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Ancillary Relief 5721 topics

Discuss all aspects of Ancillary Relief: when and how to apply, and the various stages of the court process from disclosure through to a final hearing.
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Unredacted bank statements
Hi all
jusy received questionnaire replies from ex's solictor
judge requested unredacted business bank statements from ex and his solictor has sent heav ...
26 Jan 21, by emlouw11
Latest 27 Jan 21 by hadenoughnow
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Latest by hadenoughnow
27 Jan 21
Worst case scenario
My partner separated from his ex 8 years ago, after 8 years together (5 years cohabiting, 2.5ish years married). The both worked and she received an inheritance ...
30 Dec 20, by Srossees
Latest 16 Jan 21 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:832
Latest by hadenoughnow
16 Jan 21
FDR Skeleton Argument document
I have heard that there is a Skeleton Argument document that is useful to submit on the day before so that judge can read before the hearing.

Can you d ...
12 Dec 20, by xbot
Latest 11 Jan 21 by fmchugha3d
Replies:6
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Latest by fmchugha3d
11 Jan 21
Self ref and unbundled service
Hi,

Would it be advisable to self represent for financial settlement proceedings?

Also, has anyone used unbundled service before and are they ...
04 Jan 21, by garymorris
Latest 05 Jan 21 by .Charles
Replies:1
:556
Latest by .Charles
05 Jan 21
Decree Absolute before Financial proceedings are finalised
Hi everyone,

I have been reading this forum for some time now, and it has been really helpful to get some genuine information as I'm on a low budget an ...
12 Aug 20, by Gustaf
Latest 04 Jan 21 by Gustaf
Replies:3
:803
Latest by Gustaf
04 Jan 21
Who to pay the settlement to?
Our final hearing was Christmas week when I was ordered to pay my ex £20K. I had already given him £5K, so I now have to pay him £15K, within 28 days; howev ...
03 Jan 21, by M2020
Latest 03 Jan 21 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:589
Latest by hadenoughnow
03 Jan 21
Short Marriage
So married for 2 1/2 years but lived together for only 8months. For 22 months of marriage wife stayed in Sri Lanka whilst visa was approved. During this time sh ...
27 Dec 20, by Graff
Latest 28 Dec 20 by Graff
Replies:1
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Latest by Graff
28 Dec 20
Financial proceedings complete
I had my final hearing 5 days ago. We were only married 14 months, but the financial settlement took 3 years to finalise. We’re both in our 60s, both housed ...
27 Dec 20, by M2020
Latest 27 Dec 20 by Vigorate
Replies:1
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Latest by Vigorate
27 Dec 20
Without Prejudice offer for FDR
I would like to know how to send the Without Prejudice offer for financial settlement for FDR, is there a letter or template to fill out? Thanks ...
10 Dec 20, by xbot
Latest 11 Dec 20 by .Charles
Replies:3
:1866
Latest by .Charles
11 Dec 20
Costs and N260
I am preparing my schedule of costs, form N260 for final hearing in a few weeks. I have received ad hoc advice from a solicitor and I have identified their cos ...
30 Nov 20, by M2020
Latest 06 Dec 20 by .Charles
Replies:7
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Latest by .Charles
06 Dec 20
Enforcing Financial Order - non-cooperation from EX
A final order by District Judge allows me to pay lump sum to Ex (raising funds from re-mortgage), with simultaneous vacation of home by Ex and transfer title fr ...
24 Nov 20, by nairsanty
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Filing and serving S25 statements
S25 statements are due to be filed and served tomorrow, I have mine ready to go, but despite emailing the applicant’s solicitor a week ago, to confirm if the ...
22 Nov 20, by M2020
Latest 22 Nov 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:728
Latest by hadenoughnow
22 Nov 20
Delaying the degree absolute after degree nisi pronounced due to finances still
The degree nisi has already been pronounced and the degree absolute can be issued this next week by the applicant in the divorce.

