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I'm looking for a good divorce solicitor I am looking for a REALLY good divorce solicitor. I am going to be applying to the courts to be a litigation friend for my father who has Alzhiemers and needs t ... 19 Feb 23, by esal75 Latest 04 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :398	Latest by hadenoughnow 04 Mar 23
I'm looking for a good divorce solicitor I am looking for a REALLY good divorce solicitor. I am going to be applying to the courts to be a litigation friend for my father who has Alzhiemers and needs t ... 19 Feb 23, by esal75 Latest 04 Mar 23 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :376	Latest by hadenoughnow 04 Mar 23
Glad to be here I am currently a respondent whose realised the incidences that I've "let go" or ignored over the years in married life, were fuel to dark smoldering e ... 14 Jan 23, by Bettereveryday Latest 10 Feb 23 by 2023plsseeme	Replies:1 :490	Latest by 2023plsseeme 10 Feb 23
mortgage Hi , Good Day yo everyone here. I am completely lost at my lowest point in my life when my my husband ask for separation or divorce. I need your advise ... 08 Feb 23, by mhelay	Replies:0 :581
Getting my s**t together Hi so glad I finally found a place I feel I belong in the most turbulent chaos that is my life … however the conditional order is applied for and I’m moving ... 06 Dec 22, by HOLD_ON	Replies:0 :601
Individual story My husband left 2 years ago saying he had a midlife crisis but came back after 6 months and just wanted to carry on as before, even though he wasn’t happy. He ... 21 Nov 22, by Struggling51	Replies:0 :393
Forms D11 and D36 The husband applied for divorce and was granted a Decree Nisi - The husband has applied for the Decree Absolute but due to the length of time expired between th ... 07 Nov 22, by Rubberband	Replies:0 :399
Living the worst life right now I am going through a very acrimonious separation/divorce. We are both 52 years old and have a 10 year old child. He has a fully instructed solicitor and \| sou ... 31 Oct 22, by EnJayAitch	Replies:0 :728
36 Years and out Hi, I am the process of divorcing my husband after 36 years or marriage, having been with him since we were 18. He wanted the divorce, I didn’t but hey that ... 27 Aug 21, by Startingagainlol Latest 27 Oct 22 by Startingagainlol 1 2 3	Replies:14 :3065	Latest by Startingagainlol 27 Oct 22
Time to get out Afternoon all, This is my first post. I have been sepererated for over 10 years and it is time to bring this matter to an end. My soon to be ex husb ... 23 Oct 22, by NewThing26	Replies:0 :405
Stuck! Hi All, Here's a strange one for you. I've been trying to get divorced since spring 2020 and everything has stalled. My wife had an affair 2012/13 which I f ... 13 Oct 22, by Running Baldy Latest 15 Oct 22 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :580	Latest by hadenoughnow 15 Oct 22
Howdy do... Just saying hello Have a wonderful situation ongoing that i ... 13 Sep 22, by darren2012	Replies:0 :390
Divorce Hello, wonder if you can help me, my husband left the family home 8 years ago when our kids were 16 and 19, we have had no contact since. He was abusive ... 05 Sep 22, by Shoebury76	Replies:0 :349
Divorce Hi guys, my hb wants to start the divorce proceedings so soon. We are separated. We have not sorted out the finances or anything yet. I am concerned if I sign t ... 31 Aug 22, by rocketgirl Latest 31 Aug 22 by rubytuesday	Replies:2 :508	Latest by rubytuesday 31 Aug 22
Just entered the shock of my wife wanting divorce I feel lost scared angry and clueless as to how to prevent being taken for a ride ... 18 Aug 22, by Dancg Latest 22 Aug 22 by hadenoughnow	Replies:2 :462	Latest by hadenoughnow 22 Aug 22
Fmh Hi divorced 6 years sepporated 12 years court order and agreement 80 20 split no mortgage all paid off by me son 20 years old and at colle ... 29 Jul 22, by Numpty56 Latest 10 Aug 22 by Numpty56	Replies:5 :749	Latest by Numpty56 10 Aug 22
Feeling fearful of proceeding Hi forum members i would appreciate your suggestions on here please. I have just joined this forum so quite a newbie. I’ve been married for 22 years ... 21 Jul 22, by Stormy22 Latest 30 Jul 22 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :430	Latest by hadenoughnow 30 Jul 22
Divorce process when married to Thai/UK national, living in the UK Hi I am looking for some advice or if anyone has experienced anything similar in the past. I currently have an appointment book with a solicitor in the UK for n ... 15 Jul 22, by Yorkskev Latest 19 Jul 22 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :600	Latest by hadenoughnow 19 Jul 22
Schedule of loss How do. Just retired bloke, man of many talents. Had to relocate away from my two sons because of ex's harrassment. Spent almost exactly 20 years cohab ... 22 Jun 22, by les2106@hotmail.com Latest 25 Jun 22 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :442	Latest by hadenoughnow 25 Jun 22
Anyone else divorce after 1-year of marriage? Hi, I was referred to this site from Mens Advice Line. I’m a month away from my 1-year wedding anniversary and I’m pretty much done and mentally re ... 23 Jun 22, by Hitori	Replies:0 :468
Struggling Hi, I'm new to this whole process and its - its awful. Can someone answer me a few questions? If one person doesn't want to go to try me ... 22 Jun 22, by seabz	Replies:0 :2398
