I'm very confused and wondered if anyone could shed some light on this.
I have posted before so you may think this is repetition of something I've already asked but I am no clearer as to what to do next, if anything.
I decided to take ex to court to sort out our finances as he wasn't playing fair and wouldn't negotiate via
mediation. 2 young children involved so I needed to ensure we were okay for the near future. He has been unco-operative from the start, he filed in the
form E with the bare minimum and didn't/hasn't ever provided adequate supporting documents. Our FDR hearing was booked for last December, I requested this did not go ahead as there were many unanswered questions and evidence missing that needed to be given before a
fair settlement could be reached. Judge agreed and directions were sent out end of December. He was ordered to answer any questions I had previously posed by early January. He did not respond. I consulted a solicitor who advised I give him one last chance and so I wrote to him again asking for these said questions to be answered (note - these questions are based on undisclosed share valuations, a future dividend forecast and an undisclosed savings account which there is evidence for). Again, no reply by the date I gave him.
Now to my main question: in the December directions it was stated that we send each other our proposals as to a settlement no later than 7 days before our next hearing. Now this was based on the fact that he would respond to my questionnaire but I am STILL no clearer as to his finances therefore am I legally obliged to still make a proposal? I do not want to not do it for fear of not following orders and it going against me but would the judge see my point of view? What would happen if I left it and waited for our FDR?
I read that last year a law was passed that said proposals must be made so is this correct?
I don't expect a proposal to be made by him, I'm sure he thinks I will give up and accept his very first offer of 50% of the house and go away but I know I am entitled more simply because of the 2 children.
I am representing myself and only going to a solicitor when I can afford it which is very little. I asked this question of her but received no reply.
Any advice gratefully received.
Our FDR is scheduled for July 5th
Thank you