meeting. Now the controlling STBX has contacted the mediat ... Latest 24 May 12 by Fiona | Replies:1 :725 | |
| Mediation Before Separation So, I am going through a slow and protracted relationship breakdown. The causes are my partner''s controlling, and what I consider to be, constant abusive behav ... Latest 24 May 12 by Fiona | Replies:4 :330 | |
| Mediation My husband and I are due to attend our 2nd mediation meeting on the 29th. I know my husband is dragging his feet. We live in the same house and have done since ... Latest 20 May 12 by MrsMathsisfun | Replies:1 :350 | Latest by MrsMathsisfun 20 May 12 |
| Can I bypass mediation? Bear with me, I have good reason for doing so!
Am about to start divorce proceedings then financial proceedings in England, but have already been throu ... Latest 16 May 12 by epitome title | Replies:6 :551 | Latest by epitome title 16 May 12 |
| Financial agreement My ex and I are thinking of going to the family mediators to help us to agree our financial settlement for our divorce. Has anyone any experience in doing it th ... Latest 15 May 12 by Imediate | Replies:3 :304 | |
| How do I initiate mediation? My X has approached me and I agree we need to now go to mediation.
How do I go about this as cheaply and as cheaply as possible, money is getting so ti ... 09 May 12, by Gloriasurvive Latest 13 May 12 by Imediate | Replies:2 :565 | |
| Mediation Help My husband and I are due to go to our second meeting soon (initiated by him following his first hefty bill from his solicitor). Our first meeting in Feb. was a ... Latest 13 May 12 by Imediate | Replies:2 :333 | |
| Mediation financial forms- help needed Hi
I have my first joint mediation meeting with ex in a week and have to complete the financial information form.
My question is - I am self employed, i ... 08 May 12, by madcatwoman Latest 08 May 12 by madcatwoman | Replies:2 :422 | Latest by madcatwoman 08 May 12 |
| mediation request Received letter today from mediation place. Ex''s solicitor has requested it. I have been asking for mediation for over a year now but told no, now ex wants it! ... Latest 08 May 12 by ascatfish | Replies:6 :391 | |
| Legal help and mediation I understand if you are getting legal help then mediation is free?
Ex is on legal help and has a solicitor who after ages has requested mediation. Someone h ...
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| Any advice or tips We''ve got our first mediation session on Monday where after the initial discussion with each of us there will be a joint meeting.
I am really not look ... Latest 28 Apr 12 by Action | Replies:1 :331 | |