Wrote him a beggin letter - no reply

Stripe. I think you have your answer. No contact means he doesnt want to know. Sorry to say this but it looks like it to me. How did you get to this state? What did you do to him? If I was you I would set about a re-invent programe to sort what ever issues you have. That way if he does ever come back you will be in a better position to accept / reject him. Going back is not always and option and sometimes its best to draw a line under it all and move on. Learn what ever lessons you need to learn. Chris.

I agree with Chris on this one Stripeuk, If he hasnt contacted you I would make the assumption that he doesnt want to and (without meaning to sound cruel) is hoping you stop contacting him.

I understand how difficult this must be for you but try to focus on yourself for now, carry on with your counselling and dealing with your own issues...witout knowing the full circumstances around your situation it is hard to comment but I get the sense that you have also hurt him??

Whatever happens, try to concentrate on the future and learn from the past but dont dwell on it!

Take care
Bridge x

I feel for you.
He doesnt want contact and by you calling only makes it harder for yourself.

For your own sake and well being I would say don;t call again.
You have done it and he has chosen not to speak.

He will have his own way of dealing with this awful time, and that may well be not communicating with you..... I for one, ignore all my husbands mails and texts and he took to ringing my mum and it got awful - I wanted him to go away!

I agree with Bridget de jour, focus on the future and try to move on, hard as it is, it is what we all must do - sooner rather than later.

I wish you well

If your going to relate do it for you not for him.It is only 3 months for me but the turning point for me was after 3wks I left a message on his phone saying I wanted to die (and I realy did). I realised when he didn't respond or contact anyone else for me that he didn't care. It is so very hard to move on when it's not your choice but you have no say in what he does. You can only chose for youself.So whatever it is do it for YOU.
Good luck