As the respondent I a ...
16 Nov 20, by Lex123
Latest 18 Nov 20 by Lex123
Replies:3
:699
Latest by Lex123
18 Nov 20
How to request accurate Form E to be filed?
My FDR is coming up in a few weeks. My ex has not filled in their Form E correctly, missing key information relating to their new marital status. I raised this ...
17 Nov 20, by AlanPartridge
Latest 17 Nov 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:634
Latest by hadenoughnow
17 Nov 20
Items not listed in FormE but discovered later
We have already filed Form E and financial disclosure and had the FDA.
We have already exchanged questionnaires and replies and are at the supplementary sta ...
15 Oct 20, by denpat
Latest 14 Nov 20 by denpat
Replies:5
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Latest by denpat
14 Nov 20
Clean break order wording
Hi
My ex and I are in the process of completing a consent order for a clean break. We're both on tight finances so can't afford a solicitor and I wondered i ...
11 Nov 20, by erikab87
Latest 13 Nov 20 by .Charles
Replies:1
:554
Latest by .Charles
13 Nov 20
Critical illness question.
My husband and I are separating and we are having a dispute with regard to the division of our home.

14 years ago I was diagnosed with Multiple Scleros ...
03 Nov 20, by Itallgottoomuch
Latest 03 Nov 20 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
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Latest by WYSPECIAL
03 Nov 20
Form A
Hi everyone and thanks in advance for your help.
The family Court has granted a decree NiSA for my ex unreasonable behaviour and I started an application fo ...
20 Oct 20, by Deflorio
Latest 24 Oct 20 by Deflorio
Replies:2
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Latest by Deflorio
24 Oct 20
Form E, full of lies
I have just received an incomplete form E (which seems to be normal, looking at the forum).

However, in addition to missing information there are a few ...
19 Oct 20, by Gustaf
Replies:0
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Ex hasn't filled out Form E completely!
Hi all,

I'm sure that this topic has been discussed before many times but just for my sake if someone could shed a little light?

My ex and I h ...
21 Sep 20, by littleproblems
Latest 19 Oct 20 by Stymied
Replies:2
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Latest by Stymied
19 Oct 20
Finances
Hi
So I was married for 2 years and wife came to UK after 11 months, so we actually only lived together for 9 months.

We have no joint assets.
...
13 Oct 20, by Graff
Latest 15 Oct 20 by Ghosted
Replies:4
:640
Latest by Ghosted
15 Oct 20
Financial remedy
Good afternoon.
I submitted my divorce which was ignored but I had proof of receipt. It is in the process of deemed service with the court.
My solicitor ...
08 Oct 20, by Williamwallace
Latest 12 Oct 20 by Williamwallace
Replies:2
:652
Latest by Williamwallace
12 Oct 20
Delay FDR
Hello, my FDR is on the 3rd of November and I I have just been diagnosed with colon cancer. As you can imagine I’m finding it hard enough representing my self ...
09 Oct 20, by Juneunderpants
Latest 10 Oct 20 by Juneunderpants
Replies:2
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Latest by Juneunderpants
10 Oct 20
Inheritance
got divorced 10 years ago after 18 years decree absolute done then no financial order just got inheritance like a house all kids are over 18 can ex claim my hou ...
27 Sep 20, by N290210
Latest 29 Sep 20 by N290210
Replies:10
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Latest by N290210
29 Sep 20
D81 Form Advice
Hi

