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10 Aug 16 #482348 by narcissist...free

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When myself and STBX disclosed our income/outgoings,during mediation, STBX provided hand written details of his income from self employed jobs he had carried out.
The mediator took copies,for our file i presume.
Can i request copies of these details, from the mediator or do i have to ask my STBX for copies.

dukey
Moderator

12 Aug 16 #482426 by dukey

Reply from dukey

That would be decided by the mediator, though i doubt they would agree, but its a question for the mediator, there is no rule as such for your question.

WinterBaby
Elite Member

22 Aug 16 #482842 by WinterBaby

Reply from WinterBaby

You're entitled to have a copy of those so I'm unsure why the mediator didn't give you those. I would ask to see the bank statements so you can see if the amounts add up.

WalkofFreedom
Junior Member

01 Sep 16 #483169 by WalkofFreedom

Reply from WalkofFreedom

My mediator told me that I was able to have copies of everything that the other side disclosed to them, paperwork, emails etc.

The other side could do the same.

Ask away.

Also, self-employed jobs should be taxed etc. I would not rely on hand written notes. Ask for proper paperwork , even if a tax return.

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