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Conflict of interest?

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06 Dec 15 #470443 by ThomasJF98
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To anyone who could help with this:

My parents are divorcing after 40 years of marriage, and there is a potentially messy issue involving a commutation, property etc. I have discussed legal advice for them with my sister, who wants her husband, a divorce lawyer, to mediate/represent. My question is whether this is even allowed? Isn''t it a potential conflict of interest for someone to mediate in the divorce of their parents-in -law?

(I am not very keen on my sister''s husband, and don''t really trust him to do it fairly i.e. not rip us off.)

Thanks to anyone who could advise on this.

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06 Dec 15 #470448 by Still me
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I have no knowledge of the legality of your brother-in-law acting, but common sense would say someone neutral would be better for everyone. I''m sure he would act fairly but with an outsider there could be no recriminations.
I''m sorry to hear about your parents divorce, my husband and I are divorcing after 25 years and it has an impact on everyone. I hope it all gets sorted.

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28 Dec 15 #471219 by Kimberly branson
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I would suggest that this is most unwise. There needs to be complete independence

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28 Dec 15 #471224 by Ebonee67
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Please change your name Kimberley-this forum is intended to me annonomous. And I agree fully with your point.

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20 Jan 16 #472703 by bumbleberry
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We got advice from a solicitor who said she couldn''t be a mediator as we had seen her for advice so no it would not be appropriate

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