Rose Order Please help very confused

I went to FDR in May 2024 and I was a litigant in Person and ex wife had a solicitor and Barrister. Ex wife is on Universal Credit and living in a Council House with my 3 children. Ex-Wife never worked as she choose not to thourghout our marriage.

At FDR 50% of my civil service pension and 67% of Matrimonial house sale proceeds has to be given to my ex-wife. At the FDR the Judge said a Rose Order will be given, I asked her "what is that" and she said because the pension company has to come back and say they will give a pension sharing order.

Ex wife solicitor sent an email to civil service pension scheme in May 2024 with Form A attached (I dont know why she did not give the rose order to cival service on the email) straight away after FDR but I have not received any emails from civil service since May 2024. As requested by me, barrister wrote up the Rose Order and Judge signed it and me on that FDR Day in May 2024.

I complied with Rose Order and house was sold this month. I have followed all the rules. Ex -wife caused mayhem throughout the fiancnial procedings.

What I would like to know is the Rose Order sealed by the Judge? it had the Judge signature and above her signature she wrote "approved as a Rose Order". What does it mean by a sealed Financial Order?

If pension sharing order is completed (100% civil service pension can be shared), do we need to go back to court again to change the Rose Order to a final Financial Order?

It is my ex wife solicitors responsibility to chase up civil service to get the pension sharing order completed not mine, but she has done nothing in 7 months.

On the Rose Court Order it say after house is sold (sold in December 2024, you have 28 days to pay. I am worried if I pay the house sale proceeds money now and she goes back to court to take more from me to vary the rose order in future.Should I pay her this lump sum from the house sale or should I wait for the pension sharing to be completed?

Please help, not sure what to do.

Any response from anyone I would be very grateful grateful