Hi just separated and starting divorce Hi I have been married for 32 years my wife has used me as her personal money tree for the last 15 years despite working herself, not once has she helped to pay ... 15 May 22, by Stuart123 Latest 02 Jun 22 by Somethingnice	Replies:1 :520	Latest by Somethingnice 02 Jun 22
1st post Hi this is my first post I am into the 5th week of my world crashing down. I discovered my husband was cheating in me. We had been together for 23 years (18 yea ... 10 May 22, by Mcbear	Replies:0 :615
Struggling to make the jump My husband and I have been together since I was 15. 29 years. We have been married for 20 years. We have two beautiful children 10 and 8. We both have good jobs ... 13 Sep 21, by Turn the page Latest 05 Apr 22 by Turn the page	Replies:3 :905	Latest by Turn the page 05 Apr 22
1st post - Introduction Hello everyone! My wife and I have been separated for almost three years. We have the decree nisi. I'm hoping to self represent, however it's provi ... 01 Mar 22, by Secret Whispers Latest 02 Mar 22 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :397	Latest by rubytuesday 02 Mar 22
Please help! Hello and thanks in advance for any help here. I’m recently divorced and have my Decree Absolute. My ex-husband tried to prevent at the last minute by sendi ... 05 Dec 21, by Angiebmw Locked Latest 06 Dec 21 by rubytuesday Locked	Replies:5 :785	Latest by rubytuesday 06 Dec 21
Hi and a question Just starting an amicable separation (long may it last) and trying not to involve solicitors. As part of separation from my wife we want to transfer joint owner ... 25 Nov 21, by jellytee Latest 04 Dec 21 by jellytee	Replies:2 :463	Latest by jellytee 04 Dec 21
no hate just not very happy Hi all, i've lurked a little bit here but now trying to get my head around what lies ahead. I suppose luckily there is no hate, no cheating, no anger e ... 11 Nov 21, by debs78derby	Replies:0 :431
discharging maintenance Hi. I'm new here, hello everyone and thank you to all those who support those like myself. I am 10 years divorced. I have a consent Order which includes m ... 30 Oct 21, by dignus	Replies:0 :6954
Property issues My husband and I married just over two years ago. we have recently separated He has is own paid mortgage family home which he has let his kids rent ... 20 Oct 21, by fedup 1 Latest 22 Oct 21 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:3 :616	Latest by WYSPECIAL 22 Oct 21
Hello, and please help ? Hi all ?? im another “never thought it’d happen to me” who’s completely lost on what to do, where to go etc The only advice I’ve been g ... 16 Oct 21, by NotBroken	Replies:0 :476
Doing it yourself with a barrister... ditching the solicitor. Insight? Hello, I am new here and diving into a complex divorce driven by the disclosure of my husband's sexual abuse of our daughter over a 4 year period. I found out o ... 10 Oct 21, by LaikasOrbit Latest 11 Oct 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :659	Latest by hadenoughnow 11 Oct 21
Financial Settlement Hi, I need some advice as I am 18 months into a divorce and still have no financial settlement. We were married for 17 years and have two children (13 &15 ... 04 Oct 21, by EW123 Latest 09 Oct 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:6 :797	Latest by hadenoughnow 09 Oct 21
Devasted Hi all. I wonder if my husband will still be entitled to 50% when we sell the house due to divorce? He has cheated with women on line for years and I recently f ... 25 Sep 21, by Devastated1 Latest 03 Oct 21 by Vigorate 1 2	Replies:8 :1453	Latest by Vigorate 03 Oct 21
Hello Hi, I read about this site in an article about DIY divorces. I am separated and will soon be the respondent in divorce proceedings . As far as I am concerned I ... 19 Sep 21, by Hatton	Replies:0 :398
Advice about accessing money in house when kids involved Hi everyone, after a bit of advice. My wife and I have drifted apart, totally lost our spark and both agree we should divorce. We have 2 young childre ... 31 Aug 21, by Andy8766454 Latest 31 Aug 21 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :525	Latest by WYSPECIAL 31 Aug 21
Difficult ex won't sign papers Hi so I'm trying to get a divorce but my ex will not cummincate with me. It took 6 months to get an address for when I file for divorce. It is not there address ... 28 Aug 21, by Cazzybear1536	Replies:0 :690
After 5yrs apart best way to divorce Hi all I am Chris I'm after advice on best way to get divorced as it will be 5yrs in next week September 2021 I have paid the ex out with a disclosure ... 25 Aug 21, by B1968 Latest 26 Aug 21 by hadenoughnow	Replies:3 :726	Latest by hadenoughnow 26 Aug 21
New to the divorce process Hi, I’m new here. My husband of 25 years walked out 2 weeks ago and is asking for a quick divorce. After he had an affair many years ago, was caught drink dri ... 06 Aug 21, by Toonicetogetdivorced Latest 10 Aug 21 by Toonicetogetdivorced 1 2	Replies:7 :1275	Latest by Toonicetogetdivorced 10 Aug 21
What if I want to sell property and wife doesn’t? Hi, I’m currently still living with my wife for various reasons even though we separated nearly a year ago. I would rather sell the property when we divorce b ... 01 Aug 21, by ZTT Latest 01 Aug 21 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :563	Latest by WYSPECIAL 01 Aug 21

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