My ex and I have agreed the particulars for a consent order and i am just waiting on the draft to be sent to me to approve. In the meantime they hav ...
22 Sep 20, by oceanlava
Replies:0
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Conducts
Where can I get a list of Conducts that are allowable for Divorce Financial Remedy? ...
19 Sep 20, by xbot
Latest 21 Sep 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
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Latest by hadenoughnow
21 Sep 20
URGENT PLEASE!: How to withdraw D11 application to set aside a consent order
I signed a Consent order that was sealed on 5 March 2020. My decree absolute came though on 3 Jun 2020. I had a family business with my wife up until November 2 ...
12 Sep 20, by Trebor1234
Replies:0
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Form D81
Completing the form D81 and there are no problems except for one matter. My grandfather set up a Discretionary Trust in the 1990's and I am included as one of t ...
31 Aug 20, by dingalo
Latest 09 Sep 20 by dingalo
Replies:2
:558
Latest by dingalo
09 Sep 20
First hearing - ex non compliant
First hearing is later this month. I've sent my ex my Form E and paperwork but haven't had theirs and emails from my solicitor go un-answered. It can't be ok to ...
03 Aug 20, by Flower64
Latest 07 Sep 20 by Flower64
Replies:3
:749
Latest by Flower64
07 Sep 20
S25 statement
I’m preparing my S25 statement for the final hearing, I know what to write under each section, (I think) but do I need to attach supporting documents for each ...
29 Aug 20, by M2020
Latest 06 Sep 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:532
Latest by hadenoughnow
06 Sep 20
Partner not engaging in Financial remedy proceedings
Hi,
Please can you advise me on what steps I can take to get a Clean Break order as cheaply and quickly as possible.

I have begun Financial Remedy ...
06 Sep 20, by AMdiv
Latest 06 Sep 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:689
Latest by hadenoughnow
06 Sep 20
compulsory to submit Form H Schedule of cost before FDR, if self representing
Hello, I am self representing and ex has got solicitor to represent, Solicitor has submitter form H but do I need to submit form H as well or not as there is no ...
27 Aug 20, by newdivorce
Replies:0
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Looks like this is the route I'm taking
Have tried to get my STBXW to assist with the consent order and D180 form. To the point where I have more recently (2 weeks ago) even printed out the forms wit ...
27 Aug 20, by el_johnstone
Latest 27 Aug 20 by el_johnstone
Replies:3
:545
Latest by el_johnstone
27 Aug 20
Advice needed, please!
hi,
I'll try make this as short as possible.
My partner and his ex were married for 12 years, no kids.
Marital home had been sold, £100k equity.
24 Aug 20, by Needthistobeover!
Replies:0
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Statement of issues
Hi,

My FDA will take place on 16-11-2020 on I'm working on completing the various documents.
Form E is nearly done, so now I'm focussing on the sta ...
21 Aug 20, by Gustaf
Replies:0
:654

remote hearing due to Covid
I'm representing myself at the 1st appointment on 5th August. It will be done remotely. What do I need for my computer so I can attend the hearing via computer? ...
11 Jul 20, by Mary Magdalen
Latest 20 Aug 20 by diamond74
Replies:8
:1607
Latest by diamond74
20 Aug 20
Priority court directions or family procedure rules?
Independent valuer has provided property valuation report. Court directions stipulate specific date by which written questions are to be put to the valuer, howe ...
14 Aug 20, by M2020
Latest 17 Aug 20 by .Charles
Replies:3
:533
Latest by .Charles
17 Aug 20
Too late in the day and no merit in proceeding
Just had my FDA. The District Judge wasn't interested in the questionnaires etc just that she is considering striking out the application because it's "too ...
05 Aug 20, by Mary Magdalen
Latest 08 Aug 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:644
Latest by hadenoughnow
08 Aug 20
FDA and FDR combined
anyone had a combine FDA and FDR due to a court error ?

I have received both notices for the same day
court is not replying/clarifying therefore i ...
04 Aug 20, by Thirtysomething
Latest 08 Aug 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:506
Latest by hadenoughnow
08 Aug 20
No questionnaire ordered at FDA
Hi
Form E received from ex very poor-not unusual

Questionnaire 7 pages as error or lack of evidence in every section

At FDA ex over talked ...
10 May 20, by Soon to be free
Latest 04 Aug 20 by Soon to be free
Replies:2
:567
Latest by Soon to be free
04 Aug 20

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