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05 Oct 09 #152051 by Saturdad
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I have now, regretfully, filed and served form C100 as my ex has refused to discuss contact, although she has agreed to mediation (but is refusing to discuss contact in the sessions).

The details contained within C100 are brief, as the guidelines suggest. Should I begin preparing a statement, chronology etc, or is that jumping the gun? I'm a LIP, hence asking.

I am hoping most strongly that we get nowhere near a court and that this will be a catalyst to a dialogue, but I guess I have to prepare for otherwise..

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05 Oct 09 #152100 by Forseti
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You should certainly prepare a chronology, and there is no harm in sketching out a statement. I would also prepare a parenting plan so you will be able to ask the court exactly what contact you want.

I assume your ex is represented and that is why she has agreed to mediation (though apparently not to mediate - you can lead a horse to water...).

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